u/ForsakenMost6550

I see a constant narrative especially on social media where they believe that men just want supermodel women. Have I been sad over a good looking woman? Yes because I’m human. Do I feel entitled to one? Obviously not.

Never in my life have I ever felt owed a supermodel woman never mind do I feel even worthy of one.

When you experience years of abuse in how you are rejected it becomes pretty damn clear and obvious that incels just want a single woman who likes them back.

But obviously coming to this realisation requires a scary amount of humility most people would never possess.

Men below a 6 just are not even treated as human.

Edit:

For all the people who say I should just pay if I wanted sex. I’ve done that all my life. It doesn’t replace my desire for genuine connection like everybody else.

Also I’d like to add. If it’s my ‘misogynistic views’ of women that are the reason I can’t find a partner. You should do some research on the just world fallacy and look up what it is. If it were my views that were the problem, there wouldn’t be misogynistic men who get into relationships all the time.

The amount of gaslighting and virtue signalling is strong with these comments.

Top comment received 8,000 upvotes. Claiming that he ‘holds men accountable for women not acknowledging or making eye contact with other men’ just pure misandry. But me as a young man going for run isn’t threatened by hecklers or attacks from other men in the street at all? Especially where I’m from in the UK. Such incredible takes. Must be rage bait at this point.

https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/thenatureofviolentcrimeinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2024

I’ve been single and lonely for nearly 30 years now. Back in my early 20’s I could handle it a lot better because there was some hope that I was still young and full of energy. I’m heading towards 30 now having been constantly socially bullied because of my looks and other quirks and issues I didn’t ask for, but what I should be most concerned about is the 1% of men who abuse women. I know 30 isn’t old, but it’s old to me as I always thought my 20’s would last forever. 10 years will fly by and I will be 40 still feeling this way. Men’s mental health and loneliness are ignored and shunned because of women’s issues that cannot even be supported by evidence

Being invisible in society is no joke. Probably life’s biggest cruelty is making someone ugly.

Recognising the importance of lookism in society does not equate to someone being a violent hateful misogynist. They are painted that way because of the actions of a few. Sometimes when I read especially on AI where they suggest that most incel cultures perpetuate violent and misogynistic content it makes my blood boil and want me to pull my hair out. Most men who are chronically single are single because of their looks. They cannot show their personality because they don’t pass the looks threshold to be able to show it. Most of them are individuals who have been forced into social isolation due to bullying and rejection and all people say about them is that they are violent school shooters who call women foids and want to rape them. I personally stay away from forums like 4chan and deeper subreddits where this kind of content is shared. But there are no incel forums anymore like there used to be. Most are banned or heavily moderated which means most incels are just vocalising the importance of looks in dating.

Being alone protecting your inner peace is better than putting yourself out there just to get bullied for being who you are. Usually you also tend to get bullied for traits that are entirely out of your control. Then it’s projected that you are bullied because you are alone, rather than the other way around.