My roommate is acting really weird and I'm getting worried

So I'm not sure if I'm overreacting here but I'm getting pretty anxious about my living situation and need some advice from people who actually know how things work in Germany.

I'm an Indian woman, working in IT here. I share a flat with a German guy and honestly things have gotten really strange lately. He keeps saying his phone is being hacked, that people are following him, watching him through hidden cameras... like he's convinced someone is listening to him all the time.

The weird part is yesterday he started saying it's MY company doing it. My boss, specifically. And when I asked him how he even knows where I work he was like "the police told me" which... I don't know if that's even true? It's freaking me out a bit.

He's also growing weed in the flat (like 4 plants) and smokes pretty regularly so maybe that's part of it? I'm not trying to be judgmental about that, but it might explain some of the paranoia I guess.

Anyway, he keeps blaming me for stuff that happens to him and I'm starting to feel uncomfortable in my own home. Like what if he actually goes to the police with some kind of accusation? Would that even affect me? I don't know how this works here.

The landlord told me he's gonna kick him out soon but honestly I want to move anyway. Finding an apartment is a nightmare though.

Does anyone have any experience with this kind of thing? What should I do to protect myself? Should I be worried? Any legal stuff I need to know about?

Thanks guys, any help appreciated

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u/General-Cry4686 — 3 days ago
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Concerned about my roommate's behaviour and my safety

So I'm not sure if I'm overreacting here but I'm getting pretty anxious about my living situation and need some advice from people who actually know how things work in Germany.

I'm an Indian woman, working in IT here. I share a flat with a German guy and honestly things have gotten really strange lately. He keeps saying his phone is being hacked, that people are following him, watching him through hidden cameras... like he's convinced someone is listening to him all the time.

The weird part is yesterday he started saying it's MY company doing it. My boss, specifically. And when I asked him how he even knows where I work he was like "the police told me" which... I don't know if that's even true? It's freaking me out a bit.

He's also growing weed in the flat (like 4 plants) and smokes pretty regularly so maybe that's part of it? I'm not trying to be judgmental about that, but it might explain some of the paranoia I guess.

Anyway, he keeps blaming me for stuff that happens to him and I'm starting to feel uncomfortable in my own home. Like what if he actually goes to the police with some kind of accusation? Would that even affect me? I don't know how this works here.

The landlord told me he's gonna kick him out soon but honestly I want to move anyway. Finding an apartment is a nightmare though.

Does anyone have any experience with this kind of thing? What should I do to protect myself? Should I be worried? Any legal stuff I need to know about?

Thanks guys, any help appreciated.

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For those who have recently traveled between Germany and India:

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