u/Expensive_Ordinary72

Nimporte quel type de job

I know it’s fine bc it’s just material stuff but its the laptop i’m always using for school & for other professional use 😭 can you plz share your similar stories so I feel less alone lol

I don’t know if this is a rant/vent or if i’m seeking advices. Tbh I’d take any input, but I just need to share my experience.

So I started dating my girlfriend about a year ago and before her, I was with a man 3 years prior to that. I was young, didn’t know much about my body and pretty innocent. I now discovered that I have little to no attraction to men by having intercourses and being in a relation with a woman. I also learned to discover my body and i’m very thankful for my girlfriend who’s gentle and patient with me.

Anyways, I discovered that I have very bad vaginismus. Like… very bad, I can’t put anything in there nor even get close to it. I’m also a very anxious person, so I can’t fully enjoy any intercourse without being veryyy focused on my pleasure. I don’t get horny that much, nor very wet even when i’m enjoying it. I don’t last long and when the job is done I loose all interest in having sex. This is very much the opposite for my girlfriend which sometimes makes it hard for me to keep up with her. We’ve had plenty talks about it, but I still feel bad because everytime she’s on top and does me first and I reach my peak, I don’t have any pleasure anymore and she can stay horny for a very long time even when I do her multiple times in a row. I feel so guilty about this. I found myself trying to resist and find pleasure even if i’m not in the mood anymore but I just can’t. I don’t know whats wrong with me. Even when I do her, i’m rarely in the heat of the moment. Like I take pleasure obv, but not with the same passion as my girlfriend or how I heard its supposed to be.

Coucou tout le monde,

Je me suis installée en France il y a quelques mois pour commencer un échange universitaire. Je n’avais jamais utilisé Vinted auparavant, donc je me suis dit que ce serait sympa d’essayer. Je n’ai même pas accès à l’application dans mon pays d’origine, car elle y est bannie.

Il y a quelques semaines, j’avais commandé un article qui était beaucoup trop grand pour moi, donc j’ai essayé de le revendre. Une dame l’a acheté et j’ai essayé de déposer le colis dans un point relais. Toutefois, la machine était défectueuse, donc je suis allée dans un autre point relais. Mais quand j’ai essayé de redéposer le colis, on m’a indiqué qu’il avait déjà été envoyé.

J’ai contacté le support et ils m’ont dit que la dame serait remboursée. Je lui avais également dit qu’elle pourrait racheter l’article, car j’allais le remettre en vente. Mais depuis, je n’ai plus eu de nouvelles de sa part.

Maintenant (donc quelques semaines plus tard), j’ai reçu un message de Vinted indiquant que mon colis a été perdu et que je vais recevoir une indemnisation. Sauf que je n’ai jamais envoyé de colis.

Que faire? Je ne sais pas comment signaler le problème, car comme j’ai été remboursée, il est indiqué que la vente est finalisée. C’est même écrit sur mon article dans la conversation « colis non livré. » Je ne veux pas avoir de problèmes pour une erreur stupide.

Hello y’all,

I’m going to start looking for apartments with my girlfriend soon, and it’s both exciting and nerve-wracking. My parents don’t accept my relationship, and I’m not sure how to tell them that I want to move out with her. How did you all handle it? We’re 20 & 21 y/o

Hello everyone,

I take friendships very seriously. I don’t like half-baked relationships, and I have high standards when it comes to many things. I’m a devoted friend, so I can easily tell when someone is treating me badly.

Sometimes, though, I have these moments when I realize that something a friend did or said (whether repeatedly or not) hurt me, and I immediately pull back from the friendship because I no longer feel comfortable. This doesn’t happen over things I know can be fixed, like a simple mistake, but rather over what feels like clear disrespect.

The thing is, sometimes I feel like this reaction might ruin good friendships that could have improved. I never really know whether it’s just in my head or if I truly need to cut someone off. In the end, I usually end up avoiding the person and feeling uncomfortable around them.

Does this happen to other people?

Hello everyone,

There is an artist I really like who’s performing tonight and I’ve been eyeing the stubhub prices for a week now (the original seller sold out) 3 days ago the prices were at 75$ but now it’s back at 115$ and we’re the day of the show. How likely is it that the prices are going to get low again? Potentially lower than they were?

Hello everyone!!

I saw a "fairly cheap" Rosy Bumps n Bruises on vinted and she’s my dream doll. Though, she doesn’t have her own shoes. Anyone knows where can I find her shoes and if it’s possible? I don’t care that much but in the long run i’d love her to be fully complete 😊

Just a little post for discussions. I’m going in my fourth year and I don’t wanna stay at uo for my masters. I’m considering udem or mcgill. Where are y’all planning to go?