u/ErineNg

I aware gamophobia been bugging some people who had it developed after their maturity. In my situation, I have gamophobia since 5. Openly announcing my hatred towards marriage since 5 too but adults been telling me I might be the earliest to get married just because I oppose it the hardest. Doesn't dim down that hatred and my bias against marriage. Every observation kinda proves my point on why marriage is a shit idea. My kind of gamophobia is like homophobia, except I'm an ally and I'm just a hater to all sorts of humanly marriage ceremonies.

Now I am 26 and still has no human partner. Sister got married years ago and instead of getting nostalgia and wanting to get married, I hate it even harder. The hell all those expenses for??? Besides if I can have a marriage scene for free in my dreams while my expenses can used on food and gaming, why the hell I need to spend all those for a non-serious wedding ceremony. Marriage in this economy???? I can buy a cheaper set of hanfu out there than that heavy wedding gowns with the expenses I saved up.

For those who still wish to get married but can't due to gamophobia, get therapies and seek professionals.

For those who kinda glad with gamophobia as me, stay single amongst the humans and happily so. And hold your boundaries against those nosy mfers who just can't stay in their lane nor stop bugging us just because marriage ain't an option for us and they try to Uno reverse that. I got cancel cards on my sleeves.

It's just one thing, people with gamophobia don't try bugging others who wanna get married. Y'all wasting their time when they wanna get married. You don't want to get married, that's on you. If you want to get married but the phobia gets in the way, get therapy and a partner who can support you through it. Remember validate your partners, they deserves it after putting on your gamophobia when they can choose someone else. They really love you to support you through the odds.

I would never and that's why I'm single😅

I'm kinda restless so I gonna make a post on tulpamancy since I actually been doing it while convinced myself it's an astral/spiritual revelation for years.

So...... I got some hot takes I figure out myself. Let's use Nintendo Switch for example since I got both jailbreak and original versions.

I would say tulpamancy is the jailbreak system in your console. It gives you endless possibilities of gameplay and even a headstart before go Online with Nintendo Account, at least I done something like this to Monster Hunter Rise. Jailbreak to familiarise with the mechanics as whole before buying the cartridge to play it multiplayer online.

And here's an interesting part: jailbreak system would put your gameplay experience into solitary. So imagine jailbreak gameplay to tulpamancy, it's super normal for others don't get tulpamancy or validate your experiences, nor their validation would help you thrive further. Like can they invite your jailbreak account into multiplayer??? Cannot right? So here is my PSA. Solidarity Is extremely valid when it comes to tulpamancy. After all, who expect a jailbreak console to able to play multiplayer via Nintendo Online?

But be careful, there is a fine line between self-fulfilling tulpamancy with spiritual psychosis. Again using console analogy. OK, interacting with those thought-forms of yours are like playing those jailbreak games. When you exit the game aka reclaim your attentions from those stuffs, the game you'd exited should stop showing and went straight to home page after the Home button. Same goes to how your tulpas should gone if you officially shut them down and reclaim those energies. Of course different rate of wear and tear would've affect the loading rate of how long it takes. So it does take times.

Only be careful if it takes too long for it to exit, or never exit. I had a case of my damaged SD card caused my MHR to load for straight up 15 minutes and not even go to the next scene. I never knew how bad the issue can go until that happened. At first it loads 1 minute and I didn't know they're not supposed to do that. Tolerating some seemingly minor issue that already exist in you but you didn't know due to multiple psychological normal situations we do to protect our normalcy when doing tulpamancy also can happened. So stay sharp and observe your psyche closely in tulpamancy, you don't want them to walk all over you. If they exist for too long despite the reclaiming work is done officially on your ends and affecting you as whole, just like how the loading affecting the console (it heats up quite intensely) then go seek a professional. In console's case is the mechanics. In this spiritual psychosis sense? A psychiatrist or a therapist. You don't want your versatile spiritual empowerment turn into another psychology case study with the medical psyche students surrounding you recording diagnosis when their lecturer giving you that diagnosis. Happened to me before when I get my diagnosis in a government clinic.

I hope this Nintendo Switch analogy helps. Also remember, if you can't play multiplayer with friends via Nintendo Switch due to multiple reasons such as the annual membership renewal (long-term dedicated devotion) it's ok to just stick with the jailbreak (solidarity). No need to force yourself to purchase that membership just to fit in. It's quite costly and the mental investment in hope to make every devotion worth gonna strip the OG purpose of the beginning, I get that. Hurting yourself just to get shit done while it doesn't return you anything beneficial is not worth it.

As a Pisces girlie with Venus in Aquarius I really have issue with getting a human man (I refuse to have a human men and I'm straight 😔) but at the same time I still wanna get married and do couple stuffs with that non-human someone.

I acknowledge this is more like anchor seeking co-dependence craving going on so what should I do? Bag a man from a higher plane or I must working on self-care to reduce co-dependence seeking can apply tho. If self-care, what kind of work did you suggest which is effective for you?