AITK for suggesting a make up artist to a friend ?
So for the purpose of this post, I'm going to give a little context first. I have a twin sister. Let us call her R.
R and I have two best friends, G and S. We have known G since school, and we got to know S through college. We're all very close. So now to the issue.
G is a makeup artist and a content creator, but she herself has told me, that she doesn't do bridal makeup that much because she's mostly involved with the content creation work, so she finds herself really busy doing that. So as a result, she does not have that much experience doing bridal make up, and the experience that she does have comes mostly from putting makeup on Muslim brides.
S and her parents aren’t totally aware of the bridal/ wedding scene as they only returned from the US in 2015. S is getting married next year, she will be a Hindu bride. There was a meetup that happened where R, G and S talking about S's wedding, and S asked G if she would be available to do makeup for her for her wedding. G happily agreed, and everyone was happy with the situation.
During a sleepover at S’s house, I was sitting and I was talking with her parents, and they were asking me questions about my brother's wedding, which happened about 2 years ago, and they were asking me questions about where we bought our clothes and all that. In a passing comment, S told me that my sister-in-law's makeup was really good on that day and that she looked like a goddess. So I told her that I can give you the details of the makeup artist, because in my opinion as well, she did a great job and was very affordable as well, and I knew that this was a very important point for S, that she wanted to make everything in her wedding very cost-effective and affordable. And she said “Yes! , send it to me on Instagram and I'll look through the MUA’s profile” . So I sent it and she, her mom, and I were looking through the makeup artist's account, and we found this girl to be very experienced in doing Hindu Brahmin brides as well. And also in that same vein, I told her that when you're looking for a makeup artist, maybe it is better if you call a couple of makeup artists first, go through their work, and ask for quotes from a couple of makeup artists from our city, so that you can decide which is more cost-effective and which is better for you in terms of the look that you're going for. She did say she did not even think of that and thanked me for telling her all this. I did not harbor any bad intentions towards G when I said this. G does good makeup but I thought it’s important to look through options as well. If she decided to go with F after a research, I would absolutely have no qualms about that and I’d be happy as well. I just told her that since she is not really familiar with the makeup artist scene, she can probably go and ask for a couple of opinions before settling on a makeup artist. Her mom and her both agreed with me. In fact S told me that if G doesn’t end up doing her wedding make up, she’ll definitely have her do the sangeet makeup.
When I came home and told R about this, she got really mad and she said that I betrayed G as a best friend, and that I was very nosy and I got in to this conversation unnecessarily, and that I should not have suggested that S ask for another makeup artist and should have just gone with G instead, and that I should not have interfered or involved in this matter. We had a big fight because of this.
I genuinely did not harbour any ill intention . AITK?