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I hate this group therapy because the host literally doesn’t get anyone to participate. It’s just like watching a podcast of someone very awkwardly answering their own question giving their own examples. I will say everyone in the group does not put their camera on either so it’s just very awkward. I’ve tried to ask my therapist to get out of this because I technically only was diagnosed with posttraumatic stress. I kept saying all the other people have said that they were diagnosed with borderline. It’s making me question whether she wants me to stay in this group because she’s about to tell me that I am borderline as well which is scary to me. She was so adamant though that I should stay in this group and then it was very important for me. I understand that this sort of therapy is used for other mental health issues. I just think it’s odd that everyone else has borderline

I got my concussion in 2025. I’ve pretty much made a good recovery I think. The only thing that I noticed is that sometimes if I hear something really loud, it’s like the sound will repeat for a little bit if that makes any sense. The sound usually feels like it’s kind of far away, but it’s definitely like ringing or echoing in my ears and I just noticed it more than anything.

I went to an audiologist she said there was nothing wrong with my hearing, except for I probably have tinnitus, and I really tried to explain that ever since I got hit over the head. I really noticed that I am hyper sensitive to noise that sometimes when I hear a noise, it will echo almost. I also am just not really sure why this is happening apart from damage to the follicles and the ears when I was hit over the head.

I bought a jelly cat. I’m not gonna talk about which one. I bought it and the seller was new so I looked at the pictures and I thought oh it looks pretty big and they’re asking $200 for it. I pretty much shelled out the money right there and then and then when I got it, it was the smaller one.

I was talking to the seller and I said hey can I return it? I have tried multiple times. I opened up a case with Depop because every single time I asked to return it she would just gloss over that question like she just wasn’t gonna let me. I then said if you’re gonna ignore me trying to return it then please give me a partial refund because I never would’ve paid that much for it along with the fact that the dimensions were never mentioned and it did look big in that first picture.

Depop and I have gone back-and-forth and they basically said well it’s up to the seller if they want to give you a partial refund and I said at this point can I just return it and they didn’t really say anything either. I have no idea what to do at this point because Depop’s not really helping me and the seller are literally arguing now.

The seller has done everything in their power to try to say that no this is the size that you bought and she was justified because apparently she feels that a $200 regular size to jelly cat is reseller range. It’s definitely not. I see a lot of them being sold for anywhere from 1:20 to 1:50. I really am frustrated and I don’t really know what to do. It seems like Depop may actually be siding with the seller.

I have sent all the pictures I’ve done everything I can and yes, it is probably my bad for buying from someone who has never actually sold before and therefore did not put the dimensions, but it is pretty hard to tell whether or not a jelly cat is big or small, especially when it’s a regular size sometimes they genuinely do look bigger.

I basically explained to the seller that I wanted to return it and she still will not let me it’s very weird. I’ve never had Depop not want to help me either.

The package itself was compressed and looked like a mess. I have pictures on my phone. I might add some. It genuinely looked like she was mad that she sold it at all and when I say it was compressed, I mean, she didn’t use a box. She legitimately used a package that was taped crazy. It kind of irked me because how am I spending $200 to just get this crazy package? I’ve actually never had anything sent to me that looked like that.

I do feel that it is my fault for looking at it and thinking that it was the one that I wanted when it was actually the smaller one. I really don’t know what to do at this point. The seller also at one point said something to me like not that we’re gonna do a partial refund but how much money do you want back and so I was very frustrated by the way that they worded that and we’ve been going back-and-forth anyway, and I had explained maybe like 75 so I would’ve only paid 125 which is what most people sell it for.

She’s been very unkind honestly throughout the entire process. I’ve never met a seller like this before. She’s kind of going out of her way to try to prove that she is right and that the sizing is right by using screenshots and Depop for some reason is genuinely eating this up and trusting her. I’m questioning whether the screenshots are genuinely hers as well. She went as far to say that she’s going to reach out to jelly cats and ask them whether that’s the largest size and I’m like oh my God I did not understand. It was a misunderstanding on my part. I wanted to return it and now she’s going out of her way to make life more difficult.

