u/FunAcanthocephala138

hello everyone, i am 20F and i am kinda in a rough patch these past few months as my anxiety heightened. right now its night time and i kinda need someone to talk to and discuss about yall’s opinion on the afterlife and religion. i remembered i woke up at 2 am the other day because i was overthinking about the afterlife after we lost a loved one recently. maybe someone out there can have some time to talk with me it would be greatly appreciated. i feel kinda anxious right now and i don’t have anyone to talk to…

I have insomnia since 2020. Last night I actually was having trouble already transitioning to sleep. i dont know for many hours i was tossing and turning since i do not watch the clock at all. but finally i did slept. when it was 5:30 am my mom just suddenly woke me up and startled me. i was surprise like i thought i got a mini heart attack. i was in the MIDDLE OF MY SLEEP. ALSO MIDDLE OF A DREAM. she thought i had class so she woke me up but actually we don’t have. so now my sleep is ruined.

I'm experiencing this thing where I'm sure I'm dreaming, but I'm awake at the same time. Like I can hear my environment, I'm conscious of my surroundings, but my thoughts are turning into dreams. Hypnagogic thoughts forming into a dream while I'm still conscious.

It feels like fake sleeping. I know I'm dreaming but I know I'm not asleep. It's really distressing and makes me feel like I'm not sleeping at all.

I also have anxiety and recently had a death in the family, so maybe that's making it worse. I also tend to distance from people when this happens.

Does anyone else experience this? Is this still considered sleep? How do you get out of this loop? Because the more I notice it, the more I stay awake.

hi guys 😔
di ko na alam. for the past few weeks sobrang hirap ko makatulog. kahit 4 hours lang tulog ko, paghiga ko sa gabi naiipit ako sa yung parang kalahating tulog kalahating gising. tapos pag umaga gigising ako na parang hindi nakatulog.

ang worst part is, sobrang naaapektuhan na studies ko. kanina nag-send si ma’am ng learning materials and I literally cried kasi ang hirap mag-focus. i cried reminiscing the times where i can easily go deep in my studies and learn a lot. but things have changed now. dati nakakatulog ako agad, ngayon kahit pagod na pagod ako di pa rin makatulog kasi natatakot ako na mauulit na naman.

natatakot ako na baka permanent na 'to and masira grades ko. pero di ko rin kaya mag-nap ng matagal sa hapon kasi mas lalala sa gabi.

may naka-experience ba dito ng ganito? paano niyo siya na-manage habang may school pa? any tips para di ma-trigger yung anxiety about sleep?

sorry for the rant. pagod lang talaga and natatakot. thank u sa makakabasa.

20, Female, 52kg. last night i had a sharp chest pain on my left side. it faded away after a few minutes before i slept. now i woke up this morning its kinda still here but i can breathe just fine. what i am worried now is my heart is beating fast even though i am not nervous and my lower teeth hurt? i dont know if it makes sense but i searched on google and it says its an emergency? i keep telling my family right now but they said this is nothing. that i will be fine. they just let me drank warm water. do you guys have any idea what is this? should i really go to er?

20, Female. I was just laying down on my right side when suddenly i felt this sharp chest pain in my left side. It’s also mostly on my breast. It feels hard, kinda, for me to breathe deep. But after a few minutes now, it kinda fade away, but its still there. I can’t go back lying to bed. Does anyone know how this happens? Or if anyone has experienced this? Id truly appreciate your help.

I don’t even know how to explain this anymore.

Last night was the worst night I’ve had in weeks. We got home around 8PM and I could FEEL the sleep pressure. I was actually kind of chill. Not panicking for once.

But then it started. Hypnagogic thoughts. Over and over. Then hypnic jerks. Like full body jolts. So many times.
I even moved to my mom’s room thinking maybe a change would help. Nope. Still jerking. Still those weird half-dream thoughts that I HATE. I hate the hypnagogic state so much. It feels like I’m stuck in the doorway and can’t get through.

