u/GuaranteeUnique

If you don’t actually wanna be in a relationship with her something funny to try is…

“We’re just ordinary people. We don’t know which way to go. We’re just ordinary people, so baby we can take it slow.” 🎶

John Legend 😂

1. You caught my attention and I had to come say hi.
2. Hey, I saw you over there and I had to come say hi.
3. I don’t know what to say, but I had to come talk to you.
4. Yeah, I really love your style. I had to come over and tell you.
5. Hey, you really stand out I had to come and say something.
6. Hey, you have really great energy! What’s your name?
7. Hi I saw you walking. Had to come say hi to you.
8. Hi, I know this is random, but I had to come say hi to you.

My go to Bonus**
9. Hey I thought you seemed interesting and I wanted to come meet you. What’s your name?

If you don’t actually wanna be in a relationship with her something funny to try is…

“We’re just ordinary people. We don’t know which way to go. We’re just ordinary people, so baby we can take it slow.” 🎶

John Legend 😂

"Perfect, so lets meet up at PLACE at ADDY at TIME on DATE. If the vibe is right and the attraction is mutual, I’ll have a nice meal and activity planned for us afterward. But if one of us isn't feeling it, we can call it at drinks. No harm, no foul. Whoever arrives first gets the table. Does that sound good? Are you in?"

IMO its confident, direct and decisive. Yes, it basically spells out the whole date to the girl but my reasoning is the 97%ers she normally deals with are also offering drink dates so, it comes off lazy and cheap when we do it, even though it’s strategic and intentional when we do it.

This format shows intent and effort (which I see a lot of women complain about in regards to drink and coffee dates) but it’s also not telling her every single detail aka keep the mystery alive.

Thoughts and honest criticism would be appreciated fellas.