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The parents have asked that the girl and guy should talk and it's better to get to know each other. Girl's family hasnt met up with the guy cause he's abroad. They did take the girl's number so the guy can contact. Haven't had contact yet. But the girl got to know from the person who introduced the families that the guy is completely dependent on his parents to make this decision for him. Which feels weird to the girl as she'd like someone who is interested in her.
The guy's family seems to have a really good bond with each other and the parents, like friends.
What are the reasons someone wouldn't wanna choose for themselves in today day and age? And is it a bad thing?

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So one of my friend doing everything in bed with her finance but he still complains and saying he is not satisfied. What should she do? I can say that she does more than 95 percent of the muslims girls would not even do. He is not telling her this and saying you should know what i want why should i tell you. So she wants to know the real reason!

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Hello. I am currently applying actively in NY state but still unable to find. Is there any state full of chemical plants etc where i can apply?

Hey everyone I wanted to start a discussion because I’ve noticed patterns where certain people (often guys) seem to target innocent, shy, or less experienced users on Reddit for manipulation or grooming. I want to learn how to identify and avoid them to protect myself and others.

Reddit can feel safe at first because it’s mostly text and anonymous, but that also makes it easy for manipulators to build false trust. What are some common tactics you’ve seen or experienced, especially in DMs, comments, or dating/meetups subreddits?

Common things I’ve heard about or noticed:

• Heavy love bombing with constant compliments and “you’re so special/different” talk very early

• Quickly pushing to move the conversation to Snapchat, Telegram, Discord, WhatsApp, etc.

• Oversharing personal trauma or emotions to create instant deep trust

• Getting defensive, guilt-tripping, or turning things around when boundaries are set

• Asking for personal info, photos, voice notes, or nudes framed as “building a real connection”

• Acting like a super nice/understanding person while subtly isolating you from other opinions

• Future-faking with big promises or long-term talk to keep you hooked

How do you spot these manipulators early? What red flags do you look for in their comment/post history? Any practical tips for chatting with people here safely without getting emotionally played?

Would love to hear real experiences from anyone who’s dealt with this (victims or observers), and advice from people who stay safe while still being open to talking to others. No judgment — being trusting isn’t a crime, we just want to get wiser about it.

Thanks.

Look around how many have u seen who are cheaters

Hi. Is there any chance to find a room in this area for my summers internship? From 1st June to 8th August. Thank you

Hi everyone. Exams over. Summers starting. I am looking for a female friend to hang out with. Just clean friendship. Sharing stuff. Nothing more. If you are interested. Let me know. Thanks