my two cents of Uttar Pradesh people
I'll be very honest, some of my friends have dated UP people. And they have terrible experiences. I'm not bundling each and every Uttar Pradeshi, but those who i know they are all misogynists, they believe women are their property. They believe harming someone in any way makes them look powerful, no it makes you look like an idiot. Friendships and reputation among nice and educated people can't be build with fear mongering and threatening people. Not to mention the hygiene issues and gutka everywhere.
People hate you, because you fail to possess a rationale mindset, leave that old misogynistic and god complex mindset and people won't hate you. An Uttar Pradeshi abused my friend's Muslim female friend(who he didn't even knew) from South Delhi by saying "Mulli aa gayi, bhago fatt jayegi abhi" (she was a wearing a hijab and it deeply hurted my friend because that Muslim girl is one of the most innocent girl ever who won't hurt any person ever knowingly). I guess there's a reason why hindu extremism and casteism is on peak in UP. Worst part is they are bringing all this to Delhi also with them.
You know the worst part? Is post ko padh ke they'll say mai yaha chut ke chakkar me ye sab bol rha hu. That my friend is their mindset.