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We werent close i write a whole thing but it got deleted so, they were nonbinary and i always respected that, but in my head i always just think of them as a girl, cuzz im closeted and is like i never really live my identity out loud even thout "i dont hide it" i cannot not masc or pretend cuzz my parent are terrible with lost of stuff and already sont respect who am i just because im not an actress as they ae i like science. Geology. So i feel guilty that they off themselfs because am closeted and in my head i cannot close off the issue of identity of them being nonbinary, like i get it in my public self, but is my heart that just cannot like live up to that so im not fully respecting, and ik am making it about me and im awful and stuff might happen in their life, and idk, and all the love ones that i talk also feel dissapoint and just with despair of no having them and my guild is just an excuse to feel connected to them, but idk, is like i wasnt there you know, i been so depressed the last couple of years and lot happen, and i stop going to the pride march as we used to, and we were never that close actually they were awfull to be lots of litle times with litle stuff, but i loved them, so i feel is like i betrayel them, like i didnt saw them, cuzz is true, i was and im so lost in my own depression that i lost contact to what used to get us together, and i feel it might also being because of me cuzz them have me block, and my sister, wel my sister actually truly fuck up with tem, she was their friend firs, and the last 3 years she was dating the ex of them, and like idk, so much there just not ok, she truly did numbers in everybody, but this is not about her, is about how i might have been just void in they to push they, and is haunting me, like i hate they cuzz i know also they off themselfs cuzz they were bored, they didnt want to face adut life cuzz it meant being even less messy and less of a rebel, less free, less of themrself more of self preservation and boring shit and i know they hated it, is so idk, it was like everything come apart cuzz how did they have the nerve, it just so ridiculous me saying all this stuff, maybe i just what should i do?

Like i dont want the harry some people write that has like all the houses(the house of black, the gryffindor house, the Potter house, the slytheryn house..etc), or like a harry more smart that hermione, like harry was never smarter that hermione, like harry is not dumb, he is brilliant he is better in like defence agains the dark arts and the other class that hermione is, but otherwise hermione is the brilliant one, like ofcourse she has flaws, she is closeminded, like she has a hard time with anything but logical stuff and books thou she is a good friend and loyal, like i just want something that feels like the canon books but with harmony.

Idk if you guys can recommend me something like the canon but harmony, without exagerations about harrys character and hermiones, like i want the shy homeboy that sometimes is a bit cocky but mostly out of "he never had he had something to brag about" innocent cuzz he grew up in a terrible house, like that, and a hermione that is the brave and brilliant hermione that she is, no perfect, just on character, like i dont want "a hermione that never makes mistakes" but i dont want a "hermione that the writter is making to make mistakes just to make her humble" cuzz the writter hates hermione character, just the canon characters, like normal, that, thank u🤎

Im sorry like I know I'm explaining a lot but like being on this app it seems like i should, i just want to get to read something that feels like them, thanks🤎

(P.d.2: ofcourse i will never expect like that the author makes them exactly like the canon, like are fanfics it will always be a interpretation of the author of the fanfic, thats complety okay, i just want some works that intent to imitated the canon and kept going but harmony, i just dont want a history that intent to change the characters or does a alternative version of the books, i just want canon setting🤙🙌🙏🙇‍♀️🤙🤙)

Okey so, i feel the magic of their love is the friendship they have, and the potential of their love dosent erase the friendship, like i feel a lot of harmony fans want to say "they were never friends" or "everything have a double sense" but thats missing the point, i feel they loved eachother deeply as friends, and i feel they could have been more but harry is too insecure so he never took a chance, so i feel after the books ended they would have ended together, but because of their friendship because of how deep they get eachother, i feel because of that the romance exist, no as a side stuff, like the friendship is the most real thing there, the romance goes after, and it works because of the friendship.

