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Just watched Churuli and can't get out of its world

Just watched Churuli and can't get out of its world

So I watched Churuli yesterday and I am still in the hangover of that movie, listening to its soundtrack on loop. I have watched many, many Hollywood movies, but this one felt more special than most of those, though maybe that could be recency bias but still. I won't talk about the possible theories of this movie, as there are many and I want to keep it that way in my head, like a puzzle.

But apart from that, the whole setup of that village and that shop... I'd love to experience living like that in the middle of a jungle with similar kinds of people. And the way this movie ended? Damn, that car scene.

And the symbolism in it, like those subtle hints throughout the movie that connected to the story told in the beginning but still we ignored... I am kind of relating that to my own life, like there were many obvious hints in my life too, but I still fell into the trap of my own mind.

Before watching this movie, I watched Sambhavam Adhyayam Onnu. After that, I searched for similar movies and came across this masterpiece, Churuli. Then another similar movie search led me to Maanaadu, which was also a really entertaining movie.

Btw, I had to watch Churuli in Hindi as I don't know Malayalam language and I am kind of jealous of you guys because you get to watch it in the original language with all the raw emotions intact. Hindi dubbing was shitty and quality I was able to find was not so good, which was another struggle.

Regardless, watching this movie felt like a trance level experience for me. Can you guys suggest something similar?

u/ForcedGoodbye — 1 day ago

Is this a good deal?

So I've ordered this today - Legion tab gen 2. I want your opinion guys. I am only going to use it for watching online lectures and Youtube. I am concerned that Lenovo is giving pre-activated devices with only 2-3 months of warranty left and since this tablet is already 2 years old, I hope that doesn't happen with mine. At the same price, or with 5-6k more, should I have gone for something else? (INR)

u/ForcedGoodbye — 14 days ago

So I said goodbye to her last month. To summarise, her parents fixed her arranged marriage and I tried everything I could, but nothing worked. In the end, I had to let her go. Her engagement was supposed to happen around this time. After saying goodbye, I blocked her everywhere.

But last night around 11pm, she started calling and called 20–25 times, then again today morning and once in the evening. Though I have blocked her, but you still get that notification when a blocked number calls.

The possibilities I am considering are: maybe that rishta didn't work out, or she just missed me and wanted to talk on her birthday. Whatever the reason, I don't have energy to listen to her. I don't want to know what's going on in her life, what happened over last month, or what's going to happen next. I don't even understand how she expected me to wish her on her birthday. During our goodbye, I asked her for just one day, one day to talk for closure, but she didn't give me that. She asked me to go away and stop texting her. Now she's calling after a month.

Do you guys think I should have wished her and blocked her again? I just want her to stop calling me. I am trying my best to move on and now she interfered with these calls. After saying goodbye, I don't want to reopen this chapter.

I just need your opinion on what to do if she tries to contact me using other numbers. I know I won't talk, but I still needed to say this here with you all. She's still calling while I am writing this, I am getting those notifications.

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u/ForcedGoodbye — 19 days ago

So I said goodbye to her last month. To summarise, her parents fixed her arranged marriage and I tried everything I could, but nothing worked. In the end, I had to let her go. Her engagement was supposed to happen around this time. After saying goodbye, I blocked her everywhere.

But last night around 11pm, she started calling and called 20–25 times, then again today morning and once in the evening. Though I have blocked her, but you still get that notification when a blocked number calls.

The possibilities I am considering are: maybe that rishta didn't work out, or she just missed me and wanted to talk on her birthday. Whatever the reason, I don't have energy to listen to her. I don't want to know what's going on in her life, what happened over last month, or what's going to happen next. I don't even understand how she expected me to wish her on her birthday. During our goodbye, I asked her for just one day, one day to talk for closure, but she didn't give me that. She asked me to go away and stop texting her. Now she's calling after a month.

Do you guys think I should have wished her and blocked her again? I just want her to stop calling me. I am trying my best to move on and now she interfered with these calls. After saying goodbye, I don't want to reopen this chapter.

I just need your opinion on what to do if she tries to contact me using other numbers. I know I won't talk, but I still needed to say this here with you all. She's still calling while I am writing this, I am getting those notifications.

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u/ForcedGoodbye — 19 days ago
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Does ADHD make us experience breakups differently?

Sometimes it feels like I experience emotions very intensely, but then I keep avoiding or postponing the grief and thoughts that come with it. It's like I procrastinate processing the breakup itself.

We broke up last month, and it was the worst kind of breakup. She's getting married to someone else. I said goodbye, felt everything very deeply at that time, and then after a few days, I started avoiding all those thoughts that I probably should be dealing with.

This avoidance feels very similar to how I avoid other things in my life. It's like my brain just keeps pushing it away. At times, it even feels like the breakup didn't really happen and we are both just not talking with each other, is it because I haven't fully processed it?

Is this just me, or have others with ADHD experienced something similar?

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u/ForcedGoodbye — 19 days ago