u/Forward-Action741

Boyfriend day was yesterday I haven't seen any post about any guy receiving anything. For girlfriend day they were few things that were posted as well.

So men do we accept bare minimum or African ladies just dont care much about giving to the men. Cause sometimes you get a present for someone not expecting anything in return and she gets socks.

Ahhhh are women not financially to provide proper present or they just want to receive and not give. Some give the cat as present kkkkk . Ahhhh come on . Do men care of the presents or if she buys you it seems weird.

Bet some have never received any financial help or just babe let me have this bill. Does not getting your guy a present mean you don't like him cause if tables are turned it seems so.

Men most grow up without much attention from parents or society so if you have a good one please make him few special and bet he will triple it.

Guys do you like presents. Women can you get your men presents. Your views guys. Cause seems present always go one sided. Whats your thoughts. At the end of the day people will be complaining on bare minimum when they do that as well. Your views

So been to almost all big clubs in Bulawayo. Guess what after 10 the prime time its straight shona songs.

Maybe its the places I have been but king kraal , samuriwo , theater , the place , the cub , nexus and many more

Might forget others cause I am drunk but all clubs prime times its JP , Winky d , Jnr Spragga , Hulengende , Mudododo and other songs .All poster I see of events its international or Shona artist main character.

Not to say its bad or good . But its my observation. Is it good , does it kill the Bulawayo talent, cause at the place the band was literally singing all shona songs mugove , JP , Winky d and others.

Does this kill Bulawayo art as a shona I am happy but thinking in other terms makes it different. Does having Zulu and ndebele only kill the shona in the areas.

My observation this is not tribalism its an observation good and building comments thank you. We are all Zim and noone is coming from Mars to speak our issues. Thank you

Hie the meeting online and dating apps have they made people lazy. Cause to think of it the old one on one random meet up was great thinking on your feet the bars and everything. Could feel proud of yourself afterwards.

Know its an app swipe left or right that it . You match and if one does like the other they feel or think they have the whole world working for them to swipe. Does this make people less value there relationships cause they know they have a full backup plan in there phone.

If you match with someone how will you know they are not back there getting someone how would your know you the only one in the DM. Are apps making people think there options are endless.

Also they is a room of lieing on the apps rather than in real life. Using social media or apps does it mean one is scared in person or what. Might vibe online and be like total strangers when you meet face to face.

One can just copy and paste chats from AI and guess what someone might think its them will its not. Heard about catfish as well .

So is dating lazy cause of apps and is it giving people room to lie and cheat as well. Whats your take.

Just checking if anyone has used traccar for GPS tracker which I heard is free. Or is there any car tracking app i can use to host any recommendations or where I can get help its appreciated.

So on Friday they was a celebration in Byo of Mzilikazi i am not quite xure of the name or anything. All I know is they wore there ndebele and went to the streets kudos on that. In the Shona community we don't celebrate any history of ours some people don't even know the migration of there people like fore father's. Here in Byo you see traditional wear being sold in the streets a person can buy it but for the shona it can't.

Getting seen with a traditional wear people would think you are doing evil spirit or something else. Remember I heard at AU one time it was Africa day and people were asked to wear there traditional wear. The shona guys had to wear suits. Is our culture backward or what.

Are we ashamed of our history or what. Is our history boring can you clear up for me just some thoughts. We are the future generations fore father's if we dont ask or act on it our kids kids will not know anything about us no footprint will be left here .

Coming from a bar on a mid week my cousin bro who is happy married according to status has a girlfriend in his hand. She knows he is married and is about to eat. Got me wondering my brother in law almost the same thing every weekend. Is marriage overrated. Do people get to married cause they are bored about some chores or they really love there partners. Even at work I see people who claim to be happy married out there there husband will be out with every new person every other week. Is marriage that bad or people just do it for the views. Some guys a few weeks after rora or wedding are already back in the streets. Is marriage overrated or not

So let me cook .That's not the spelling of the right word I did not want to write it. If one in 17 and the other is 18 or 19 .Just because the other one is not yet 18 makes the one above 18 a pidofile right. That's statutory rape in they are sleeping together. Age gap is like a year or two

If someone is 18 and is in a relationship with a 40 year old apparently that okay they can get married legally. 2 concerted citizen and can sleep together freely no issue. The age gap here is 22 years right .

So between the 2 who is doing statutory rape. Of the 2 should we introduce state or global acceptance marriage ranges . Does this low key allow pidofile

to take kids cause they have just reached the age of 18.