I got put in DBT group therapy about three weeks ago. It’s been a hot mess. I was supposed to get all of the worksheets for the group therapy sent to my house and I never got them. For the past three weeks I have had to just follow along and basically watch the host give the most weirdest examples possible in conjunction with what she’s trying to talk about.

I was told in the beginning that there would be 12 people and it’s online. When I actually entered this group therapy, it was me and four other people along with the host. The host seems like she’s incredibly disengaged herself, possibly extremely depressed as I watch her a lot of of the time stare off into the distance, she also gives the weirdest examples, she doesn’t make people turn their camera on either.

What also pissed me off is the fact that the group is supposed to start at 1 PM but people don’t show up until 1:15 PM. I brought this up to the host and the host was very defensive and just very quickly kept saying I don’t know I don’t know and then she said well people have different obligations. I was quick to point out that the insurance is paying for 90 minutes.

Imagine it’s just you without a camera on along with everyone else except for the host. When she gives examples she’ll give you a second to give your own example and then no one will say anything and then she’ll just go yeah yeah and then she’ll give her own example. One example that I remember vividly, we were talking about emotional regulation. She goes on to talk about how when you’re around family that sometimes you can feel intense emotions. She then goes to say what’s an example of an event that brings family together that might have intense emotions tied to it. No one says anything and then she decides to say what about funerals and I was just like that’s kind of triggering because I’ve lost a lot of my family but OK sure. Also, I was in my head because I was like well if you have borderline personality disorder or any kind of trauma typically it’s because your family is toxic or unhealthy. When my grandparents died, my dad literally said get over it people die. So no, not always do they have intense emotions. Most of our parents are unfortunately the ones that gave us trauma because they lacked the empathy or the emotional availability to care in the way that we needed. It’s like watching a podcast. That’s extremely an excruciatingly awkward.

I brought this up to my therapist and my therapist was like you’re bringing up valid points. Why don’t you write about these very valid points and I said it’s not my job to audit someone who is supposed to know how to do their job.

I really don’t wanna go to this group therapy because it actually makes me angry and frustrated that the group is so dysfunctional and unhelpful. My therapist had said something along the lines of why don’t you at least try to join in and I said well I’m just following what the crowd is doing because I don’t want to seem weird or change the formal feeling I get.

I have only ever been diagnosed with posttraumatic stress and when I explain this to my therapist that I really didn’t like this group she kept saying well I think you should continue and or we can find you somewhere else to do group therapy and I’m like it’s just not for me in general. I promised her I would try one more time, but I just feel like it’s so awkward and I feel so uncomfortable. She asked me what I got out of the therapy session and I couldn’t think of one thing.

I sent her the item on the picture which was a snow tiger with tags. I unfortunately didn’t get the tag code in one of the pictures. I can tell noticeably that the stripes are a bit different on this tiger but the weird thing is it does have the Jellycat tag on it.

It also smells like it’s been in her home for a while. I don’t really know why a buyer would buy the same thing and then switch it out with the same thing in the same condition but it’s very clear that it’s not mine.

The stripes don’t match and Depop is not listening to me because it’s the same thing in the same condition with the same hang tag. I didn’t get the code on the tag before I sent it to her to prove that it was that specific jelly cat that I sent out and it came back. I don’t know if this makes any sense.

The code I don’t know if it’s the same but the stripes are different and I tried to point this out to Depop and I tried to point out that it smelled like incense but they’re not believing me and I feel like I’m definitely onto something because why would it smell like incense if it had only been in her house for like maximum three days.

Has anyone ever experienced this before?

Basically what I’m trying to explain is that the tiger is in the same condition and it has the same hang tag. It just is blatantly obvious that it’s not my tiger when I look back at the pictures of the striping pattern. I’ve never experienced this before and I feel like she’s gonna get away with this. I think she thought I wasn’t gonna notice. I have unfortunately no proof because I did not take a picture of the special code tag. I can’t prove legitimately that it isn’t the same.

