u/EventStriking2103

Hi everyone, this will be a vent/rant post because im currently FUMING with how fucking mad i am, so bare with me please.
This all started since i was around 8-9, my mother went from a "normal-semi normal" mother (obvi she was skinny/fit, but never restricted so heavily) of course, we all remember those advertisements of fitness foods and how life changing they are..right? So did she. Since then she focused more and more towards fitness, wellness and "clean eating" . By the time i was a 10yo she stopped eating carbs..at all, and always bragged about "how better she is" than a fucking 10 yo or my drunk ass father.

More about family background: my father developed an alcohol addiction, and honestly?hes just a jerk. I hate him. At age 12 my mother basically threw him out and told him to sober up. And I was the one searching for him, always bringing him home or saving from the bars. Also my mother is a whiny b!..so i had to talk my father through and tell him to apologise, or demand answers from him -why was he always drunk? (I also had a 30 min phone restriction, thanks to my ungrateful fucking mum xx) .

Back on the topic. By the age of 11 i started developing an ED with her. It started pretty heavy- week without food, also with my mother nagging me that i lied, or i didn't last that long without eating. Im the oldest kid in the family -and no matter what, mothers whining always reflected onto me, like she was having some sort of a competition with me.

At 13 was my first visit to the hospital, bmi 14, weak body. I was diagnosed with Bulimia, which she laughed about, told me that it makes me sound like a pig, and told the doctors treatment was unnecessary. My father? Oh, he didn't gaf, he would crawl back to her and shut up any moment, im sure of it.

Age 14-15 i started dating a girl. It was my first relationship, and of course we were an anorexic lesbian couple, who could've guessed... it didn't make any better for me, in fact i kept sweeping in that narcissistic environment of people , that girl- even worse than my mother.

Currently im doing better, i have amazing friends who look after me and make sure i eat, and im really glad they care. But with my mother? Nothing changed. Not only is she an undiagnosed anorexic, who comments on my body almost daily, but also a manipulative idiot who decided that she can control me by randomly and out of blue limiting my screen time. And well- I could've understand it if i was 13 or 14, but i can legally drive and drink, and as a parent-she really overuses it. This summer is hell, she restricted my phone fully, getting my father on her side and dictating rules. Also, she's really bitchy about food again, and told me i gained a lot. I just wish i moved out already

Hi!So im currently a 16 year old with a limited screen time of 30 minutes.it gets taken on and off whenever my mother is not in the mood or feels like it(lmao) , and i mean literally.Nothing happened recently-just a day where i spent a whole day at home,having nothing to do and basically doomscrolling and doing my part-work stuff. So today morning i wake up with a notification that i have 30 minutes of screen time. (This is a copy paste message, i have one min extra lol). It's been a debate with me and her since i was around 13. It went from full trust to one hour, then again at 14 i had unlimited screen time for a while (which actually affected my grades and behaviour positively).
And now, im 16- i got my first Iphone right from the store with my mother saying that "im an adult now and i can do whatever i feel like". And not even a month after- whenever she gets mad or a minor inconvenience happens , she uses a tactic of "time off". I hate it very much, it's actually a sensitive topic, because my phone was a big part of me- (when i was 12 there was a huge issue between my family including alcohol and divorce, and i had to be the one to search for my father at nights, talk them through it and etc. So my phone was an only resource i could rely on). It's really stressing me out to the point i stopped talking to her, because she is now not only mean, but violent. When i ignore her i got hit multiple times, slapped and scratched.

Im really worried about my privacy and social life, and i believe im old enough to have unlimited screen time, anything i can do?