u/Formal-Ninja-1608

So, im 19M, just started uni in pakistan but believe me when i say this, i have been TRYING DAY AND NIGHT just so i could study abroad, its like a DREAM for me, i would even call it "janoon" ki had tk i want to move out, but somehow life happened, i couldnt go there, now im studying here at FCCU Lahore and ive moved to lahore from a different city so its been very weird , and weird in a sense that ive lived alone before asw away from home, even away from pakistan (ive been to 4-5 countries, 2 of them all alone) and it was nice,

i was NEVER homesick but here oh god ive been feeling miserable, the only thing which is keeping me alive is my gf (i have never been this sad and literally if it werent for our lonnnggggg calls i wouldve been crying inside my pillow), okay so as i was sying i HAD MY BIGGEST DREAM of studying abroad but life and blah blah, now i still have one little shot at going abroad, in spring session UK or fall 2027 in UK, (i want to do data scince and then Masters in Finance from REALLY prestegious place in the UK so i can get into Private Equity for my carrer) but i ws sying that im homesick now when im just 3 hours away from my homecity, maybe im like this because im staying at a private place, where i share a room and that place is weird, like electricity goes, water problems, its so hot at night ,i havent eaten not even 2 meals in one day etc.

i did get an hostel inside uni and i feel like everything would be better but settling in feels like im giving up on my dream, first i tried for US, i got so many acceptances but couldnt go due to finances, i tried ireland , got in multiple unis but same couldnt go due to finances, then tried italy, it ws pretty affordable, but the goddamn embassy changed policy due to which i couldnt apply and now after trying SOOOO HARD ive still not given up, my parents think i have like kinda forgotten about it (im an only child so it took a lot to convince them for my education abroad , they eventually agreed but then embssy and stuff happened)

now my classes have started but i dont feel like studying here, since i have been abroad for internships i compare EVERY SINGLE THING of fc with those experiences and its like comparing your first love to all the other people you meet in life and you still search them in others thats hows its with me i still search for that abroad life here in fc but i am not feeling like it and also i dont want to give up on my dream , mera bohot bara dream hai yar me kia kru

now i dont wnt to settle as it would mean im giving up on a very, infact biggest dream of my life, but im also a little sad that if i do go ill miss my parents but its a part of life so its okay, pls how do i cope up with this stuff, i feel like if it werent for my gf i wouldve been HELLA depressed, i mean im still down but im alright.

just some advice and kind words would be apprecited

So, im 19M, just started uni in pakistan but believe me when i say this, i have been TRYING DAY AND NIGHT just so i could study abroad, its like a DREAM for me, i would even call it "janoon" ki had tk i want to move out, but somehow life happened, i couldnt go there, now im studying here at FCCU Lahore and ive moved to lahore from a different city so its been very weird , and weird in a sense that ive lived alone before asw away from home, even away from pakistan (ive been to 4-5 countries, 2 of them all alone) and it was nice,

i was NEVER homesick but here oh god ive been feeling miserable, the only thing which is keeping me alive is my gf (i have never been this sad and literally if it werent for our lonnnggggg calls i wouldve been crying inside my pillow), okay so as i was sying i HAD MY BIGGEST DREAM of studying abroad but life and blah blah, now i still have one little shot at going abroad, in spring session UK or fall 2027 in UK, (i want to do data scince and then Masters in Finance from REALLY prestegious place in the UK so i can get into Private Equity for my carrer) but i ws sying that im homesick now when im just 3 hours away from my homecity, maybe im like this because im staying at a private place, where i share a room and that place is weird, like electricity goes, water problems, its so hot at night ,i havent eaten not even 2 meals in one day etc.

i did get an hostel inside uni and i feel like everything would be better but settling in feels like im giving up on my dream, first i tried for US, i got so many acceptances but couldnt go due to finances, i tried ireland , got in multiple unis but same couldnt go due to finances, then tried italy, it ws pretty affordable, but the goddamn embassy changed policy due to which i couldnt apply and now after trying SOOOO HARD ive still not given up, my parents think i have like kinda forgotten about it (im an only child so it took a lot to convince them for my education abroad , they eventually agreed but then embssy and stuff happened)

now my classes have started but i dont feel like studying here, since i have been abroad for internships i compare EVERY SINGLE THING of fc with those experiences and its like comparing your first love to all the other people you meet in life and you still search them in others thats hows its with me i still search for that abroad life here in fc but i am not feeling like it and also i dont want to give up on my dream , mera bohot bara dream hai yar me kia kru

now i dont wnt to settle as it would mean im giving up on a very, infact biggest dream of my life, but im also a little sad that if i do go ill miss my parents but its a part of life so its okay, pls how do i cope up with this stuff, i feel like if it werent for my gf i wouldve been HELLA depressed, i mean im still down but im alright.

just some advice and kind words would be apprecited

GUYS ITNA ACHA TEST OH MY DAYS LIKE I HAD 3 MATHS SECTIONS AND 2 ENGLISH, THE FIRST 4 WERE LIKE A CHILDS PLAY AND 5 ( LAST ONE ) WAS KINDA HARD BUTTTTTT OMG i think im in 😜

Uh how do you guys have such chatpaty flairs😔😔😔. I had my account but just started posting here regularly and i lwk want those cool flairs under my name asw chat

Help🫪

im so goddamn bored but i was also wondering im planning to go to fccu for my bs and then for masters its abroad, there could be a possibility i just study one year here then go to italy next year because this years intake is closed, idk man i js wanted to rant, should i go there, is campus life good, and academics etc

(Ik its long but insane tea)

So last year in December I was going to lahore on bus to leave for a new years trip with my friend (i was coming back after meeting my cousin from PMA) so i had window seat but a guy was already sitting there his head on the seat next to it and he was asleep so i didnt disturb him and sat in the aisle seat.

