And one day she "stopped feeling it"🥀

We met through Hinge, and honestly, the chemistry between us built up so quickly. She liked me, we started talking, and initially it was just effortless.. fun conversations, constant banter.

Then somehow, everything escalated really quickly. She made plans to meet me and even booked flight tickets just for that. Things felt so mutual and so real. I loved talking to her every day.. it genuinely became one of the best parts of my day. We had an amazing connection, the intimacy was great, and for a while, it honestly felt like everything was falling perfectly into place.

And then, out of nowhere, something changed.

I still don't know what happened. As far as I know, I didn't do anything wrong or anything that should have suddenly changed how she felt. She just started pulling away, replying less and eventually stopped replying altogether. When I finally asked her what happened, all I got was, "I'm not feeling it the same anymore."

And that's probably the hardest part. Not even knowing what changed. One day everything feels so good, so effortless, so mutual and then suddenly you're left wondering whether any of it meant the same to the other person.

I know people can change their feelings. I can't force someone to feel something they don't anymore. But it still hurts when someone goes from making plans and flying out to meet you, talking to you every day, making you feel wanted, to suddenly acting like they don't even want to have a conversation with you.

Lol

u/EnvironmentalTie8809 — 2 days ago

And suddenly she just “stopped feeling it” 🥀

We met through Hinge, and honestly, the chemistry between us built up so quickly. She liked me, we started talking, and initially it was just effortless.. fun conversations, constant banter.

Then somehow, everything escalated really quickly. She made plans to meet me and even booked flight tickets just for that. Things felt so mutual and so real. I loved talking to her every day.. it genuinely became one of the best parts of my day. We had an amazing connection, the intimacy was great, and for a while, it honestly felt like everything was falling perfectly into place.

And then, out of nowhere, something changed.

I still don't know what happened. As far as I know, I didn't do anything wrong or anything that should have suddenly changed how she felt. She just started pulling away, replying less and eventually stopped replying altogether. When I finally asked her what happened, all I got was, "I'm not feeling it the same anymore."

And that's probably the hardest part. Not even knowing what changed. One day everything feels so good, so effortless, so mutual and then suddenly you're left wondering whether any of it meant the same to the other person.

I know people can change their feelings. I can't force someone to feel something they don't anymore. But it still hurts when someone goes from making plans and flying out to meet you, talking to you every day, making you feel wanted, to suddenly acting like they don't even want to have a conversation with you.

Lol

u/EnvironmentalTie8809 — 2 days ago