As for the most socially accepted types, I saw most people say ISFJ, ESFJ, ENFJ and ESTJ
I put my parents into little categories based off of what they are best at providing for me. In my opinion, there are three skills that make an optimal parent - being able to provide for your child with basic necessities(food, education, shelter etc.), being able to listen and give advice to your child's emotional needs and lastly, being able to engage in your child's interests to make them happy. I think these three traits would make the most optimal parent and I think others would agree. But I've got three parental guardians - a mother, father and stepfather. And none of them quite seem to possess all three traits. They tend to be good at one trait, but relatively bad at handling the other two traits. And so I have put them into categories based off of what they can provide for me. For example - if you can provide my emotional needs, then don't even bother providing for my basic necessities or interests, because my other two parents had got that covered.
My mother(ENFJ sp2w3) - very psychologist like. Growing up I found her emotions very difficult for me to deal with. But it is becaus of her empathy that I could rely on her for emotional and relationship advice. I genuinely don't care if she can't provide my necessities or interest, as long as she provides my emotional needs, I don't care.
My father(INTP sx9w8) - he's really not the best at covering for my emotional needs. Not that he's uncaring. He's very caring. But hes rather emotionally immature and not quite smart in general. He does genuinely mean well, but he's in a completely nother world, which makes it difficult for me to properly rely on him for emotional support. And then there's financial support, he buys me gifts relating to my interests, which I do appreciate. But he often dumps his money on all sorts of other useless stuff that in the end, he can't really provide anything for me financially. But he can absolutely talk about our charged interests for hours and hours. My mother and stepfather are often busy and don't care for this stuff, but I can always rely on talking to my father about stuff that interests us. I genuinely don't care if he can't provide my necessities or emotional needs, as he provides for my interests, I don't care.
Stepfather(ISTJ sp1w9) - My stepfather is the most distant of all of them. Emotionally and interests wise at least. I've tried talking to him about this stuff, but he tends to pass it off as useless and a waste if time. But he does provide for all my financial support, so I genuinely don't care. I genuinely don't care if he can't provide for my interests or emotional needs, as he provides for my basic necessities, don't care.
-in all honestly, I don’t really care how people see me as a person. All I really care about is that people recognise my skill and knowledge. I like drawing, I’ve been doing it since I was age 1. I’m currently learning animation. Even if im seen as a piece of shit, I don’t really care as long as they recognise my skill - “wow, that person is a huge asshole, but you can’t deny, they’re a really talented artist.”
2.what kind of people do you like?
-I like straightforward and unorthodox people. I like people who are interesting to observe, even when I’m not interacting with them. There have been many cases where I’ve taken interest in strange people who aren’t afraid to be honest about how they truly feel. I feel perfectly content just watching them from afar. I don’t think I’d have it in me to actually interact though. And if I do, I’d try to get to know their interests. It’s important to me that my friends have similar interests as me, otherwise, there’s not much we’d really talk about.
3.what kind of people do you
dislike?
-overly conformist people who are only ever into mainstream stuff. But I especially don’t like fake people who are vague about their intentions. A lot of my bullies were people like that.
4.What makes you feel loved?
-People who accept me for my avoidant personality. I’m a bit hard to get close to so I’d really feel loved if someone was actually willing to be with me despite those qualities, as I know avoidant people aren’t very attractive socially wise. I’m also bit of a weirdo so it feels nice to be accepted for who I truly am.
5.What makes you feel hated?
-Being mocked or having my personal space invaded, but I’m specifically talking about instances where people are invading it on purpose, fully knowing that I hate it.
-Being in a position where something is against my will. Autonomy is very important to me.
7.what gives life meaning?
-I don’t think life really has objective meaning. But personally speaking, I love learning new things. You learn something new every day. That quote sorta keeps me alive.
8.how do you act under stress?
-I isolate myself and get very irritated. There’s a big chance I might lash out at anyone who tries to interact with me.