Somehow, I don’t even know how, I finally knocked out around 1AM. It all happened so fast and I was too out of it to remember.
And of course I still woke up at 6AM because my mom goes to work and makes noise.

I’m so angry and scared. I’ve been in this cycle before. I thought I was getting better with the 10PM-7AM schedule. But it’s REPEATING. And the worst part is I wasn’t even anxious last night. I was calm. So why is my body still doing this??

I feel so hyperaroused right now. Shaky. Dreading tonight already. Like what’s the point if even being calm doesn’t stop the jerks?

Has anyone gotten past this? Does the hypnagogia + hypnic jerks actually stop eventually? Because right now it feels like it’s never going to end and I hate it.

Hi everyone. I’m on about Day 8 of trying to fix my sleep and I’m losing it a bit.

Background: I had a week of really bad anxiety + almost no sleep. Now I’ve been forcing myself to sleep 10pm-6:30am/7am for over a week. I’m in bed for 8-10 hours.

But I still feel awful.

The main thing killing me:
My eyes feel SO heavy and grainy all day. Like I have sand in them. Like I pulled an all-nighter even though I just slept 8+ hours. It’s uncomfortable, makes thinking impossible, and it’s messing with school and my whole life.

I also wake up a few times. Sometimes at 12am from bad dreams, sometimes at 3am, and lots of hypnagogia right before I get up. So the sleep is fragmented even though the hours are there.

I’m so groggy, can’t think straight, and I’ve never felt energetic or "not sleepy" since this started.

My questions:
Did anyone else get this heavy, grainy eye feeling during sleep recovery? Does it go away?
Is it normal to sleep 10 hours and still feel like a zombie for over a week?
How long until the fog and eye heaviness lifted for you?

I’m drinking water, no naps, trying to get light in the morning. I just feel hopeless because I’m doing "everything right" and still feel like this.

Please tell me this is temporary. I’m so tired of feeling like this.

Hi everyone. I’m on about Day 8 of trying to fix my sleep and I’m losing it a bit.

Background: I had a week of really bad anxiety + almost no sleep. Now I’ve been forcing myself to sleep 10pm-6:30am/7am for over a week. I’m in bed for 8-10 hours.

But I still feel awful.

The main thing killing me:
My eyes feel SO heavy and grainy all day. Like I have sand in them. Like I pulled an all-nighter even though I just slept 8+ hours. It’s uncomfortable, makes thinking impossible, and it’s messing with school and my whole life.

I also wake up a few times. Sometimes at 12am from bad dreams, sometimes at 3am, and lots of hypnagogia right before I get up. So the sleep is fragmented even though the hours are there.

I’m so groggy, can’t think straight, and I’ve never felt energetic or "not sleepy" since this started.

My questions:
Did anyone else get this heavy, grainy eye feeling during sleep recovery? Does it go away?
Is it normal to sleep 10 hours and still feel like a zombie for over a week?
How long until the fog and eye heaviness lifted for you?

I’m drinking water, no naps, trying to get light in the morning. I just feel hopeless because I’m doing "everything right" and still feel like this.

Please tell me this is temporary. I’m so tired of feeling like this.

I’m so confused and hoping someone can tell me if this is real or not.

The past week I’ve been stuck in stage 1 sleep / hypnagogia all night. Dream thoughts, jerks, half awake half asleep. Waking up at 6:30am feeling groggy but weirdly "okay".

Last night I finally slept 8pm - 5am. That’s 9 hours of actual sleep. No hypnagogia.
But I woke up feeling WAY more exhausted and groggy than I did with only 6 hours.

The AI told me this means my body finally relaxed enough to do deep sleep and healing, and that the grogginess is actually a good sign?
They said waking from deep sleep is harder, and that 6 hours of anxious light sleep just felt "okay" because of adrenaline/cortisol.

Is this actually true?
Has anyone experienced feeling WORSE after getting more sleep?
Does the exhaustion mean it worked, or did I do something wrong?

I’m less anxious today which is good, but the tiredness is so heavy.
I’m scared to nap because I don’t want to mess up tonight.

