He keeps following a lot of girls, what should I be thinking?
So I recently starting talking to this guy. We’ve hung out and he responds throughout the day and tells me he’s interested, but I keep seeing his following go up. Feeling like I’m a second choice has always been an insecurity for me and I know he’s still on the apps and I think he’s adding girl after girl (from the apps) on his instagram. I’ll even see his following go up multiple times while still being on delivered on both instagram and messages.
Now I’m one of those people that can’t talk to/entertain multiple people at once. And we’re not exclusive so it’s fine if he’s talking to other girls. I want to ask him about it (hopefully he’s honest). But why say your this interested in moving forward with me if your adding so many people onto social media.
I guess I’m asking should I bring it up? How should I do it if I do? And what kind of things should I be thinking about it? Because we’re planning on seeing each other again in a few days and I don’t want to bring it up over text, but I also don’t want it to eat away at me. But he’s also not going to have service this weekend, so theres not really a point in bringing it up unless I say something tonight.