21 [M4F] #Connecticut

Hey, I’m Sav — 21 CT, active duty, and looking to meet someone I can genuinely connect with.

I’ve been replying to posts for a while, but it’s time to make my own. I’m not here for flings or chaos — I’m looking for something steady, meaningful, and built on real communication.

Who I am:

• Active duty with a stable full‑time career
• currently going to college while AD as a Triple major in Finance, Psychology, and Mathematics. (graduated HS 2 years early!)
• Writer — I’ve completed full novels, and one of them (The Place Where It Happens) is currently with a traditional publisher
• Music has been a huge part of my life:
• 14 years classical piano
• 11 years classical guitar
• 9 years saxophone

• I paint (digital/oil‑style), cook, and spend a lot of time outdoors
• I build entire worlds in Minecraft when I want to unwind — forests, cities, hidden places
• Calm, steady, grounded
• Very emotionally intelligent — I pick up on social cues, dynamics, and unspoken things extremely well
• I connect with almost anyone because I actually listen and understand people deeply
• I don’t judge — at all.
If you’re comfortable sharing something, I’m comfortable hearing it.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who values:

• consistency
• emotional maturity
• slow‑burn connection
• loyalty
• real communication
• someone who shows up

I’m introverted but warm once I trust someone. I like long conversations, quiet moments, and learning how someone thinks — what shaped them, what they care about, what they dream about.

Things we might connect on:

• Music (classical, indie, ambient, anything with depth)
• Psychology and understanding people
• Hiking, long walks, nature
• Gaming (Nintendo, Minecraft, story‑driven games)
• Cooking and trying new recipes
• Deep conversations, slow nights in, and building something meaningful
• Anything you have passion for, or deeply care about.

If you’re looking for someone stable, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely interested in who you are — not who you pretend to be — I’d like to talk.

Just be 18 or older, thanks.

Tell me something about you — what’s one thing you wish people noticed about you more often?

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u/Emotional_Dig_3203 — 15 hours ago

21M let’s get to know each other?

Hey, I’m Sav — 21 CT, active duty, and looking to meet someone I can genuinely connect with.

I’ve been replying to posts for a while, but it’s time to make my own. I’m not here for flings or chaos — I’m looking for something steady, meaningful, and built on real communication.

Who I am:

• Active duty with a stable full‑time career
• currently going to college while AD as a Triple major in Finance, Psychology, and Mathematics. (graduated HS 2 years early!)
• Writer — I’ve completed full novels, and one of them (The Place Where It Happens) is currently with a traditional publisher
• Music has been a huge part of my life:
• 14 years classical piano
• 11 years classical guitar
• 9 years saxophone

• I paint (digital/oil‑style), cook, and spend a lot of time outdoors
• I build entire worlds in Minecraft when I want to unwind — forests, cities, hidden places
• Calm, steady, grounded
• Very emotionally intelligent — I pick up on social cues, dynamics, and unspoken things extremely well
• I connect with almost anyone because I actually listen and understand people deeply
• I don’t judge — at all.
If you’re comfortable sharing something, I’m comfortable hearing it.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who values:

• consistency
• emotional maturity
• slow‑burn connection
• loyalty
• real communication
• someone who shows up

I’m introverted but warm once I trust someone. I like long conversations, quiet moments, and learning how someone thinks — what shaped them, what they care about, what they dream about.

Things we might connect on:

• Music (classical, indie, ambient, anything with depth)
• Psychology and understanding people
• Hiking, long walks, nature
• Gaming (Nintendo, Minecraft, story‑driven games)
• Cooking and trying new recipes
• Deep conversations, slow nights in, and building something meaningful
• Anything you have passion for, or deeply care about.

If you’re looking for someone stable, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely interested in who you are — not who you pretend to be — I’d like to talk.

Just be 18 or older, thanks.

Tell me something about you — what’s one thing you wish people noticed about you more often?

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u/Emotional_Dig_3203 — 12 days ago

[21M4F] [online/Us] quiet introvert looking for conversation

Hey, I’m Sav — 21 CT, active duty, and looking to meet someone I can genuinely connect with.

I’ve been replying to posts for a while, but it’s time to make my own. I’m not here for flings or chaos — I’m looking for something steady, meaningful, and built on real communication.

Who I am:

• Active duty with a stable full‑time career
• currently going to college while AD as a Triple major in Finance, Psychology, and Mathematics. (graduated HS 2 years early!)
• Writer — I’ve completed full novels, and one of them (The Place Where It Happens) is currently with a traditional publisher
• Music has been a huge part of my life:
• 14 years classical piano
• 11 years classical guitar
• 9 years saxophone

• I paint (digital/oil‑style), cook, and spend a lot of time outdoors
• I build entire worlds in Minecraft when I want to unwind — forests, cities, hidden places
• Calm, steady, grounded
• Very emotionally intelligent — I pick up on social cues, dynamics, and unspoken things extremely well
• I connect with almost anyone because I actually listen and understand people deeply
• I don’t judge — at all.
If you’re comfortable sharing something, I’m comfortable hearing it.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who values:

• consistency
• emotional maturity
• slow‑burn connection
• loyalty
• real communication
• someone who shows up

I’m introverted but warm once I trust someone. I like long conversations, quiet moments, and learning how someone thinks — what shaped them, what they care about, what they dream about.

Things we might connect on:

• Music (classical, indie, ambient, anything with depth)
• Psychology and understanding people
• Hiking, long walks, nature
• Gaming (Nintendo, Minecraft, story‑driven games)
• Cooking and trying new recipes
• Deep conversations, slow nights in, and building something meaningful
• Anything you have passion for, or deeply care about.

If you’re looking for someone stable, thoughtful, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely interested in who you are — not who you pretend to be — I’d like to talk.

Just be 18 or older, thanks.

Tell me something about you — what’s one thing you wish people noticed about you more often?

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u/Emotional_Dig_3203 — 13 days ago