u/FoxEfficient785

Hi, I just wanted to know what you guys do with your facility if you are having a hard time getting a pulse ox reading on a patient in a critical care setting. I have a patient on Neo and also vaso the vaso has been on and off, but most consistently on neo and I was unable to get pulse ox throughout the shift. I tried placing it in various places and tried different forms. Fingers were cool so were the lower extremities. The forehead probe did not work sometimes I would get some sort of a plethora and sometimes it’s just a flat line. We did any pao2 was 93% on 4 L other facility we do not have a pulse ox that is placed in the air to see if that would work. What do you do

I’m gonna preface this by saying I’m not blaming childhood trauma for the way. I turned out and I hate the way I am. I am really tired of hurting everybody around me from my mom to my husband. I feel like I’m not grateful enough, and I keep searching for something that I’ll probably never this earth. I’ve been married for going on five years and since the beginning of the marriage when things are a little rocky my go to is always divorced and it’s not like I actually want to divorce, but I’m just not good dealing with conflict. I am just tired. I feel like all I do is hurt people around me. My husband is nice however there are some things I wish would change. I just want simple things like take me on a date once every few months nothing fancy even coffee date or a hiking date just anything. In the beginning he could g because he didn’t work due to lack of papers. So I would Take him out and he didn’t want to use my money to take me out which I get even then I still wouldn’t mind him using it to take me now that he’s been working for a year and a half gone out but not a lot maybe 3x after I complained about it. I hate to ask for such things I wish this came naturally. Even little gifts would mean something again. It doesn’t have to be expensive. Personally I spend on him. If I see a good clothes, good brand I buy for him could choose. I buy just anything really that he could use be for work or just to have I’ll do. But I wish that was reciprocal. He tells me I can take his garden by whatever I need, but I just wish a little thought was put into it. It’s not that I’m liking anything. I personally at work and I can buy myself things. It’s not that I need him to buy it, but it’s just the act of getting something from your husband. That is nice . . Sometimes he doesn’t cut his nails like his fingers and toenails and that bothers me so much because I want my partner to be attractive for me or his feet would be really ashy ( used to take him to spa) really ashy that is so unattractive to me. In the beginning of a relationship, I would complain that he didn’t tell me that he loved so he said he only says that when he’s meaningful, he doesn’t want it to be said so much that he loses his meaning. I stopped caring about it at some point but then going into your five year. Going to bed together is important to me. I get home by 8pm he gets home at 9pm and after eating he watches tv to relax until 12-1am then goes to bed by that time obviously I’m asleep. It would be nice to lay down with one’s partner and enjoy their company. I just feel like in a sense I’m just settling and not getting things that are important to me in a relationship and he thinks that I’m being unrealistic by saying those things and that I’m telling him an adult male to cut his nails to lotion his body to dress up to look good to work out he’s not even overweight. He just started having a belly. He works 5 to 6 days a week. He has to work two Saturdays a month he doesn’t necessarily I guess have time to take me out and I don’t even ask for anything expensive. I just wanna go out and spend time just something intimate. I’m asking is like on his weekend off just one of it maybe once every two months or so we could go out on a date you know just something romantic I’m going to a point where I feel like I’m asking for a lot. I’m asking him for things that he cannot give me other than that he’s a very sweet guy his love languages active service so if I needed a massage after work, he will give it to me if my car needed gas he will fill it if I was hungry in the middle of the night he’ll make me food if I needed a cup of tea just anything really he will do but the little things that I ask for that truly means something to me seems like a burden. Just got a point I don’t know maybe if I’m just meant to be alone just because of the way, I Am and the things I went through in my early childhood and I’ve tried therapy but so far it seems to be useless. I’m considering the Muslim therapy because I just found out about that. We just bought a house. I just want to know am I being ungrateful? I just don’t know what to do at this point. He think I’m creating problems that don’t exist

He think I’m creating problems that don’t exist

Hi buying a new built home and we are getting an inspection however I wanted to get specialist to evaluate certain parts because they go deeper than a general home inspection. Any really good ones in the area? I see some companies have all of the services however need people who used their services and had experience.

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