We see world billionaires who are in 70s and 80s getting married to 22 year olds and nothing is legally done to it. So is the world covering for pidofiles.Your thoughts

So been noticing a lot of relationship issues in the society . When you speak with the ladies mostly complaining about the men not being men enough or doing the bare minimum. With the guys complaining also about girls being materialistic and not being loyal . So the question is are were expecting more from the other gender cause we're are not in there shoes or the other gender is just doing the bare minimum. I have seen situations were some guys are happy to be single stating it saves my bank balance. The trips and dates and outings involved. Also have seen girls saying being single is better at least I an not being used for bare minimum. So what is bare minimum. Does that consider with ones salary he or she is getting . Cause someone getting lets say civil servant salary and he pulls what he can on that is it bare minimum or he is automatically in the bare minimum zone. Also to the ladies does his bank balance equal to the loyal he gets cause seen some who are saying if he does pay my rent or this trip I can do what I want cause he does own me. The fun think we are seeing celebrities divorcing each and everyday. Is there love in this generation or its fantasy given to the highest bidder. See the SA limpopo boy man's thought he had done everything proper but it is what it is

Lots of men have been step dads and raised kids that are not there's. If the table is turned to the other gender . Usually when a step mom comes in the picture life becomes horror for the kids of the previous wife. As a society I believe we have seen our own share on that. So my question do men love these children or are forced to do so and why can't women properly take care of the first wife's children. Can share experience you have seen or happened to you if your comfortable. How does being a step parent makes one feel is it a good or bad thing. Once saw a guy whose wife passed he decided not to remarry cause he was afraid the new wife will ill treat his kids .

If he or she is not reachable from Monday to Wednesday then game is game you the weekend stock. If he is not reachable after 6p.m everyday game is game then he or she is married .if she saves you by your government name then game is game then your not the main. So just got me thinking of how people play others. If she calls when she only need money then game is game your the atm.If you like can add other actions that show one is being played or taken for granted and just add game is game before the truth. If you have any experience can share if you want.

If he or she is not reachable from Monday to Wednesday then game is game you the weekend stock. If he is not reachable after 6p.m everyday game is game then he or she is married .if she saves you by your government name then game is game then your not the main. So just got me thinking of how people play others. If she calls when she only need money then game is game your the atm.If you like can add other actions that show one is being played or taken for granted and just add game is game before the truth. If you have any experience can share if you want.

So have noticed something. Usually people who have long term relationships they always end up breaking up . I have a few i knew from High School . The moment the hit attachment its no more . Some survived but non into marriage. Usually the guy after breaking up goes to the next person and might get married as well. My concern is the girls most of them they end up being single and as of now non of they are married. Is the time spent in a relationship relatively proportional to the healing time someone might need or not. Also non of them I would approach persay but they are named Usually babe ra like John in the circles cause you be with that guy for long. In the circles noone would consider the relationship with that girl so have noticed cause creates beef.But for the guy he can take any hun cause he is seen as a stable and serious person.Does this apply to divorce as well cause haven't seen a divorce in my peers and is there a way over it or we just stigmatiz a women or girl for being outside a relationship. All comments are accepted can help the guys point of view and also the ladies there view. Cause from a guy side i cant be in a relationship with her cause bro code it makes it seem like I was low key eyeing your girl and ladies do you have a code or it is what it is kkkkkk

My computer computers are on work. I have removed one and I don't know the password for it the local admin how can I set it back . 😫

So has the 25 life check of Zim turned to 35 being married having a kid a car and a house or stand some kkkkk. Or maybe I am seeing it wrong

Hie looking for a side hustle in Bulawayo. I have a 8 to 5 already so thinking adding tracking doing it on weekends and stuff is there anywhere I can learn it or anyone who knows someone who does it who can teach me in Bulawayo or online. Thanks or other side hustle in Bulawayo

So have been having an account of a particular dating app. Haven't been using it moved to a new place and new language so connecting with people on face to face conversation you won't know if they speak your language and English unoita so urikudada so I heard kkkkk. On the dating app usually when I speak with someone they usually comment you should be on this app. Too funny to be here and all sort of good comments.Are there weirdos on dating apps or what. Are people that rude or insensitive or what. What's your worst experience on this apps. Mine is people we touchline who have been using those apps honestly.

We might have all the wishes in the world. But for me at this time need someone to fuck she cums I nut and that it. Tomorrow we go our separate ways. We have life and other things to think about but nuting and cuming should be on our basic needs. Any Byo queen who is up for it I am down. If wishes were horses guess yours will be ridden all night honey Kkkkkk. DM if interested kkkk

So it's a Sunday seeing myself not bothered about church like I used to. It got me thinking what happened to me not saying its a good or bad thing. But just curious why quite a number of people have left there church's as well. Do we believe less or it's the administration or what.