u/EvLake

I keep asking women if I can kiss them after a date is over and I’m dropping them off at home

But then they always act weird and tell me not yet. Usually get ghosted after

Then on my recent date I asked again. And she told me she was fine with kissing until I asked. And told me you’re not suppose to ask

So do I just go in for a kiss hoping they are ok with it?

I thought women respected men who asked for consent and made sure they are 100% comfortable

I slept with a woman last night and I was extremely hard moment I saw her naked.

I’ve never been this hard in my life. And I’ve been with attractive women before but this woman for some random reason made me so turned on

My penis was actually in pain of how extremely hard I was.

Another thing I noticed was my penis looked massive

I didn’t even realize it could get that big.

So how do you always reach max fullness when having sex?

Because it seems I can’t reach max fullness with other women.

My gf kept saying she loves me and how nothing could stop her from losing love.

Then I gained some weight. It wasn’t even major weight gain. I’m 5’11 and went from 155 pounds to 190 pounds

I kept asking if the weight bothered her and she kept saying she didn’t care about the weight and how she loves me

And then a few months later she dumped me. I kept asking her the reason and she finally told me it’s because I got fat and told me my penis also became smaller.

Which I guess might be true as my body stores fat around my penis and I did notice I was no longer able to hit her cervix during sex after the weight gain as before I could hit it easily.

But im just confused why lie and pretend. I could have just lost the weight if I knew it was breakup worthy for her

I was in a relationship with my gf now ex for 5 years. I had oral hsv1 herpes the entire time

I informed her right away and i informed her that she most likely she would end up with it if we continued.

I took preventive anti virals daily entire relationship. 200 mg acyclovir 2 to 4 times a day to be exact. And avoided kissing when i had outbreaks. But on a few occasions I accidentally kissed her unaware I had a cold sore outbreak starting.

She’s constantly given me oral. But I refused to go down on her as I though it be too risky as I didn’t want to infect her with hsv1 in her genitals

Then we broke up recently and she got a blood test and informed me that her std test showed she was negative for herpes

So thought it was weird that for 5 years of constant making out and having sex and she never got it.

She’s also immune compromised so fact she didn’t get it is even more shocking

So are anti virals really that effective at preventing infection?

I noticed when I dated my bpd girl she’d always get offended easily. And always cried over small things and make it into a big deal

But then had no problems offending me.

Whenever she asked for my opinion she end up crying if I didn’t agree with her.

she once asked if she looked good in her new outfit she got. And I was honest and told her it kind of looks weird and how it gives off SW vibes. She started crying because of this.

Another time she asked if she looked good in makeup. I said I preferred when she didn’t wear makeup. And this somehow also made her cry and made her upset.

So is this a common symptom of BPD. Should I immediately run if I date a new girl and she gets offended easily or cries easily

I got in a relationship with this woman,

And she seems to get offended easily.

Whenever she asks for my opinion she ends up crying if I don’t agree with her.

Are you suppose to just lie and not have an opinion in a relationship? Is it rude to have an opinion,

Because she recently asked if she looked good in her new outfit she got. And I was honest and told her it kind of looks weird and how it gives off SW vibes. She started crying because of this.

Another time she asked if she looked good in makeup. I said I preferred when she didn’t wear makeup. And this somehow also made her cry and made her upset.

Should I just pretend I like everything and lie?

Now that my relationship with my ex BPD gf is over. I honestly never want to date another bpd girl again.

It’s just too tiresome.

I do sadly have a type for alt girls. But I think I might have to change my type. Because it seems like every alt girl I meet all seem to have bpd. Like they actually tell me they are diagnosed with BPD.

So what other common signs are there if a woman has bpd on the first date?

I’m 24 and all the women I’ve been with in the past used birth control. Seems normal nowadays. I’d still use condoms but the double protection felt nice

New girl I’m dating doesn’t use any birth control. So are condoms 100% safe at preventing pregnancies by themselves?

I broke up with my bpd gf. Well more like she dumped me. But then later she begged me to get back together which I said no to.

But I did notice she was very big on superstition. She was into witch stuff, crystals, and zodiac signs.

Are they normally into that? Is that a bpd thing?

Or no?

Should I avoid women like that in the future to avoid dating another bpd woman?