How much of this is actually true for you

How much of this is actually true for you

As an INFP this is actually TOO accurate 😭

I was literally like this in school. Same bench, same window, same position, same everythingggg like that was MY spot okay??? i had my little corner and i would just sit there and disappear into my imagination every chance i got (obviously I DID pay attention in class too )

BUT ALSO?????

is it only me or did yall SEE THE ENFJ X INFP THING 😭😭😭😭

LIKE LOOK AT HIMMMMM

he's literally in the middle right?? and esfj is there too BUT WHY IS ENFJ TILTED TOWARDS INFP 😭😭😭

And it's so subtle too... like whoever made this thought they could just casually place them next to each other and tilt ENFJ approximately 2 degrees towards INFP and we'd all mind our business...

Unfortunately I am not all of you.

I SAW IT.

(like okayyyy maybe im reading too much into a freaking classroom meme but also.... am I????? 👀 )

Anyway future husband, if u r reading this, u have exactly one job. Be an ENFJ. Thank u for ur cooperation.

Edit: Yep, it’s AI generated. Credit to the original artist Fatima whose art this appears to be based on

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 10 days ago
▲ 351 r/mbtimemes

all MBTIs, roast Analysts. analysts can’t argue back, they can ONLY react with memes

ok so i posted the diplomats roast thing ... apparently we didn’t get much roasted coz we’re that good 💅🏻 (hell yeahhh [jk] )

and now everyone’s asking for the analyst version

so since i’m bored once again... let’s see what u guys have for them

got personal beef with an INTJ/INTP/ENTJ/ENTP? even better

drop the lore... we’re listening

analysts can only react with memes btw. no arguing back, no “actually 🤓☝️” pls

pics from Pinterest — credits to the original creators

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 1 month ago
▲ 323 r/mbtimemes

all MBTIs, roast Diplomats. Diplomats can’t argue back, they can ONLY react with memes

I’m bored as hell y’all 😭

got personal beef with an INFJ/INFP/ENFJ/ENFP? Even better.

Drop the lore... we’re listening.

Pics from Pinterest — credits to the original creators.

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago

Hijab and dancing: something I've been genuinely struggling with

Assalamu alaikum everyone. I’ve been thinking about something recently, and I honestly don’t know what the “right” way to feel about it is. I’m not posting this to judge anyone or start a comment section attacking specific girls. I’m genuinely struggling with the bigger question behind it. I hope this doesn't come across as judgmental.

Recently, there was a cultural festival in my country where people from different religions and communities participated and danced. Among them were some girls wearing hijab. The videos ended up online, and the reactions were very mixed.

Some Muslims were commenting things like “May Allah guide them,” while others were straight-up mocking or trolling them. On the other hand, many non-Muslims seemed genuinely happy to see everyone participating together and simply viewed it as part of a cultural celebration.

And honestly, I found myself feeling conflicted.

This is not a post about whether those girls are good or bad Muslims.

On one hand, I don't know these girls. I don't know their intentions, their struggles, their circumstances, or what their relationship with Allah looks like. I'm also nowhere near perfect myself, and I have enough things to work on before acting like I have the right to sit online and analyse other people's iman. Ultimately, they are responsible for their choices, just as I am responsible for mine.

And honestly, part of me thinks: why am I even thinking about this so much? It's their life. This dunya is a test for all of us. Focus on yourself.

But then I struggle with the other side of it.

As Muslims, we're also taught to see ourselves as part of one Ummah. So when we see something that, according to our own understanding of Islam, seems difficult to reconcile with ideas of hijab and modesty, are we supposed to feel absolutely nothing about it because it's not our personal life??

And yet, another part of me still comes back to the same thought: it's their life, their choices, and this dunya is a test for every single one of us. Maybe I should just focus on myself.

But at the same time, I personally struggle with the idea of hijab, modesty, and public dancing in front of non-mahrams. Based on my understanding, hijab is not just about covering your hair; it is connected to a broader idea of modesty. So when I see something like this, I genuinely don't know how I'm supposed to process it.

we're also one Ummah.

