How do you do it?

I spent so long reading verses trying to find anything that might prove that Christianity and LGBTQ can coesxist. I tried reading so many variations and interpretations of the verses that people use to condem homoxesuality and I was never convinces about what people said. I know Jesus says we are all loved but it doesn't change the fact that the bible still condems us.

I asked a family member who was a Paastor in his youth and he said that loving someone and welcoming to the bible is not to accept their sin. That to go to church aware of your sin and atill continue to doing it is wrong.

I am so conflicted because my perception of a loving god wouldn't condemn people for who they love but this is the God reinforced through the bible, a being who casts people down for not following his vague rules as his followers cherry pick rules that apply to them and others that don't.

I don't get it, I feel on the verge of giving up

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u/Existing-Gazelle93 — 5 days ago

Questions about commitment

Sorry if this doesn't make sense.

For a long time I have qiestioned my gender but I find myself unable to commit to either identity or gender and have been using genderfluid as an umbrella term.

The reason why is that I honestly love being a guy (amab) and I don't have the ibtense dysphoria that some other trans folk have mentioned. Yet, I stoll feel an intensive desire or craving to be a woman. It fluctuates a lot but its intense enough that I want to take hrt and present fem. That internalized conflict has made it hard because I got good aspects to my male look that I can recognizs, good height, strong and an improving body shape and I am scared that if I transition I wouldn't look nearly as good feminine-wise.

I been nervous to presemt fem because I don't want to look like a guy in a dress and never had my own slace or room to do so. I am interested in doing so in the future but won't lie that its got me nervous. And on the other hand as I said I like being a guy and feeling physically strong as it has always been a sort of protective shell.

I'm not sure, for a long time I chalked it up to body dysphoria since I ised to be rather chubby but I lose a bit of weight and I don't find that dislike of my appearance changing. Has anyone ever experienced something like this? Is there hope?

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u/Existing-Gazelle93 — 8 days ago

Does your job know?

I am considering transitioning in the future and planning to work in germany after having studied there. I was curious if your employers are required to know you are trans or if there is cases where no one in the company knows you are trans or something along those lines?

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u/Existing-Gazelle93 — 26 days ago

How do you manage to win clients over right now?

Feels like every company is competing for low profits trying to get even 50 dollars, and with tariffs being so high it feels ridiculous how difficult this year has been. Anyone else experiencing similar issues?

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u/Existing-Gazelle93 — 3 months ago

Hi, Imma just get right to it because I am so tired.

I currently live with my sister and mother after coming back from university, alongside my 2 nephews. E and T.

E is the youngest of the 2 and T is a year older. I got them Minecraft so I could spend time playing with them whenever I had time. The kids took to it immensely and I very much enjoyed playing it with them. The issue is E, he grew addicted to playing with me to the point he doesn't enjoy doing things on his own anymore.I

The best way I can describe it, and I dislike using the word, is clingy. He gets bored if me or T don't play with him, as he doesn't like playing on his own, but this has gotten really bad, where I am constantly put in a position where I gotta juggle spending time with them, my own responsibilities, time alone, and time with my partner and friends. Because I am the youngest of my family aside from these 2, I am the one who can relate to them the most and share in some of their hobbies for gaming. I tried my best to spend time with them, but I simply don't have the energy every day to play with them every evening, especially having to parent them whenever they get frustrated or angry at one another. Its tiring and exhausting.

T has been more relaxed, and minds his own stuff to do, but E is so hard to handle. I will be in call with friends or my partner, and he will come around every other hour asking to play, interrupting me constantly through the day and asking non-stop to the point that some of my friends grow frustrated.

When I do tell him no, he gets depressed and frustrated, and when I tell him maybe we can, he gets hopeful and waits all day to play. It breaks my heart to see him depressed, but I am an adult with my own responsibilities and limited time. He is by no means a lonely kid and doesn't lack in activities throughout the week to keep him busy, so I don't get where this behavior comes from. Legitimately, it is causing issues with my own relationship because I need to constantly reduce time spent with them (we are long distance), so I spend time with him and his brother. I never had an issue like this before with my nephews, so I don't understand whats happening here for him to behave in such a dependent manner?

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u/Existing-Gazelle93 — 4 months ago