Like i wrote this because of a lot of the fandom clinging to when hermione calls harry atractive and when harry tells hermione she was never ugly, but i feel it was a sincery friendship moment, like who never say stuff like that to a friend? I feel they have romantic moments and those are not it, like all the breaksfast, inside jokes, or comments, how much hermione gets how obssesive harry is about draco before Ron does, i feel that shit is more romantic, how much hermione sees how lost on this own mind harry gets, like for me the most romantic stuff is how hermione is all about writting harry every year on the summers, and how harry always agrees, and actually tells her stuff! unlike Ron, or how hermione gets right little details about harry or how he didnt eat well one summer and hermione is all loud about it, like a friend for me wouldnt be that vocal about it, but she is always steping on things and situations for harry, she truly does loved him so much, she walks on fire for that boy, like i feel that shit is romatic, or how when Ron says in the horrocrux hunt about if she is gonna stay with him or harry, she stays with harry without like idk going with Ronald for like two days or something to try to convince him to stay, WHEN THEY ARE AT WAR, HE COULD DIE, BUT SHE JUST STAYS WITH HARRY, like c'mon, and yes she crys for days but she never actually doutbs it. She just stays.

Idk i feel they love eachother to much so it makes sense for them to be in love, but for me it was never about something else, is like what JK say, that she made a mistake about not letting them be together, like one dosent have to change much about the story for them to be a thing, they always could, but also for me it makes sense if it is after the war when they both heal cuzz thry are too much of good friend to force a romance out of time, and like with both about to die all the time and harry losing sirius and then remus and severus and albus, and hermione being scar, is like they have to much on each shoulder for them to be together, is like as friends they were giving it all.

My most contoversial take is that it makes sense that JK chose ron and ginny as their partners cuzz like i say they have to much on their shoulders so utting Ron a goofy dude with hermione and Ginny a confident amazing girl with harry kinda saves them as characters and makes them a life, but for me is only on paper, harry is too obsessive and ginny is to easygoing with life, conflictive cuzznis a women with desires and goals, but she isnt obsessive, and ron is too hotheaded to be with hermione, and too goofy, im sorry but those two harry and hermione after healing breaking free from the whole shit of war are going to be in love and happy cuzz they love eachother to unreasonable to no be together as adults.

Like i feel most harmony fans i met here or read storys they wrote want harmony to be a diferent story that aftually is, is not a ll consuming love that left no scrumbs, is a love that comes from deep friendship, so there isnt a presure for them to be together or they both will die, thats the point, it is a calm love, an unbreakeble love, like is the most beautiful thing what we all inspire for, a love that comes from a deep friendship, because is a love that actually respect who we are before something else, so thats the point for me, it dosent matter the end of the books, they love could come after the books, it wouldnt be a odd thing for me, because of the reasons i already say.

edit: a lot of people is giving "is not all men" response here( just"is not all harmonys") ofcourse it dosent happen always, but i encounter this enough to made a post about it, if it didnt happen with some fanfics you read thats great share them here idk, other can learn, so we can all grow, but dont be a hater to an issue a saw because you feel attack and then claim you never saw this, clearly if you feel that attack is because you feel touch, look at that, im not saying people who disregard their friendship should die or are monsters, just maybe can think twice next time, because for me is the most important part of the pairing and in this post i explaing why. ofcourse u can disagree just be polite about it and please make sense and no just say "is not all of us!😭" nobody say it was.

Be kind as a bi person towards any girl you date or are with as a teen cuzz she might be confused or just have issues of her own, just that🤎

Ofcourse only if she is kind to u too, also girls arents suppose to undertand all guys bad behanver, like girls arent ur safe space away from society, GIRLS ARE PART OF THE EQUATION, girls are part of society, u have to also be the safe space for her to unload too, and rest herself too🙌

My super point here is that as a bi person sometimes man arent cool and u may want women to be ur everything, but women arent a ×2 is just a person u cant expect her to hold you togrther in one piece u got to have friends to hold you together emocionally or u cant date, friends are more important that a patner cuzz u need the support of at least 3 people, a women cant be ask to support you alone, thats violent, thats too much

I know ur figuring thing out, and ur for sure doing and being amazing cuzz ur valid and ur especial, this advise goes to girls and boys bisexual out there

Just lets be since younth respectfull toward girls and women we try to get with🙌

I want all ships of the same aged, no autorite figure ships,

also no luna lovegood or severus or dumbledure or sirius or remus or James potter or ron weasley × hermione, it feels off with me, and wih Ron maybe if the fanfic is really good

