u/Grand_Policy19

I am vegan and I recently got back into dating. Preferably I want to date a vegan or vegetarian person, but I would be okay with someone who is not when they do not eat meat when they are with me.

Do you think it is too much to expect an omnivore to eat vegan or veggie when you are spending time together?

I stated my preferences upfront so they can decide if they are okay with it or not.

Usually of course I am fine when people eat meat in my company but I could not kiss someone who does, same with milk. I dated men who came to this decision by themselves, they either did not eat meat when with me or were/became vegetarian/vegan. I also dated someone who kind of resented that we could not go to certain places when we went out to eat.

Thats why I would want to establish that boundary from the start of dating.

But is it crazy to ask them to refrain from eating meat while with me, from the start of dating?

Hallo zusammen,

ich hätte gerne eure Einschätzung zu meiner Situation.

Ich habe mein Leben lang mehr oder weniger regelmäßig Sport gemacht und war von Natur aus immer schlank. Nach einer krankheitsbedingten Pause mache ich jetzt seit drei Monaten wieder konsequent 4–5 Mal pro Woche Krafttraining.

Mein Trainingsplan:

3x Po/Beine

1–2x Oberkörper & Bauch

zusätzlich 1x pro Woche Laufen oder Schwimmen

Ich bin weiblich 1,75 m groß und wiege 63 kg.

Mein Problem ist, dass mein Bauch einfach nicht flach wird. Ich habe einen B-Belly obwohl ich insgesamt schlank bin, stört mich mein Bauch schon lange. Mein Ziel wäre ein flacher, definierter Bauch.

Ich möchte aber eigentlich nicht in ein Kaloriendefizit gehen, weil ich weiterhin Muskelmasse aufbauen möchte vor allem an den Beinen und am Po.

Hat jemand ähnliche Erfahrungen gemacht? Ist ein flacher Bauch auch ohne Cut realistisch, wenn ich weiter Muskeln aufbaue und geduldig bin? Muss ich mehr Schritte gehen?

Danke schonmal!

So I am in my 30s and I have become a lot more aware of my surroundings. I used to get really positive feedback for my looks but I have not dated in a while so I feel kind of unsure about myself atm.

I recently wore a low cut top (nothing crazy) in warm weather and I noticed that so many men looked immediately away when they saw me like I saw them and they turned their head in the complete other direction almost like they want to demonstrate something?

And a lot of mean looks from women. I felt so bad allday because people were weird. Am I not allowed to wear cleavage in my 30s or what is going on? How do you perceive women wearing a bit more revealing clothing over 30? I don't want to stop wearing fun stuff.

Hey hey, hat jemand Lust ans Meer zu fahren am Wochenende? Falls du ein Auto hast super aber wir könnten uns auch eins mieten.

Meine Social Battery ist relativ schnell Leer aber bin gerne in Gemeinschaft. :))

Am liebsten Frauen W30 💕