u/FearlessCookie72

▲ 174 r/vegan

Why can’t vegans have at least ONE chill space online?

It’s annoying seeing subs like r/VeganChill and r/VeganSquad (subs that are supposed to be supportive spaces for vegans, people curious about veganism, or those transitioning toward a more plant-based lifestyle) constantly disrupted by trolls/repetitive bad-faith arguments. More than half the comments I see on there are negative.

There already IS a debate-focused vegan sub (r/DebateAVegan) for people who want to argue veganism. Funny how many of these negative people don’t actually go there… probably because they’re not interested in genuine discussion or learning anything. It seems more like they just want an easy target, reactions, or attention from people trying to enjoy a supportive community.

What’s especially ironic is how often vegans get labeled a “cuIt,” while the same users seem to follow vegan communities around just to provoke reactions or complain. A lot of us come to these spaces for support, community, recipes, motivation, or simply a break from how depressing and overwhelming the realities of animal agriculture already are.

Vegans should be able to exist in vegan spaces without constantly having to defend their values or deal with hostility ffs.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 1 day ago
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People understand analogies ≠ literal comparisons… until animals are involved

When someone says “taxation is theft,” everyone understands they don’t mean taxes are literally identical to armed robbery. When someone says “factory farming is slavery,” suddenly people pretend analogies are impossible to understand.

Analogies are used to highlight a shared trait or moral pattern, NOT to claim two things are identical in every way.

More examples people normally understand without confusion:

• “This exam was torture” → not medieval torture
• “Phones are addictive” → not literally heroin
• “Workers treated like machines” → not literally robots
• “Prison is modern-day slavery” → not chattel slavery
• “Big brother is spying on us” → not literally someone hiding in your bushes with binoculars

People understand figurative language perfectly well. They just become selectively literal when the analogy challenges treatment of animals. 🤷🏼‍♀️

If every analogy meant “these things are exactly equal,” analogies wouldn’t exist.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 4 days ago
▲ 388 r/vegan

Vegans shouldn’t be expected to stay polite when people mock animal cruelty

If someone’s response to discussions about animal cruelty is to troll/joke around or insult the vegans speaking up about it, I don’t think those vegans should be morally obligated to stay endlessly patient and polite in return.

I constantly see the argument that “fighting fire with fire” only hurts the animals, and that vegans should always respond with calm education, compassion, and understanding. I understand the intention behind that mindset. But what happens when the other person doesn’t even take animal suffering seriously enough to engage honestly in the first place?

Education only works when there’s at least SOME baseline empathy or willingness to reflect. If someone treats cruelty like a joke, the issue isn’t a lack of information but their attitude. Also, we live in a culture where people often only recognize how unhinged or disrespectful they’re being when they get that same energy reflected back at them. Sometimes being blunt, sarcastic, or confrontational is the only thing that cuts through the insults/mockery.

And if people have a problem with vegans responding harshly to mockery or bad-faith behavior, they should also have a problem with the people who initiated that hostility in the first place too.

Edit: This is defending vegans being rude or trolling after they’ve been provoked first, and this is not defending vegans getting visibly upset or angry. Don’t do that please! 🙏🏼 It’s possible to be a troll or be rude back without being genuinely angry.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 8 days ago

1995-2009 is a Marketing Range

I’m not sure why people on this sub keep spamming this range. It’s not based on anything except Mark McCrindle using repetitive 15-year ranges for all his generations.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 12 days ago

Why are people still arguing over ranges?

You guys do know these ranges are mostly placeholders, right? And you also know none of us personally get to decide them, right?

I think the Gen X 1965 start date is pretty settled at this point, but the Millennial 1981 date, Gen Z 1997 date, and Gen Alpha 2013 date still aren’t fully settled.

Even academic and generational research groups outright say that these ranges aren’t an exact science and that they can shift over time as more information is learned and cohorts grow into adulthood, when people’s lives and long-term patterns become more established in their 30s and 40s.

It’s not about “people born in 1981 can’t remember X event” or “people born in 1997 were the first to use Y technology.” That’s an oversimplification of how generations are actually studied. 🙄

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 12 days ago
▲ 355 r/vegan

“Vegans Feel MoRaLLy SuPeRiOr to Non-Vegans”

Whether or not that’s true, it’s funny how the people who say this almost never say things like:

• “Non-thieves feel morally superior to thieves.”
• “People who don’t cheat on exams feel morally superior to people who do.”
• “People who have never killed feel morally superior to serial killers.”
• “People who stay faithful to their partners feel morally superior to people who commit adultery.”
• “People who recycle feel morally superior to people who litter.”
• “Dog and cat lovers feel morally superior to dog and cat abusers.”
• “Pacifists feel morally superior to terrorists.”

I could keep going.

Apparently, the ONLY time it’s acceptable to accuse someone of “feeling morally superior” is when that person is vegan.

As if vegans are the only ones on earth who have moral opinions or judge others for certain behaviors. 🙄
Everyone feels morally justified about something. Humans are just wired that way. It’s basically Psychology 101.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 13 days ago
▲ 18 r/vegan

Saying you shouldn’t have children if you’re vegan is like saying the only way to avoid emotional pain is to never form relationships… no friends, no love, no family. Sure, you avoid suffering, but only by removing something essential to human life.

I say this as someone in her 30s who doesn’t want kids and would only consider adopting an older child… not interested in pregnancy or the aftermath of it!

  1. If a vegan had a child, that child is still a person who can experience well-being and also reduce harm to others.

  2. If this logic were consistent, the “most vegan” act would be extinction, but that has never been the goal of veganism. That’s a totally separate position.

  3. Most importantly, antinatalism conflicts with bodily autonomy. People have a right to make reproductive choices. And reproduction isn’t an ethical violation like exploiting animals, it’s a fundamental part of human life that you don’t get to morally mandate people suppress.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 16 days ago
▲ 66 r/vegan

I keep hearing the same argument over and over on Reddit: “Yeah, the meat industry is fucked up, but hunting is actually ethical!”

Literally how?

Since when is killing an animal who’s just living its life, not bothering anyone, and actively trying to survive… not fucked up? The whole issue is unnecessary harm. The animal still fears for its life and then loses it for no reason.

Some people also say silly shit like this: “People who only eat what they themselves hunt and grow do more for the environment than those who are vegan.”

What???

Edit: Of course the animal industry is like a billion times worse than hunters hunting, but that’s not the point I’m making! Reread my post.

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 23 days ago

I am SO tired of the discourse around women’s suicide on Reddit. I mean, WHY is there discourse around it like this to begin with? It’s either belittling women’s mental health struggles or turning it into some kind of competition with men.

I constantly see statements like:

- Women attempt suicide for attention

- Women don’t struggle enough to truly want to die, otherwise they’d use more lethal methods than pills

- Women don’t “really” have comparable rates because they can attempt multiple times

Whether it’s about male or women’s suicide, there should not be this constant need to invalidate one just to center the other. It’s not a competition. I noticed that a lot of the people who make these kinds of statements often seem very anti-women/anti-feminist or are constantly trying to argue against women’s issues if you look at their profile history… as if women who are struggling with depression or suicidal thoughts are somehow responsible for the broader gender discourse. 🙄 Fucking leave them out of it!

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u/FearlessCookie72 — 25 days ago