I want something that goes after the war or just before the war, im ok with time travel, preferly a completed story, my last fanfic was incredible and im trying to top it, it was Unsphere the Stars by cocoartist

ships i like tom riddle/hermione granger both same aged cuzz she travel in time, hermione/harry potter or any other ship of hermione being a lesbian could be perfect if she is BAMF also just not Luna, other ships can be fine(:

im open minded this are just my preferents just not aged diference thats is not ok for me

Also i dont like storys that glorifited twisted man, and logic without like nothing of commun sense of humanity, like no dark, im ok with justifity dark like after the war and like hermione trying stuff and all just out of character for the canon hermione, like hermione canon would totally do bad ass shit or dark spells just no to get off to it, like thats no hermione, thats tom riddle or a dark wizart just that

Also i read the most famous fanfics already, so please reccomend me odd or no famous ones, i promise i read and feed back to u

Thank you all🤎

is from harry potter fandom.

So i dont remember much but the main story line, i didnt get the chance to read it, it was on watpad but maybe is on other places to. So hermione has one of the oldest and more powerfull lastnames, and there is a profesy about it, hermione is in the profesy, like in the harry potter canon(is like everything else like the canon, even vodemort, just is not the relevant part of the story)

Everyone thought her line(hermiones) was over, and then hermione is there, and dumbledore try to kept it a secret and not tell her about it, for her no to become that powerfull or something like that im not sure,

Idk if she still is a granger, i know is a secret she is that powerfull, and i think they were scared of her and harrys power together, that was the point, like the plot, how much fear of their power dumbledore and the faculty of hogwarts had. I search everywhere for this for like an year and i didnt find this fanfic, so if you know it and share it here i will be forever thankfull with you

I think it may have been deleted cuzz i truly look wattpad upside down and everywhere else, for all the important code words and nothing!

i dont want you to identify it. is a particular book, if it is save in some of the delete books some person on here has, they would be able to tell. If the story line dosent resonate with nothing cuzz thry dont have it is ok. Thats all

What i say there, but same aged, no aged gap in couples, and no rape in the story or twisted stuff, more that all the twisted stuff about horrocrux and genoice and all🤙that enough

Thank u all

So i dont remember much but the main story line, i didnt get the chance to read it, it was on watpad but maybe is on other places to. So hermione has one pf the oldest and more powerfull lastnames, and there is a profesy about it, hermione is in the profesy, like in the harry potter canon, but everyone thought her line was over, and then hermione is there, and dumbledore try to kept it a secret and not tell her about it, for her no to become that powerfull or something like that im not sure,

Idk if she still is a granger, i know is a secret she is that powerfull, and i think they were scared of her and harrys power together. I search everywhere for this for like an year and i didnt find this fanfic, so if you knoe it and share it i will be forever thankfull with you

you guys have to remember unless she was starving even if she have anorexia being young it wouldnt be showing in her body as much as now that she dosent have the young body she once had, and one grows older the body is more sensible and the same starving one did in their young in a older body it shows more, i think this only shows how we all care about mental health in women only if affect their looks and we have to face it and look at it, otherwise we dont care.

Ofcourse now seeing how bad it got idk what we can do and we are nobody in arianas life, for me we can leave love and acceptence and say for her to get better and take care of who she is and looks dont matter and her voice is precious, idk, i had people living this kimd of stuff close to me and is not something u can express concern about and it being receive, they need therapy and everything being the same, like dont make it all about bodys, let it be real, thou i think we should hot buy tickets to her tour.

Okey so, Hermione is an amazing character like she can be problematic, but always carries loyalty and bravery and lets face it she is as bright as one can be, but in the books she is not good looking as Emma Watson, which is fine cuzz that made the movies more famous and Emma is incredible playing Hermione.

Now in fanfics where be have the liberty to chose how we tell the story most people chose to write a Emma Watson hermione, a gorgeous and no so problematic hermione, which is in your right.