Please tell me this gets better. Did day 2-3 feel less groggy for you?

Thank you.

im scared and exhausted and don’t know what to do.

For the past few nights I keep getting stuck in what feels like Stage 1 sleep.
I get the dream-like thoughts, random images, sudden jerks... that "about to fall asleep" feeling.
But I never actually fall. I’m hyper-aware the whole time. It’s like I’m half asleep, half awake for hours.

Last night was the worst. I went to bed trying to sleep and just cycled through that all night. Woke up at 6:30am feeling groggy and like I didn’t sleep at all.

Now it’s 5pm and I’m SO sleepy I want to nap, but the same thing happens. I get the hypnagogia and then nothing.

I’m terrified this is going to keep happening and I’ll never get real sleep again.
The dream thoughts are so vivid it feels like I’m dreaming but I know I’m awake.

Has anyone experienced this? Did it go away?
How do you get from Stage 1 to actually falling into Stage 2?

I feel so alone in this right now. Any advice or reassurance helps.

Thank you

Hi everyone. I’m really struggling and could use some advice.

For the past few days I’ve been having a brutal time sleeping.

What’s happening:
Hypnagogia all day - When I try to nap, I get the dream-like thoughts, sudden jerks, that "about to fall asleep" feeling... but I can’t actually fall. I’m hyper-aware of it. This has been happening since 9am and even at 5pm.
Early waking - I want to sleep until 8-9am but I keep waking up at 6-7am no matter what and can’t go back to sleep.
Anxiety loop - I have class/OJT and I’m terrified that if I don’t sleep now, I’ll be a mess. But the more I try, the more stuck I get.

My schedule:
Trying to shift to 10pm-6am because I have 7am classes some days and 8am-4pm OJT others. But I’m sleep deprived and my body feels confused.

Has anyone dealt with hypnagogia that lasts like this during the day? Did it go away once your schedule fixed?
And how do you stop waking up so early when you’re exhausted and just want to sleep in?

right now I feel like I’m going crazy because I’m SO sleepy but my brain won’t shut off.

Thanks for reading 💛

last night was honestly one of the scariest nights i’ve had in a while.

i just finished my first day of ojt and got home around 9:30 pm. i was physically exhausted and sleepy. my eyes felt heavy, my body felt tired, and i thought i would fall asleep easily. but for some reason i couldn’t.

i would close my eyes and start entering that half-dream state where random thoughts and dream-like scenarios begin to appear. it felt like i was right on the edge of sleep. then suddenly i’d jolt awake again. sometimes it was a hypnic jerk, other times it just felt like my brain refused to fully let go.

this happened over and over for hours.

the weirdest part was that i felt sleepy, but at the same time my mind felt wide awake. my body wanted sleep but my brain seemed stuck in alert mode.

as the night went on, i became more and more frustrated and scared. my heart was pounding, i started hyperventilating, i felt hot, i cried, and i kept worrying that maybe i had somehow forgotten how to sleep. every time i got close, i’d wake up again.

eventually i went to my mom’s room. she massaged my head and hands, i calmed down, stopped trying so hard, and at some point i finally slept.

has anyone else experienced this? where you’re genuinely sleepy and even drifting into dream-like thoughts, but you keep getting pulled back awake before sleep fully happens? what was going on for you?

i think what scared me most wasn’t being awake, but feeling like i had lost control over something that normally happens naturally. 😭

hi everyone. i feel like i’m driving myself crazy over sleep and i wanted to know if anyone can relate. apologies for the lengthy post.

a few days ago, i had one bad night before an important orientation. i had trouble falling asleep, kept getting hypnic jerks whenever i felt like i was drifting off, and became really anxious about sleep. the next day i was exhausted and convinced something was wrong.
the thing is, i’ve actually slept well every night since then.

but now i have a completely new fear.
this morning i woke up around 7:28 am. usually when i wake up around that time, i can still fall asleep again a few times and eventually get out of bed around 10 am. it’s been my routine lately.