I posted on here yesterday that I had interviewed for a new location. I have not worked for Starbucks for three years. I had told my boss 3 years ago that I was uncomfortable with my hours as she was going out of range of the hours I was available.

She also was not the nicest person and would yell at me and I cried one day and then I left. I regret this decision to this day.

I waited three weeks from the initial interview with the store manager, I spoke to recently about rehiring. I go through the interview process. She seems to really like me. She tells me that she’s gonna hire me.

Yesterday I get this text saying that apparently I am not hireable because I left without notice. I said OK fair. I ended up calling the partner number, and the person on the other end looks up my file and goes you are able to be hired.

I am so incredibly confused and disappointed right now. I have no idea what to do from here. I feel like I was lied to. The person on the phone just kept reiterating the fact that I could reapply and it would all be OK.

Because I have nothing to lose, I ended up bringing this up to the manager that I spoke to yesterday and I just kind of said that that’s really weird right?

I don’t expect to get an answer and I’m not gonna continue to talk to her cause obviously she just didn’t wanna give me the job that’s fine. I just wanted to know if I could reapply somewhere else. And I also wanted her to tell me why she would say that I was not hireable when I apparently am.

So I was interested in a jelly cat that had just recently dropped and sold out really fast. This seller had it up for $200 which is two times the price. I was willing to pay 150. The highest I would go is like $170.

I basically offered her 155 being nice saying that’s a good middle ground. It retails for $97.

She did not want to take that. She said she had offers up to 175 and I said why didn’t you just take it then? She also only had one like and it was me so I don’t know how she was getting offers that didn’t really exist.

She reaches back out to me and she’s like will you please buy this for 175. I was like I already bought one from another seller for $125 because you were acting very off about this.

I will say the item looks really really good. It’s just the fact that she was so pushy that she wanted $200. I’m not doing that. I’m not paying that.

She ended up just saying sorry and thanks but at the same time I’m like you can’t fuck around with buyers like that. I offered her an amount. She ignored me for an entire day and then made up that she got even more offers. I doubt she did because she only had one like.

My snow tiger’s TAG ends in SH from the May restock, those of you who bought some - is this true for you too!

I bought an expensive air purifier from target. I used Klarna to do so because I didn’t get paid until the next two weeks. It worked perfectly fine for basically five days and then I noticed that I heard some grinding noise noises when I had turned it on.

I called target and I said look I don’t have the box I have the online receipt. Can I please return it? The manager that I spoke to was like no it’s an air purifier. It probably has your dust in it. We don’t take air purifiers nor air mattress mattresses back for this reason.

I then became so frustrated that I started a case in Klarna explain explaining that they would not take it back because eventually I decided OK I’m just gonna bring it there and see what they can do if they can do anything. Unfortunately, I was met with a girl who worked there who genuinely was like yeah I feel like we should be able to take it back, but then she like converses with her manager and the manager was like no we’re not taking that back.

I tried to explain that like I only had it in my house for five days. I get that there’s a filter in it. I get that you would probably have to damage it out, but like I didn’t know that it was gonna do this to me.

The air purifier literally will not turn on now because it started with the grinding noise when I turned it up to the maximum level and now it will not turn on, and I’ve tried all sorts of things. I’ve tried reaching out to the brand and troubleshooting nothing is working. I finally look at the fucking reviews and I realize that this air purifier is known for doing this and I feel like a dumb bitch.

I have no idea whether or not I’m going to get my money back, but I am either way very annoyed because I should’ve looked at the reviews.
I started a whole case I don’t know if it’s even gonna work because of the fact that I have very little evidence apart from hey I went in there and they would not take it back so I just ended up leaving.

I have the screenshot of when I called target to try to figure out whether or not they would take it back because I really didn’t wanna waste my time trying to take it back. I don’t know if there’s anything else I can do. I’ve taken pictures of the air purifier itself and shown that it will not turn on. I don’t know what’s gonna happen. I don’t know if I’m gonna have to fucking pay for this and it is just kind of my fault. I would love for someone who knows about this sort of thing I’ve never had to do a case. What else could I add to this case to help myself get the money back or a refund?