u/Entire-Swimming3038

I am at a total and complete loss. This sub is filled with goddesses that have been through so much and almost know more than the professionals. Help me figure out what Im missing.

Im currently on 10 week mc number 3 in the last 15 months. I cannot seem to make it past about 10 weeks 2 days EACH TIME. First 2 - one euploid, 1 llm, same er. 3rd- euploid different er. All day 5s 4 and 5aa. 3 MC @ 10 wks!!!! WHY

Ive had every diagnostic, every immune test under the sun. All immune, all clotting, karyotype, uterine. You name it. Only pings I have are mild hashimotos my thyroid sets at 1.7. And my nk sets at 12.8.

This last pregnancy I did full immune protocol, lovenox, ldn, steroids, intralipids. YOU NAME IT. My betas were HIGH. I thought this was it! 9dpt 400 12dpt 1200 16dpt 12000

Tw: lc totally uneventful.

WTF happens at 10 weeks?? My only hypothesis that I cant prove or disprove is I dont make viable placentas anymore. Im 41. Waiting on genetic testing from fetus.

I dont know if I can continue I am broken. I have 2 more embryos. Do I find a real reproductive immunologist and run everything again? WHAT IS GOING WRONG 😩

My husband and I have been trying like hell to complete our family for almost two years. I have had 3 pgt ivf pregnancies that have all ended in mc at 10 weeks within the last year. Unfortunately I think my body is done and just cant carry a baby to term. This is just a small piece of my fertility journey, and would be happy to share my story to the right candidates. I have embryos ready to transfer.

Looking for a gc that has at least one surrogacy in her history, as well as really great references.

Thanks in advance. Please pm.

Discovered my 3rd 10 wk mc in 1.5 years today. Every single mc has happened at 10 and 2 almost EXACTLY.

These are pgt tested embryos, I have done every diagnostic and test under the sun, was on kitchen sink, Intralipids, and lovenox. Theres nothing “wrong” with me Tw: I have 2 lc.

I am at a loss and I think Im done. Since im 41 I believe its placental insufficiency. My body just doesn’t grow good placentas anymore. ☹️

My gf invited my husband and I to her birthday party. I accepted without hesitation as she is a closer friend. We then get a group text message saying were going on her friends boat and that we each need to bring an appetizer and drinks to share with the 12 people going. I was annoyed can someone not host some snacks and booze for a party they are “throwing” for themselves? (Middle of the day not around a meal time)

I let it go and was looking forward to celebrating until last night when I received a separate group text message from the birthday girls bff saying that she requested additional items: including sprinkles cupcakes in lieu of a birthday cake, certain types of candy, decor for the boat, jello shots etc. I was flabbergasted!! Shes not even providing her own birthday cake for her guests?

Some context- shes turning 51 not a young person on a budget, is spending 3 weeks in Europe this summer, etc.

I have such a bad taste in my mouth as I personally would never entertain this way, my husband is pissed and over it doesnt want to go, and I so badly want to give her a piece of mind but dont want to ruin the friendship… AIO??

EDIT: thanks for all your responses. Some really funny ones and some great perspective. Im not going, I am pregnant so im just gonna roll with that.

OHHH!!!! I forgot another glorious detail- SHE REQUESTED ALL GUESTS DRESS TO A SPECIFIC COLOR THEME- PINK WHITE ORANGE YELLOW ONLY. Men included. I CANT.