u/Fabulous-Lab-9235

hi, hello how are you.

I (16,f) have a best friend (16,f). let’s call her A. We’ve been really good friends for nine months now but i’m leaving soon because i did an exchange year and it’s almost over. i would love to keep in contact with her and maybe see her again in the following years but im so damn pissed and disappointed in her.

we graduated school early and have had almost two weeks of no school before i’m leaving. so we made a list of 10 things we already wanted to do but only accomplished ONE of these things and im already leaving in 4 days. she never has time because of her family, which i understand but it still hurt me a lot.
i confronted her about it yesterday and all she said was that we will do something with me before i leave but tomorrow and today she can’t. she can’t tomorrow because she is playing football with some other friends. now that’s the thing: she invited me to go and i think she does want me there but these people aren’t really my friends and i already got a strong vibe from them that they don’t even like me. A told me that im just overthinking it but yesterday she confessed that they actually don’t like me, at least that’s what A thinks. I asked her about it but she said she doesn’t want to get into it. like wtf. you can’t just tell me people don’t like me without elaborating on that.

also it just pisses me off that she rather does things with friends, who don’t like me, then spend time with me because i’m leaving. those friends are not leaving and i just can’t help but feel betrayed. i would never ever befriend somebody who does not like my best or good friends.

i’m happy for her that she at least has some people because both I and another friend are leaving or have already left but A also has two other friends who i liked and i think liked me back.

idk if i should confront her about it and tell her it seems like she doesn’t care at all about me or if i should leave it like it is and don’t cause drama or anger before i go.
i honestly don’t know what to do and it just makes me angry and sad at the same time.

TL;DR: my best friend rather spends time with people who don’t like me than spend time with me because im leaving her on Sunday

hi, hello how are you.

I (16,f) have a best friend (16,f). let’s call her A. We’ve been really good friends for nine months now but i’m leaving soon because i did an exchange year and it’s almost over. i would love to keep in contact with her and maybe see her again in the following years but im so damn pissed and disappointed in her.

we graduated school early and have had almost two weeks of no school before i’m leaving. so we made a list of 10 things we already wanted to do but only accomplished ONE of these things and im already leaving in 4 days. she never has time because of her family, which i understand but it still hurt me a lot.
i confronted her about it yesterday and all she said was that we will do something with me before i leave but tomorrow and today she can’t. she can’t tomorrow because she is playing football with some other friends. now that’s the thing: she invited me to go and i think she does want me there but these people aren’t really my friends and i already got a strong vibe from them that they don’t even like me. A told me that im just overthinking it but yesterday she confessed that they actually don’t like me, at least that’s what A thinks. I asked her about it but she said she doesn’t want to get into it. like wtf. you can’t just tell me people don’t like me without elaborating on that.

also it just pisses me off that she rather does things with friends, who don’t like me, then spend time with me because i’m leaving. those friends are not leaving and i just can’t help but feel betrayed. i would never ever befriend somebody who does not like my best or good friends.

i’m happy for her that she at least has some people because both I and another friend are leaving or have already left but A also has two other friends who i liked and i think liked me back.

idk if i should confront her about it and tell her it seems like she doesn’t care at all about me or if i should leave it like it is and don’t cause drama or anger before i go.
i honestly don’t know what to do and it just makes me angry and sad at the same time.

TL;DR: my best friend rather spends time with people who don’t like me than spend time with me because im leaving her on Sunday

hi hello, how are you
i have a question for every muslim lesbian woman here.
i know that in your religion it is a sin to be homosexual. i know that the feelings are not sinful, just acting upon them is. i have a very close muslim friend, who i fell in love a bit, and i know that she would never go against her religion or family to be with someone of the same gender, which breaks my heart a little bit every time i think about it.
but at the same time, i have also seen and heard about muslim woman, who chose to be with a woman even though it may go against their religion. i would like to know how or when you chose to choose yourself and your desires above your religion or family. was it hard for yourself and your family? how did you accept it and how do you align it with your personal beliefs? were your family supportive or not at all? did or do you feel any shame about liking the same gender?
i’m asking because i’m genuinely curious. as a christian woman myself i know that in christianity it is also a sin to be homosexual. however i grew up in a non-strict and very open household. my father is atheist and my mother christian as well, but both of them have gay friends and are completely tolerate and supportive towards the lgbtq+ community. they know my own attraction towards woman and have no problems with that.
i have never experienced being ashamed of my sexuality and i would just like to know how your experience with that was or still is.