today, i wanted to go back to sleep, but i couldn’t.
i tried closing my eyes and imagining scenarios like i normally do when i’m falling asleep, but it felt forced. instead of drifting into that half-awake, half-dreaming state, i felt like i was trying to make it happen. the more i tried, the more awake i felt.

then i started panicking.
now i’m scared that i somehow won’t be able to enter that half-dream state anymore. yesterday i had the same fear, but eventually i fell asleep anyway. today i couldn’t go back to sleep, and now my brain is treating it like proof that something is wrong.

i think part of the problem is that i’m a perfectionist when it comes to sleep.

last week i slept in, went back to sleep after waking up, and even napped during the day. somehow my brain turned that into a rule that i should be able to go back to sleep after waking up, i should be able to nap if i’m tired, or i should be able to enter that half-dream state whenever i want

and when i can’t, i start spiraling.
what scares me the most is not even what happened this morning. it’s the thought of “what if this means i won’t be able to fall asleep tonight?”

i know sleep probably isn’t supposed to look exactly the same every day, but my brain keeps looking for certainty and treats every little difference as a warning sign.

has anyone else gone through this? how did you stop monitoring every little part of the sleep process and trust that sleep would happen naturally?

Hi everyone. I just need to let this out because I’ve been really anxious about my sleep lately.

Last night, I had trouble sleeping again before an important event (my orientation for OJT). I wasn’t even fully sleepy yet, but I forced myself to put my phone down because I wanted to rest. I kept tossing and turning, and every time I felt like I was about to fall asleep, I would suddenly jerk awake (I think they’re called hypnic jerks).

It felt like I was drifting into sleep, having random dream-like thoughts or scenarios in my head, then suddenly waking up again. This kept repeating and I lost track of time. I thought I barely slept, but I still woke up in the morning feeling tired.

Today, I feel very sleepy, anxious, nauseous, and I even feel my heart racing at times. I also tried to nap in the afternoon but I couldn’t fall asleep at all, even though I feel exhausted.

What scares me is that I keep worrying this will happen again tonight or every time before something important happens. I’m afraid of getting stuck in this cycle where I feel tired but can’t sleep.

Has anyone experienced this kind of sleep anxiety or hypnic jerks when stressed? Did it go away on its own?

I’d really appreciate any advice or reassurance. Thank you.

need someone to talk to, im F20 from the philippines and im just kinda having troubles with my course (overthinking if this is the right choice) so i need someone to talk to about this 😓 or lets just talk about anything, im having a bad day today so i just want to vent this out to someone

I’m currently in Boracay and I’ve been struggling a bit with sleep in a way that feels different and kind of confusing.

The past few nights, my sleep has been fragmented. I do fall asleep sometimes, but it doesn’t feel continuous or stable. The bigger issue is what happens when I try to fall asleep.

I feel very hyperaroused (my body feels tired but my mind is very alert), and something really strange keeps happening:

I start having those usual “pre-sleep scenarios” or imagined thoughts that normally help me drift off. But just as they start becoming more automatic or dream-like, I suddenly become aware of it and I kind of “flinch” or snap back into awareness.

Then the whole process resets again:
- I start imagining scenarios
- they begin to feel like I’m about to fall asleep
- I notice it and get startled
- I become awake again
- repeat

It feels like I’m stuck in a loop where I can almost fall asleep but keep interrupting it without meaning to.

Because of this, I end up feeling both exhausted and frustrated, like I’m constantly on the edge of sleep but unable to fully cross into it.

I think it might be related to sleep anxiety and hyperarousal, but I’m still trying to understand it.

Has anyone experienced something similar, like getting “stuck” in that almost-dream state where you keep snapping back into awareness before actually falling asleep?

im crying so bad of how anxious I am that I can’t fall asleep it’s 7 PM where I am right now and I feel so tired and exhausted but I can’t sleep. maybe because also of my body clock? also another factor of this is because i am anxious we will go to vacation tomorrow early morning. if anyone ever experienced this or relates to this just hmu. i need someone to talk to about this.