My request to those writters is if you can no do so much enfasis on Hermiones beauty, i get wanting to make all the characters beautiful, and is fair, but one of hermiones thing is how amazingly brave it is for a young girl to draw that much attention to herself while not relating in beauty or some sensible cuality as most girls are demand or encourage, but relating on her force of will, and inteligence, and curiosity, and just staying true to herself and her friends, i cannot make the point clear to people who hasnt grow up as a girl but even thou beauty dosent make any less, one of the biggest things about hermiones character is how strong she was to be who she was without beauty that takes to do all the did, because of that in tv she is beautiful, because that way it takes less explaining like in the hunger games katniss is white and haymicht is white and Gale is white, but the rare things of the characters are what make us feel more seen, so i ask you if you can just respecting a litle more the meaning of beauty in hermiones character, that is not that it makes her better being more beutiful but it downs play how much it took her to get all the respect she ean without being so.

Thank you

I want something that goes after the war or just before the war, im ok with time travel, preferly a completed story, my last fanfic was incredible and im trying to top it, it was Unsphere the Stars by cocoartist

I love fanfics of hermione as a resercher, or a cursebreker, i love her being a bad ass, and im ok with no romance

ships i like tom riddle/hermione granger both same aged cuzz she travel in time, hermione/harry potter or any other ship of hermione being a lesbian could be perfect if she is BAMF also just not Luna, other ships can be fine(:

I want all ships of the same aged, no autorite figure ships,

also no luna lovegood or severus or dumbledure or sirius or remus or James potter or ron weasley × hermione, it feels off with me, and wih Ron maybe if the fanfic is really good

If is a hermione raises Tom riddle no tom riddle/hermione granger, no incest please

im open minded this are just my preferents just not aged diference thats is not ok for me

Thank you all🤎

Now hear me out, do you all remember all the times Elena say in season one "she used to be more fun" and they all say Elena all calm and "boring" aura was cuzz her parents die? Caroline say that but nobody says otherwise, and this is the Elena we know since the start of the series, but then she becames a Vampire and she "changes" and is into Damon, but when she becames a Vampire she is just more fun, relax and all, what is that is just the real Elena, ehat if she got stock into being this calm self because of Stefan?

Because Stefan likes this responsible and calm Elena, like he likes she is nothing like Katherine, but what if she is? There is nothing wrong with it.

Im not saying Stefan and Elenas love isnt real, and later on they have more fun, like in those dreams of a perfect world they have because of the travelers, but we are told Elena was this person before her parents die, and we only see this part of Elena when Damon is around, like my favorite moment is when Elena say something about going back to the team to cheer and Damon say

"-is okey to let it go, to not be the same" something like that, and after that Elena dosent try anymore to come back to the team. Idk i always felt Elena is more herself with Damon, yes ofcourse anybody can see she is happy with stefan or seem more light and warm with Stefan but idk i always felt and saw this paralels and i wanted fo share my point of view. Later on on the series they make this point of Damon meeting Elena firs and Elena being instanly interest in him, so isnt that odd my theory.

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I have just like two things i dont want, i dont want any diference of aged relationships, like none, no teacher student stuff or none, just same aged if it must be romance

Also i dont want bashing of any character like in a irrational fashion, like i like when it makes sense, like a critic to dumbledore cuzz he well did things were just inhumane like living tom riddle in that place in the middle of a muggle war starving, thats neglect right there, he should have done better, like canon bad stuff i so support if we are in the fanfict picking up on them, even petty thing if ne must, but just nothing cruel, cheeky yes

I want all ships of the same aged, no autorite figure ships,

also no luna lovegood or severus or dumbledure or sirius or remus or James potter or ron weasley × hermione, it feels off with me, and wih Ron maybe if the fanfic is really good

I want something that goes after the war or just before the war, im ok with time travel, preferly a completed story, my last fanfic was incredible and im trying to top it, it was Unsphere the Stars by cocoartist

ships i like tom riddle/hermione granger both same aged cuzz she travel in time, hermione/harry potter or any other ship of hermione being a lesbian could be perfect if she is BAMF also just not Luna, other ships can be fine(:

im open minded this are just my preferents just not aged diference thats is not ok for me