Hi I was looking for someone who can do a commissioned piece similar to this one? What would the cost be? I know this is ai a friend sent it to me, but I would love something similar with less fabric and shorter in the front and not as long in the back because it’s for a festival. Thank you!
TLDR; difference in motivation, effort, and self betterment
My partner and I have been together for 3 years and we both care and love each other a lot. He has helped me through physical disability issues and my cptsd on a regular basis. I’m also there for him whenever he needs, but I have more intensive needs due to disabilities. He works quite a bit but I work as well regardless of my issues but less hours. We are kind and communicative with each other and I have expressed these issues to him already. He seems like he’s trying but I also have been communicating about these sorts of things for a couple years now. Here’s where my issues come in.
He is incredibly conflict adverse and has trouble standing up for himself (which I get due to his past relationships) but also it is detrimental sometimes. This also can happen when I’m addressing something in the relationship even though I try to be kind about it he said he hates letting me down so if I tell him something that upset me he can just fully shut down sometimes. He also has trauma so I try to be understanding and we talk things out.
He doesn’t think ahead often times and I end up feeling like I have to pick up the slack and make sure things are taken care of.
He often won’t take care of things unless I tell him to since we usually clean together one day a week. I did communicate I would appreciate if he just took initiative because at this point we’ve been together long enough for him to know what needs to be taken care of. I’ve seen some improvement. He also will fully help me with something if I ask him. He is also adhd and can be super forgetful even for things I know he cares about, but it can still be frustrating.
He has trouble taking care of himself regularly specifically brushing his teeth consistently, and I’ve been trying to get him to go to the doctor for a long time and he’s very avoidant about it. Hasn’t gone since childhood.
He is starting to regain some of his motivation to do something which whenever he brings stuff up I support it but he usually doesn’t stick with anything and ends up in a depressive cycle where he’s chronically exhausted. This is hard because I’m the kind of person who is working on a lot of skills to better myself and he often rather doom scroll or play video games which is a legit hobby but I wish he would also do some things that are creative that he says he wants to do or work on his/our future more versus usually trying to escape.
Anyways I truly care about this person and regardless of what happens I want them in my life. I just don’t know if I can handle this kind of dynamic long term in a partnership. I know he’s making effort to improve things but idk if it’s realistic that these things will ever change. This is the first non damaging relationship it feels like I’ve been in and he is largely my safe space and Vice Versa. I’m not sure if my trauma is making me panic about these things or if what I’m saying is valid. I have a lot of empathy for him as well. I just know sometimes when he says I’m his forever person this stuff comes up for me.
So the long and short of it is my Facebook account is stuck in a verification authentication loop. This started because I verified my business Instagram which was no problem whatsoever. I downloaded the authentication app and took care of it immediately. I then went to log into my personal Facebook page which is not associated with my business account so it really shouldn’t be having any issue and suddenly it’s saying to me that I have an official Meta verified page and I need more security authentication to even get in regardless of the fact it’s my personal page and not associated with that Instagram. It’s not allowing me to bypass or perform the authentication. I tried doing the authentication on Facebook, but it’s sending me in a loop once I get to the phone verification step. The email for the authentication sends just fine but once I get to the phone number component, it is looping me because it’s not ever sending a verification codes to my phone. I’ve checked the number I’ve sent the codes to, have tried using an incognito browser, I’ve deleted the app and cleared the cache, I’ve reinstalled it, used just cellular data, and it won’t give me the option to verify with id/authenticator/email/etc. Nothing is working whatsoever. I also even tried having the code send to my boyfriend‘s phone number, but that still didn’t work either so it seems like it’s an issue on metas side that they’re just not sending the code to a number regardless of what number I type. I’ve done pretty much everything on Google suggestions and meta and it has reaped zero results. The only thing I haven’t tried is waiting 24 hours until I do it again so now I’m stuck waiting and I don’t have much faith that it’s going to be different. About 10 years ago I lost a Facebook account I had since I was a little kid and lost all my pictures and everything on it and Meta did not help me at all back then either and there was no customer support then and it really is upsetting that to this day even when you’re paying them, there is no way to have a conversation with a person that could actually troubleshoot to help you with your situation because what I think is going on is a technical glitch. If anyone has any advice, please help me.