Im a Capricorn Man and I’m a big fan of cancer women. Best relationship of my life was with a Cancer woman. What are hobbies and activities you guys enjoy doing where I could meet more of yall?
This guy is really good because he specifically focuses on the approach.
https://www.instagram.com/ajbtalks?stkn=MXFibTJ4cm1uZDJjcw==
This girl is great because she breaks down the mindset of the women we try to avoid using Corey Wayne’s material.
https://www.instagram.com/ashleahoess?stkn=MTR0ZGxwZTlqeHM4aA==
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Thank me later. It’s like being in a Time Machine.
32M (me) and 25F (her).
TLDR: Great date. Great vibes. Good conversation. Good chemistry. Got rejected.
Lore
Matched with her in May 2026 on Hinge. We spoke back and forth for a few days - good convo. I asked her on a date and she ghosted me.
I deleted my Hinge account June 24. I re-made it Aug 24.
I re-matched with her right away. She knew who I was obviously. We talked on the app and then I asked her on a date. She threw her phone number at me and deleted her profile (she told me she deleted it again).
Texting
She texts me every day leading up to the date. Engaged and very outgoing personality. Loves to banter (like me). Texting was good vibes. I could tell she was interested in me.
Date
I schedule a date for Saturday Sept 5 at 7 pm at the top of a hotel with a cocktail bar overlooking my city.
Instant connection. Lightning in a bottle. We sit on a couch in the cocktail lounge and we vibe. We chat. We banter. Touching and flirting.
She’s a great conversationalist- asks good questions, outgoing, knows good date games to play etc. I compliment her, touch her leg multiple times, some innuendos get thrown around (light sexual jokes and comments), we are laughing throughout the night. Vibes are VIBING.
We get the check at 1.5 hours but stay another 1.5 hours. Conversation peeters off a bit towards the end, so I call it a night.
We walk back to our cars. I ask if she wants me to walk her back to hers, she says no. I knew that was a “beige flag”. So I hugged her goodbye and went home.
I didn’t get a text from her that night (beige flag) so I figured something was up.
I get home. I text her the next morning (above) and she sends the response.
SUCKS. Dating is tough finding your person but when you do find someone you click with only to get rejected, it hurts a lot more.
ON TO THE NEXT I GUESS.
Random thoughts: Whenever her interest seems tough to read it means it’s probably low interest.
Because what is the date really boys?
It’s simply a socially acceptable offer to pay for a chicks time via exchange for conversation, food and an activity for a couple hours at best.
If she literally can’t make time for that, that means she values you less than literally food and money.
So why waste your time? Lol
Basically, trying to set up a date with a girl I met at the grocery store earlier in the day. Interaction went well and I got her number, and she even hit me back with her schedule immediately. This is probably a perfectly legit excuse, but 3% men don’t make maybe dates so I hit her with the Takeaway. We shall see what happens.
Live Update*
She just sent “Let’s keep it for Thursday now🙂”
Conclusion Lmfao— read the book 10-15 times boys and don’t accept maybe dates.
Live Update*
I misread and mistyped.. she effectively said a 2nd maybe
“Let’s keep Thursday for now🙂”
Conclusion- since that’s still effectively tentative I’ll respond in the morning.
Ima send something along the lines
“If you’re not sure about Thursday, let’s just do Friday instead. Does 7:15 work?”
Live Update*
Her- Friday Works
Me- Sounds good. See you there Friday at 7:15.
Her- 👍
Rule three definitely coincides exactly what Corey’s material because the guy talks about not staying at one location. It takes 3 to 4 hours for a girls to actually feel comfortable enough to possibly go home with a guy. And per Corey women will generally sleep with a guy by the second or third date. What do you guys think about the the common mistakes he mentioned in the video?
If you don’t actually wanna be in a relationship with her something funny to try is…
“We’re just ordinary people. We don’t know which way to go. We’re just ordinary people, so baby we can take it slow.” 🎶
John Legend 😂
My go to Bonus**
9. Hey I thought you seemed interesting and I wanted to come meet you. What’s your name?
If you don’t actually wanna be in a relationship with her something funny to try is…
“We’re just ordinary people. We don’t know which way to go. We’re just ordinary people, so baby we can take it slow.” 🎶
John Legend 😂
"Perfect, so lets meet up at PLACE at ADDY at TIME on DATE. If the vibe is right and the attraction is mutual, I’ll have a nice meal and activity planned for us afterward. But if one of us isn't feeling it, we can call it at drinks. No harm, no foul. Whoever arrives first gets the table. Does that sound good? Are you in?"
IMO its confident, direct and decisive. Yes, it basically spells out the whole date to the girl but my reasoning is the 97%ers she normally deals with are also offering drink dates so, it comes off lazy and cheap when we do it, even though it’s strategic and intentional when we do it.
This format shows intent and effort (which I see a lot of women complain about in regards to drink and coffee dates) but it’s also not telling her every single detail aka keep the mystery alive.
Thoughts and honest criticism would be appreciated fellas.