Long story short we exchanged eachothers instagrams and i went with my friends and he went to his uni. ( he was a 19-20yo guy)

Anyways last month i saw his story where he posted perfumes and me being a perfume freak I immediately texted him in all caps “ARE YOU INTO PERFUMES AS WELL?”
Turns out yes he was , anyways we talked about them and I casually mentioned that i cant seem to find a certain perfume and i want to order it , BHAI USNE FORAN SEY ORDER KR DIA AND SAID I ORDERED FOR YOU!!???

Mtlb me ab kia hi kehta usy literally my anxiety took the best of me and I aksed him how much is it (I was saving to buy my gf gifts for her birthday)

He said it was 11k and that was alright i knew it was fair price
Omds bro next day texts me and says my seller ran out of that, instead ill buy you two 100ml perfumes in that price, he orders two perfumes and sends me the bill ( it was 13.1k) he sent me the bill, i couldnt acvept that favour because i didnt know him much and i sent him the money.

AND TURNS OUT WHEN I ACTUALLY RECEIVED THE PERFUMES AND CHECKED THE PRICE THEY ONLY COSTED 8k?!!??! AND THEY WERE CLONES😭😭😭😭 (brand named “BVARI”) they do smell nice but if bro needed money he couldve asked😭?

And ykw he did ask me money yesterday 😭😭 saying bhai need some cash 😭 big one its emergency.
If i didnt know he scammed me i mightve sent it out of courtesy

Ps ( when i was coming back from PMA he told me his elder brother is MAJOR and he will also give ISSB of next BATCH 158L/C)

ALSO IN BETWEEN MY GF POSTED ME ON MY BIRTHDAY ON HER STORY AND I REPOSTED HE REPLIED TO IT BY SAYING “BHABI KI KOI DOST SEY BAAT KRVADO”?!!! PLENTY OF TIMES HE SAID THAT TO ME AND TURNS OUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ALREADY omds

And bro was basically begging me.

Kheir the thing i want a suggestion on is should i take screenshots of actual prices of those perfumes and just send it to him in his dm and see what he replies BECAUSE WHEN HE SENT ME THAT 13k BILL HE SAID YE MERI TRF SEY APKO FAVOUR , BITCH KONSI FAVOUR THEY STILL COSTED LESS I HAD SENT YOU 11 but I already sent him 2k more and he said that afterwards 💔

I have been overwhelmed with emotions lately and theyre mixed, For the past few days i think 3 days , ive been feeling melancholic and its confusing, I have a friend whos like a brother to me, a loving family, and I almost buy/get anything i like with little amount of saving money but this feeling that im at loss or just this random sadness is eating me up from inside

It was just too much weight inside and I felt like sharing this here would help.

I just got done with my fsc exams (finally done with that phase of life) and now im preparing for my uni, both here and abroad but i feel sad, and its too much i have no idea why, i think im just overwhelmed and anxious and i have nothing to do maybe thats the reason, but oh well thats life

So Im a 19M , almost done with my fsc, ive travelled 4 countries so far, last year I went to another country for an internship which was for grade 12th students/gap year students meant to make them ready for the professional life ahead, more of an apprenticeship.

Ever Since Im back from that I grew a lot, I learnt a lot by travelling alone, living alone, figuiring out my finances and stuff, and im an only child so everything in my life was already handed over to me but I wanted to do things on my own, which I did.

But now I am at a point where I have applied abroad for my university and I am hopefull that I will recieve my acceptance and hopefully get my visa but it would mean I will have to leave my family behind and my mum dad are skeptical to send me but since ive already been to places on my own its not that hard.

But the fact that theyre getting old and if i go abroad for my bachelors I will probably come back after 2 years and I mean living alone, having independence is a great thing , ive already experienced it and it was amazing having no one to tell me what to do or when to do.

I can also study here in Pakistan but my grades are average, i dont have time to prepare for a good uni's entry test and taking a gap year is scary because i had to retake my grade 11th exams because i was abroad last year so im already 1 year behind my friends.

I dont know what to do, I really wanna go abroad but if not then i want to get in a top uni here, which seems highly unlikely, going abroad seems the perfect option for my carrer but leaving the family behind its a difficult choice.

How do I live with the fact that their only son is not here and what if they need me but im worried about my future , my career is also important for me.

MY OLD REDDIT ACCOUNT IDK WHERE IT WENT AND I REALIZED I HAD THIS ,CAN YALL UPVOTE PLS COZ I CANT COMMENT 😭

HELP A FRIEND IN NEED

Guys mera chemistry ka board exam hai and i have not studied so much, mery long short aur mcqs sara kuch para hai aur kal paper hai and ive been constantly procrastinating help me omg

Ok so i have this thing to must have accessories to wear with my fits and the thing is the rings and necklaces stuff you find online IS SO BAD LIKE ITS SO BAD IT DOESNT MATCH MY AESTHETIC and also there are actual good no shops here where i can buy from (not that I know of) and if smo mentions daraz they have the cheap stuff those random twisted pieces of metal which they shamelessly clasify as “y2k” 😭😭 is not it
The only solution is shien atleast for me i think it has pretty good stuff but it takes a shit ton of time to deliver.

Does anyone know a good place for jewelry, pls i dont want those gold things because its haram for men and i wld acc appreciate silver or even simple metal but in a good y2k aesthetic or even plain rings or bracelets just good stuff if ykwim.