I don't know why in general, this word and these talks makes me extremely anxious where as i see people of my age are very comfortable and see as more biological thing. But i feet soooo uncomfortable and extremely anxious. Weird isn't it. Enough that my brain started fugged up
I've been watching these reels where people says talk to plant and they talk to plants and when they do the plants/leaves move. I was like what bruhhh!? What if the plant has a jin on it!? Isn't it?
Like this is what my mom told me that trees nd plants has these spirits stay away from them in fact when i was a kid she used to told me to stay away from the trees in my school and don't water them. Ik that's a lil too much. But bro talking to plant Isn't too much? Like literally if i start talking to plants everyone's gonna think "is she okay? Or she possessed or something? (Lmao)
What's going on in the world bro.. or is just brown household myths? Lemme know if you guys talk to plants and how's this from islamic lense?
the man who touched me inappropriately when i was a kid is the part of the protest and he was helding this slogan "biwi nhi hai, toh desh ki maroge?"
Protest is going very well, I've been following and as i seen how women feeling safe there is sucha good thing to know but as more I've been looking to these slogans I've noticed things are going towards vulgarity such as "biwi nhi hai toh desh ki maroge?" Wtf is this man? You're literally Objectifying women. Just imagine how cheap it sounds to say this. Idk but try to understand what im saying.
Please stop such slangs and vulgar shii to look cool. Cuz jinki biwi hote hai do they think in such way? Or is that type of mentality being normalized here?
So stop normalizing this and have some good sensible slogans. Don't let the grape mindset people normalize their jokes. It is a serious thing. as we're fighting to the government, we're also fighting with sick mentality men out there.
Girls i wanna ask those women who go to jobs and for work outside their home alone by bus or train or whatever alone.
Look in my entire life i never went out alone it's always with my family or friends but gradually as i grew older, i lost friends and i can't bring my parents everywhere yk.
I was really afraid to go out alone, to do things alone. And it was my first time i took admission in a uni which is a far from my home and i have to change train yk. I pray all surah and prayers before going out but something insides me always in panic and fear mode.
I see so many women in subway but i also wonder how they travel confidently without fear wearing revealing clothes and all. Cuz it was second day of mine traveling, there was a man who kept glancing at me even when i stepped out of train he stood upstairs watching me. That terrified me, at that moment i want quit but i thought i can't let this fear win.
I kept going then after few days there were two guys who kept glancing at me whispering and smirking. I felt soooo uncomfortable and terrified. I don't know how if this keep going if i would ever able to do more in life. Please help me out. Cuz i can't live like this in constant fear, i don't wanna end my life living in a cage.
And even a day before i start feeling anxious.
Im a college student. Im gonna buy my very first laptop cuz i need it a lot. I got 50k inr. Things i wanna do is digital marketing such as seo, website building from wordpress, ai, etc and use software like adode, photoshop, canva, etc. I've never used laptop before it's my first time and idk which laptop should i buy under 50k. Please help me out.
So basically i got no telent, and no money to learn skills and every skill required a laptop which i can't afford right now. I never went out my graduation which is distance education is almost completed and i can't live like a useless human being. I want to do something valuable in my life but for any starter we need money.
So i was thinking can i do that kinda of modeling cuz so many businesses needs such models to present their footwear or even jewelry.
So let me know
They place this role on my head and expect me to become like them to love this prison the way they do.
A prison where I cannot even see the changing shades of the sky, hear birds chirping, feel raindrops trailing across my skin, or the softness of the breeze brushing against my cheeks through the quiet rustling of leaves.
And the worst part is even when the door is open, I cannot step outside.
Because of the generational fear living inside me. Because of the constant terror of unwanted stares.
I do not know how to unlearn this fear. I do not know how to live outside the cage.
How can i get out of this cage?
They place this role on my head and expect me to become like them to love this prison the way they do.
A prison where I cannot even see the changing shades of the sky, hear birds chirping, feel raindrops trailing across my skin, or the softness of the breeze brushing against my cheeks through the quiet rustling of leaves.
And the worst part is even when the door is open, I cannot step outside.
Because of the generational fear living inside me. Because of the constant terror of unwanted stares.
I do not know how to unlearn this fear. I do not know how to live outside the cage.
How can i get out of this cage?