It's so bad bros

GF of 4 years and I broke up 2 years ago for 3 months. Just found out that for 2-2.5 of those months she was in a strictly sexual relationship with a guy with a 9" schlong, they were into BDSM, screwing in public, humiliating her with his dick. Cannot look at her the same anymore.

Is this fixable lmao. I have never been so distraught.

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u/GritsRespector — 7 hours ago
▲ 101 r/BreakUps

GF had sex within 2 weeks out of LTR

Girlfriend and soon to be fiance have been together on/off for 4.5 years. A couple of years ago we broke up for 3 months due to a disagreement on kids/marriage timing. We had been together a little over 2 years at this point and were extremely close.

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We still texted the entire time of the breakup period, helped eachother with this and that, she constantly told me she missed me etc. During this time I got really into weight lifting and working on myself, we got back together after about 90 days or so.

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A couple of weeks ago she drops that during this breakup she hooked up with a college aged kid in his car, in a movie theater parking lot. This happened within the first couple of weeks of us "breaking up". Apparently she met him at an AA meeting and they agreed to make a "contract" that neither of them would catch feelings. Turns out he did for her (she's 13 years older btw) and he had been texting her up until this year begging to be together.

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My mind is blown. She apparently blew the guy then let him fuck her in the back seat. She plays this down like it's no big deal but I for the life of me cannot get this out of my head. During our breakup she kept saying how she loved me etc. But, this? What the hell is this? Blowing a college kid in a parking lot isn't what I'd imagine she'd be doing right after a long term relationship.

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Am I overreacting? Yea ok she was technically single, but I mean she didn't grieve or try to better herself, nope, just jumped right into blowing someone in a parking lot.

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Having trouble letting this one go and the fact she acts as if it's "not a big deal" is making it an even bigger deal.

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u/GritsRespector — 20 days ago

Packers Bars in Atlanta?

Girlfriend and I are about to become Atlantians in a year or so coming from Wisconsin, already looking for a Green Bay Packers bar in the city. Any good locations where us cheese heads can hang out in Atlanta?

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u/GritsRespector — 1 month ago
▲ 10 r/spiders

What kind of spider is this?

I was hunting in the South Georgia wetlands this weekend and came across this guy. He emerged from his mud hole in the ground and we had a stare down lol. Fairly large, any ideas?

u/GritsRespector — 2 months ago

115gr Ammo Hurts The SF Extractor?

I was recently told that running 115gr ammo will ruin the extractor on the PDP Steel Frame due to the harsher impact it will have during live fire.

If so, would this still be an issue even with a new recoil system (ZRT, Springco etc)

I have tons of 115gr and it's nearly impossible to replenish my 124gr stash right now.

Edit: Walther is the one who told this to me

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u/GritsRespector — 2 months ago