u/Grouchy-Dig-1839

Hi, I have been confused about my gender label for years as it changes a boocoo amount. But one thing almost always stays the same is that I feel more agender than anything. Can I consider myself agenderfluid?

Hi, I have been confused about my gender label for years as it changes a boocoo amount. But one thing almost always stays the same is that I feel more agender than anything. Can I consider myself agenderfluid?

To put it into context, I live in a really big city on the west coast and was in a shelter for a bit. I thought it was going to help my neurodivergencies and the feeling of being belonging as a queer person being there and I was screwed, blued, and tattooed by them. But then my mental health gotten worse and I had contracted lice from there. I couldn't take it anymore.

I just got my stuff yesterday and now I'm w/o a place to stay until my name on the wait list for a gender expansive friendly navigation center pops up. I'm currently in treatment for mental health trauma from the last two shelters I've been in and it's weighing heavily on me.

(This is partly a vent as well.....please don't downvote.)

I'm going to start; i love: Grateful Dead, O.A.R., Dave Matthews Band, Phish, Jimi Hendrix, Janis Joplin, Buffalo Springfield, Bob Dylan and Bob Marley. I could name more but my brain will go nuts.

So I (32 Enby) just moved to San Francisco a few days ago with nothing and this amazing person (37M) helped me the first night I was there. I didn't think I would see or hear from him after that encounter. But thank the gods that we started texting a few days later and we talked about qpr's and boundaries as a PanroAce person. (I also found out that he's a 'hippie in training ' and that's a part of my life I'm willing to share with him.) We had our first in person 'date ' yesterday and I could never be any happier.

Hi, I have been confused about my gender label for years as it changes a boocoo amount. But one thing almost always stays the same is that I feel more agender than anything. Can I consider myself agenderfluid?