If we believe certain values matter to us as Muslims, is it wrong to feel concerned or confused when we see things that seem to conflict with our understanding of those values? At what point does “focus on yourself” become healthy humility, and at what point does it become complete indifference towards what is happening within our community?

But then again, where is the line between genuine concern and just policing other people??

I guess that's what I'm struggling with.

How do we feel uncomfortable with or disagree with an action without judging or reducing the person doing it to that one action?

at the same time, how do we balance “it's their life, focus on yourself” with the idea that we're also one Ummah and should care about the values and direction of our community?

And as one Ummah, where is the line between genuine concern and unnecessarily policing people?

Because I don't want my reaction to be hatred, mockery, or that feeling of “I'm better than them.” May Allah protect us from that. But I also don't want to force myself to pretend that I have no thoughts or questions about something just because the alternative might make me seem judgmental.

Maybe I'm overthinking this. Maybe that's exactly what I need to hear 😭. But I genuinely want to understand how other Muslims navigate this without going to either extreme.

I'm not looking for people to attack the girls involved, and I'm not claiming to be more religious than anyone. If anything, this whole thing has made me reflect on myself too.

I’d really appreciate thoughtful perspectives, especially from people who have also struggled with balancing individual freedom, personal accountability, concern for the Ummah, and the reality that none of us are perfect.

Please keep the discussion respectful.

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u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago
▲ 92 r/infp

To the INFP men from my last post: I have news 😭

So a few days ago... I made a post about why INFPs are shipped with basically every MBTI ... But apparently I only used female INFP fanart... and then I got this comment

soo today, while once again avoiding studying by being on Pinterest, I decided to look... And guys

Why did I actually have to SEARCH for uuu

like I genuinely thought I'd just type “male INFP × [type]” and get the same amount of stuff I got when looking for female INFP ships

Nope. I had to DIG 😭😭😭

nd after way too much searching, this is basically what I found

ENTJ × INFP man — 5
ENFJ × INFP man — 3 or 4 (idk)
INTJ × INFP man — 2
INFP × INFP man — a few (hehe)
ISFJ × INFP man — found one
ESTP × INFP man — literally one 🥀🥀 (and others u can see in pics)

that's it .

mmeanwhile... female INFPs are apparently shipped with every living MBTI on Pinterest 😭✋.... So yeah... INFP men, I fear ur complaints were valid

(but alsoo ... what is going on with entj 😏😏 Is this actually yk the male INFP ship and nobody told me??? Cozz I have 5 pieces of evidence and, frankly... that's enough science for me 😛)

Anywayzzz ... what's UR type, who do u get shipped with the most, and who do u personally ship urself with??

nnd more importantly... where is the lore behind your ship?? I want the fake scenarios, the “they would never work but-” explanations

[ To the INFP men who asked for representation in my last post... I tried, soldiers. I really did... Pinterest simply does not provide enough resources for your fake scenarios ✋]

(Ik corny but who cares ...again I need to study fr)

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago

well... this says a lot | grid trend as infp 🥀

me pretending i have enough social experience to make an mbti chart ...🥀

this is literally just based on the people i've met irl + my online friends, so it's very much biased and personal… my sample size is tiny lmao....

some placements are based on genuine experience and some are just me being silly lmaooo

anyway i had sm fun making this 😭🫶 ( yes i am that stereotypical infp )

the second slide was necessary btw :)

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago
▲ 37 r/infp

Made an MBTI aesthetic collage for myself hehe 🌱

Basically a visual representation of the person I would be if I had my life together.

