u/Fresh_Ad1974

Haven’t been in years and honestly the energy is so OFF ! Worse than bayfair & hayward bart….. what is up for real😐

I’m a scorpio rising and recently have encountered two girl Scorpio moons and wowzersssss i’m a girl too but like whew it is INTENSEEEEE idk how to feel about it! It felt like we were sniffing each other out from jump. Now I wanna find a scorpio moon girl best friend.

I’ve met two scorpio moon men and it was just extremely strong chemistry/sexual attraction off the bat. Idk how I feel about scorpio moon men yet, but I am highly attracted to them.

Scorpio suns, it’s 50/50. I’ve only ever met one scorpio rising, over ten years ago and she was my coworker and she was amazing we got along so well.

And I just had an intense sex dream about my hot coworker!!! My goal is to be abstinent 10 years total. Idk if i can do it anymore😭

HE IS SO HOT

I have my psychology b.a. and I graduated in 2021. I’m contemplating if I want to pursue more schooling to maybe get a masters, or even PhD. How can I figure out what is a better fit? I never considered myself smart enough to ever get a PhD.

Any advice? I’m starting to think did I waste my time getting a psych ba in the first place.

I have no guy friends, or any male perspective to ask. Well, I mentioned the situation to my parents and they said “oh, he probably likes you”. But, I think they would say that about any guy because they want me to have a bf & start dating LMAO.

For context, we’re both in our late 20s. And, I am bartender and it was my first day working. He came up on his off day and he was like visibly already had been drinking. I didn’t know he worked there. Until he sat down, he had a friend with him. When he approached the bar his initial energy was VERY strong toward me, like almost TOO strong. I was kinda thrown off. Then, he was like oh it’s ur first day and I was like yeah. Then he told me he worked there too. He said something else that kinda blew his first impression for me but i don’t wanna reveal too much. Mind you, i lie as a bartender and just say i don’t drink so ppl won’t ask me and try to get me drunk(fun fact it didn’t work LMAO). Anyway, he was oh what you don’t drink like at all? All shocked i gotta kick out of it ngl but i was like yeahhh. So then his friend is asking me all the basics where you from all that kinda stuff blah blah. He was like do you have kids? I said no. So i asked them if they have kids, and then i’ll call Dan(my crush), was like oh yeah I do. I was just oh. But not in a bad way! Idk it was just like such an intense first meeting so after that i just assumed he didn’t like me very much and i surely didn’t like him because he was quite rude.

BUT THEN okay so once we started to work together i noticed him staring me DOWNNNN all the time … like it was lowkey alarming. I just ignored it because i’m very shy like VERY… and i would notice whenever I would be talking to someone his eyes “boom” zeroed in on me. He also was like teasing one day, then ignored me the next. Idk men are sooo weird . So i can’t read him. I already don’t work there anymore so i guess i’ll never know. Ugh I was really attracted to him too and i hadn’t liked someone this much in a while. But he was too wishy washy and i couldn’t tell if he was just being a guy or if he actually liked me.

Since high risk hpv doesn’t work like other viral stds, i’m not sure how I go about having the conversation with partners in the future about my previous hpv results?

I had an abnormal pap smear for the first time, with positive hpv-12 other, in 2024. I went back 2025, and this year and it has since been negative both years in a row. In that time I have been abstinent.

However, I recently met someone new who it is just platonic with right now. But, in the future I’m scared about telling them this about my past.

How do you go about explaining this in the most medically accurate way? Since, I can’t say that is technically “cleared” from my body forever because it isn’t, but my tests are negative now. How do I navigate this? It’s giving me a lot of anxiety, and making me very insecure. The hpv sub has very biased advice and feedback which is why I prefer to ask here.

I have a work crush… I only know his big 3 lolz he won’t tell me his actual birthday. He’s virgo sun, scorpio moon, cancer rising. I’m aqua sun, sag moon, scorpio rising. We are both 28. And fun fact i wrote in my manifest journal abt randomly wanting a man with cancer and Scorpio placements 😭. Idk what to do with myself around him. I’m very attracted to him. Do our big 3’s work well together?