u/ExcitingStill

Hello, I'm a bachelor student in Indonesia. I'm fluent in English and completely familiar with multicultural environment. I'm studying electrical engineering at number 1 university in Indonesia and also studied for 6 months at top 1 German University. I did internship at leading EE company in Indonesia. I want to find jobs abroad to find better opportunities and because I see myself competitive among my international peers. I also took masters level courses already in Germany so I at least have another edge.

I'm completely fine with learning different language and settling down abroad. I'm just a little bit confused with my career path right now and how viable it is considering my background. Right now, I'm just not sure of what chances do I have and what skills/aim should I make to maximize my chances. I'm just confused with the next steps. Thank you!

im 21F and I never really know what it means to be in a relationship or even to form one. I never really learned how to be in a committed relationship which sucks because I’m so lonely but I don’t know how to fix it. The worst part is that I look at least decent and I got approached by people in public (they asked for my number and stuffs) and men show interest in me quite often. I never really had trouble “finding it” but I don’t know how to escalate things into relationship. I feel like I’m bad at forming relationships. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

A part of it perhaps just my distrust in people and my avoidant attachment issues, but I’ve been trying to fix it and it’s still the same. What is even a relationship, but in lonely. I just don’t know how people even be in one. What’s wrong with me?

Is this related to past trauma? I was bullied consistently back in middle school because I wasn’t as pretty then and maybe deep inside I’m still that insecure middle school girl that doesn’t believe anyone can like her or she is worthy for a relationship.

im 21F and I never really know what it means to be in a relationship or even to form one. I never really learned how to be in a committed relationship which sucks because I’m so lonely but I don’t know how to fix it. The worst part is that I look at least decent and I got approached by people in public (they asked for my number and stuffs) and men show interest in me quite often. I never really had trouble “finding it” but I don’t know how to escalate things into relationship. I feel like I’m bad at forming relationships. I don’t know what’s wrong with me.

A part of it perhaps just my distrust in people and my avoidant attachment issues, but I’ve been trying to fix it and it’s still the same. What is even a relationship, but in lonely. I just don’t know how people even be in one. What’s wrong with me?

Is this related to past trauma? I was bullied consistently back in middle school because I wasn’t as pretty then and maybe deep inside I’m still that insecure middle school girl that doesn’t believe anyone can like her or she is worthy for a relationship.

I went to Eibsee lake yesterday and I was speechless at how beautiful the whole area is, even the views from the train station. It looked unreal and the vibe (from the people to the walk around the hike) is just so calming and amazing.

I’m looking for more recommendations on where I can go to with similar views (especially the alps) around germany or perhaps neighboring countries that is accessible with bus, etc.