Anyway, INFPs, what would you put in yours? 😭

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago
▲ 153 r/infp

Why does everyone else get ONE MBTI type to romanticize and INFP gets the entire population

So I was studying and couldn't focus, so obviously instead of studying I opened Reddit

andd here I saw a post about INTP x INFP....and umm... that got me curious

So naturally I went on Pinterest to look at INTP x INFP stuff for “just a minute”

And BROOO

I ended up finding INFP x ENFJ, INFP x ISTP, INFP x ESTP, INFP x INTP... and then I started looking at “INFP compatibility” and apparently we're compatible with like EVERYONE 😭😭😭

Cozz whenever I search it, it's always something different... ENFP. ENFJ. ISTJ. INTP. INFJ. And then probably five more depending on which website I open ...like fr

meanwhile my INFJ friend once told me that since ENTP is supposedly one of his most compatible types, he actually does find ENTPs attractive. And my ENTP friend says she finds INFJs SO cute and that they're basically made for each other

And I'm just sitting here like...

WHERE IS MY DESIGNATED TYPE????

Coz I wanna do that too ...I wanna be able to pick a type and be like “yeahhh this is my fictional dynamic, I'm going to romanticize this for the next six months”

Andd honestly the Pinterest artists are making this WORSE because why are all these ships drawn so beautifullyyy 😭💗 (like so why so pretty and dreamy and ...)

I'll see one and be like “wait... this is actually so cute" Then I'll see another and go “okay but this one though...” Then another...

And suddenly I'm making fake scenarios in my head with 7 different MBTI types while my textbook is sitting untouched...

I've also never been in a relationship, so I have literally NO idea which type I'd actually be attracted to in real life ... Like maybe I'll meet someone one day and he won't even be any of the types I spent hours daydreaming about...

But for now I need to know...INFPs, what type do u actually find attractive / have u had the best chemistry with ?? (Mostly they r saying it's enfj ig)

and do you have that onee type you always end up romanticizing, or are we all just out here collecting fictional MBTI ships?

and these drawings are so pretty btw 😭 I found them on Pinterest and don't know the original artists, so if anyone recognizes them please let me know the credits!!

(Ik it's corny...I should go study fr now)

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago

Elder sis read my diary 😭

Umm well… where do I even start

So yesterday while everyone was having dinner, I was journaling... After writing I just put my diary in my bag and forgot about it. It’s not like I even write my actual secrets in my diary btw ...obviously I can’t because somewhere in the back of my mind I always knew she’d read it one day

AND GUESS WHATTT

I woke up for Fajr today and saw my diary LYING ON HER BED .. UGHHHHHHHH 😭😭😭

Yeah...I genuinely don’t know what to say. It just feels like such an invasion of privacy (I know, I know, privacy in a desi household is basically a myth but stilll...)

Lately my family has been pretty overprotective...I understand why, especially since I’m the youngest, and I know they love me Alhamdulillah. I love them too. But sometimes it gets really overwhelming and I don’t know how to deal with it. I’m also not very good at communicating my feelings...That’s actually one of the reasons I journal... It’s easier for me to write things down than to sit someone down and explain what I’m feeling...khair.

And it’s not only my diary either… She sometimes reads my friends chats too. I don’t hate her or anything (coz I’ve had some pretty bad experiences with friendships, so I do understand where she’s coming from) and I know she’s probably doing it because she cares about me... but I still feel like I need some sort of personal space

The problem is I’m scared that if I actually tell her to stop... she’ll just become even more protective of me

(Also the other day she read the letter I wrote for my other Appi’s future self 😭 which is honestly so embarrassing because why was I writing a letter for someone to read in 2030 in the first place 😭🙏 I really thought I was being deep and now it has been exposed four years early...LIKE HELLO???.. Why am I like this 😭🙏)

Anyway..how do you guys actually communicate boundaries with your family?

Especially when your family is loving and protective and you don’t want them to think that asking for privacy means you’re hiding something or pushing them away... How do you make them understand that you can love them and still need some things to be private?

u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago

If your current phase of life had a color, what would it be and why ??

(you can skip the "why" if u don't feel like sharing)

Mine's probably...grey ? But like a really washed out , almost whitee grey...The kind where everything js looks blurry 😓

Everything feels kinda hazy lately... not sad exactly ... i honestly have no idea where I am going or what I am doing...but we're here ig ✌🏼

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u/Fancy_Engineer_6395 — 2 months ago