u/Fit-Development-3178

Im 23 (f) am struggling with being alone.I have a boyfriend but no friends.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we had serious talks about an engagement at this time, but now that it’s here he’s saying “In a year or two ” and won’t explain why. We have a good relationship in my opinion. We don’t fight often and when we have we’re able to communicate openly. We live together and spend a lot of enjoyable time together yet, so I’m just not understanding if there is no “reason” why the push back. The only thing that comes to mind is that I had a great relationship with his family until we moved In Together and ever since then they’ve said I’m not the right girl and want nothing to do with me. He’s the oldest and holds a lot of responsibility. My boyfriend has been very clear about not agreeing with them and that this is what he wants to do. I’ve tried very hard to make amends with his mom and family, but they’d rather not. I’m not trying to rush a proposal, I could genuinely wait if I knew the timeline. It’s just the change with no explanation leaves me concerned.

Also, I have no friends. I lost a lot of friends after high school and during covid. When I graduated i no longer had any connections because I wasn’t able to attend regular school after my sophomore year due to the pandemic. and then I didn’t go to regular college so I haven’t been in many environments to create new friendships. I got my certifications, moved out at 16 and bought a home a few years later just a few towns over from where i grew up. I strive at work and often excel in my responsibilities and have moved up professionally quite fast for my age.i seem to be enjoyable and pleasant to be around and people like me at work so idk. I’ ve tried so hard through work, facebook groups, past connections and nothing seems to stick when making friends. I’ve joined different social groups, internet, and just going out alone. I genuinely consider myself a very open minded, kind, and social person. However for some reason I can’t seem to make any lasting friendships. I have a terrible relationship with my family and I’m just struggling to feel wanted in life. Idk If this is just my 20s, my personality, or my environment. Any advice on some self evaluation or how to connect with people?

I am having twin girls in a few months. I’m having a lot of difficulty picking one of their names. We have a lot of criteria both because of personal preference and also familial traditions. They’ll have an older brother name Roscoe. One twin will be Solana Catherine Thorne (both middle names).
Here is our criteria:
\- not starting with s or r or m or x and not ending in o or a
\- must have nickname in the name ( sol/ Lana for Solana, ros for Roscoe)
\- middle name will either be Catherine t name or c name Theresa as family tradition( open to suggestions here too)
\- we enjoy unique but not unheard of names, word associated names

Please help we have hit a wall!

Hello! I’m having twins in a few months and thought I had their names set, but after telling people I’m starting to second guess. Now usually I’m all for the “ if you love the name use it. Who cares what others think” stuff, but I am considering that these opinions might be valid. I’m having girls!!
The names are Solana and Sunniva
I picked these names because I enjoy the nick names sol and sun. Brothers name is Roscoe. Others have said the names are too close and will cause confusion and the meanings are quite similar. Do yall agree? Or have any other suggestions for twins. I really do enjoy the nicknames sol and sun but at this point I am open to different names with nicknames that are similar or word associated nicknames. They do not have to start with same letter. Thank you!