u/Felix_Gatto

I recall seeing a post within the last few days asking about any guys that were into kink, and also religious or spiritually minded. I don't see the post up anymore, which I thought was rather unfortunate as I think it's a fascinating conversation to have that could be of benefit to many of us.

So. I guess I would start with, for myself (a RAGING bottom with a love of large and comically larger toys who also thoroughly enjoys getting fisted while being in chastity and dressed up as a baseball player) I see and feel no conflict between my kinky and spiritual selves.

I think sex is a divine gift that is meant to enjoyed and explored.

In fact, I think my exploration of pleasure, desire, and sexuality has expanded my mind, soul (and hole) and has profoundly deepened my spiritual life/journey as well.

In my very humble opinion, some people and institutions are threatened by people having agency and power in their sexual selves and so have painted kink or sexual discovery as antithetical to the spiritual life...

I reject that and I reject that sex is dirty or shameful. I think that sex, sexual discovery -- or kink -- is beautiful and life affirming.

A religious/spiritual life should in my very humble opinion help a person be kinder and more compassionate. It should help a person feel connected to the divine, their community, and themselves. It should comfort them when they are in need and give a person a way to help comfort others in need...

And in no way shape or form has my kinky sexual adventures gotten in the way of any of that. On the contrary the intense joy and empowered existence sex and kink give me makes me feel more connected to the divine, more present in my life, and more energized and engaged.

But, enough about me! What about y'all, do my fellow GayBros of the Internet feel a conflict between the kinky and spiritual life?

TL;DR: Can you get fisted in a baseball uniform and still be "godly"? I say yes. For me, exploring kinks has expanded my mind and my spirit. Looking to hear if other GayBros feel their kinky side and spiritual side play well together.