Im trying not to get in my head about this and possibly make something out of nothing help!!
So me 39f and husband 38m have been married since 2011 but started dating in 2007. Ok so him fought him cheating with troll and yes I’ll leave her real name Thelma . Got passed it moved forward. Anyways so he has a female supervisor who I’ve knows and he’s known since he started that job I thought she was respectful hardworking. Nope dead wrong im standing not even 10 feet away she looks dead at me and walks up to him starts trying to grab his hand and is pressed up against his arm all while he’s still trujng to work.I went and grabbed a pen out of his pocket (mind u this all was being noticed and seen by several other employees) she give me the dirtiest look you could ever imagine and as I’m giving him his pen back she literally blocks him from working by putting herself between him and the table and putting her face so close to him he took two steps back. I was so mad but being it’s his job i bit rj tongue and went into the walk-in to kook down. Not even a min later 3 of the lady’s that have been there for years tell me they are sorry I had to see that but to just stay calm and a deep breath. The next morning that same supervisor decided to (with a huge table between us) talk to me and in her words she is just super friendly and that I had to learn how to be ok with it. But wait then she hits me with the so u know if my husband knew I was working alone with just men during my overnight shift he would not be ok with it.
And yes they still work together but now when she sees me she gives me a smirk.. and although I have never given his job any problems they decided not to offer me a permanent position out of being told I would make it a hostile environment…. Me me.!!! Yes although yes she is the one that started stalking me.to notice her popping up a lot on everything as someone I might know.. (turns out I do she’s the same lil nasty trolll from high school years older then me..
And I just know he’s still allowing her to flirt i just hope it hasn’t gone further but any woman who can had does and has no type of remorse after thieving herself at a married man in front rod his own wife is honestly capable of anything..
Any ways trying not to let all that be in my head as well as he now going to work affecting his mood a few days ago I asked him what kind of lingerie I should get Like because I don’t know what he’s into he’s never really said anything about it.. ans this is what threw me off like his responde to me asking him which one does he like this was his response ‘
“Ok and I told u before I don't care what I pic I'm not wearing it... I'm not into lingerie like that I don't really care for it..so I don't care what u pic ?? “
Like wait after 18 years im just now being told that answer like I really feel like a dumbass like all these years I thought he likes it…. Nope!! And yes I apologize for any errors or run in sentences or misspellings doing laundry cooking and writing this Again so so so so sorry it’s all over the place .. what what would u do and I feel like I really need to report her behavior especially since because of her I can only be a seasonal not permanent employee
# I am I won’t what would you do advice please !?????!!!