Before I type anything this is probably not appropriate to post on this sub. But I want answers. For background I’m (19m) and have never had sex. I find sex very disgusting and imagining it is also very disgusting. Dick sucking is also very disgusting. I just don’t want to have sex and I want to know from you guys if that’s ok. I do want a girlfriend though. Again not appropriate at all but had to get this out here for answers.
Childfree people men or women. Do people having kids bother you at all. Like do you think they’re ruining their lives by having kids. Just a thought that went through my mind.
Some people want to have kids, and some don’t. Both options are ok. Anyway I’m young and I know for a fact that I want to have children when I’m older and find a woman (I’m male) who wants the same. The only thing is that I think society is changing from being kid friendly to just anti kids. There are tons of childfree people out there and I respect their choice. However some people (childfree or people with kids) are now shaming people or telling them not to have kids. They clearly know that it’s not their choice and can’t tell strangers what to do. The thing I’m scared of is that when I have a kid in the future and my future wife is pregnant and we’re walking in public, I’m afraid that people will start shaming us and start saying rude things at us. But yeah I think this might be a problem in the future. What do you think.
I’m 19m and I want to have a girlfriend. The thing is that all the good looking, pretty, beautiful women that I’m attracted to were born before me. The girls my age are trash, not good looking or just not attractive at all. Just why was I not born before. Like the women I’m attracted to are like 24-50. But yeah I’m just bummed out that I’m missing out on good women.
I understand if you wanna to be child free or not have kids. I respect that. It’s just that some people weather they have kids or not, think that becoming a parent or just having kids in general, is a massive mistake your making in life. It may sound untrue, but it is true some people have experienced this. The people who think it is a mistake, say stuff like “you never get to have peace and quiet again, no more it’s just the two of you, or no more date night. Again it may sound untrue, but women I know have experienced this and say that is what the people say to them. Anyway the question is in the title. Answer if you want to.
Just a curious question just wants answers. Comment below, thank you.
My question is are their parents on here who don’t care for other children, meaning they only like their own children, and don’t want children near them beside their own. Just curious question. If you are one of them care to comment. Thank you.
I have a friend, she’s 46 and married and has no kids (she is childfree). But she and her husband are like an aunt and uncle or a trusted guardian to a young boy they met in their neighborhood. The boy one day a few years ago just started talking to them when he and his father were walking by. They did not mind it at all. Eventually this happened a lot and they became friends with the boy’s parents and the boy. I thought this was wholesome. Anyway that was an example. My question is has a kid (boy or girl) wanted to be friends with you as an adult. If so are you friends (or just know them well) with that’s kid or not.
Growing up I became friends or knew well, a couple that was in their 40s that had no kids. They live a few houses down from me. As a kid they allowed me to play on their front yard and play with their dog. Still talk to them today as an adult. Anyway was thinking about this and made me ask this. Comment if you have experienced this. Thank you.