u/Guilty-Material-45

Trying to understand my problem

I am 53 male. If I masterbate it.can take me 5 to 10 minutes to cum. If I get a rub n tug massage it.can take me up to 5 mins to cum.

If I make love to my wife once I slide my cock inside her pussy I can cum withing 10 pumps or 20 seconds. This is very frustrating I want to please her more and be like what I see males are in all the porn I watch. Tell me the tricks to last longer inside my wife please. I love her pussy.

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u/Guilty-Material-45 — 2 days ago
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No sex

Im 53 married 26 years and my wife gives me sex once a month. Its like she must count the weeks or months cause thats all it is. And when she announces she's horny and we might do it tonight it feels like a gift like I am being rewarded. Any other time of the month all of my advances my attention my affection gets turned away brushed away literally. Then once a month a get a bit.

What makes it even worst is I get so bloody excited and horny once I slide inside her pussy I cum within 30 seconds and I feel dissapointed to not get the experience I imagine in my mind 24/7.

What do I do, leave her.

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u/Guilty-Material-45 — 2 days ago

Gay and Bi community

I am moving to Pattaya from Australia later this year. Is there a gay a d bi farang community in Pattaya that have apps or ways to meet up? What clubs/bars or saunas are available for hang outs and meets? Jomtien area i will reside in so if there are places in Jomtien let me know. Thanks

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u/Guilty-Material-45 — 11 days ago
▲ 11 r/married

In the bedroom

Here comes the judgement and humiliation.

Am I alone with this problem?

Been married for 26 years. We make love about once a month. Every time I enter her I pretty much blow my load within 1 minute. It is very frustrating and embarrassing as she doesn't have time to climax so has to get herself off with her vibrator. Does any other guy have this problem? Is there a way to last longer?

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u/Guilty-Material-45 — 13 days ago

Married 27 years sex has always been about 1 x monthly which has always annoyed me. Past trauma has had some affect on her and my past infidelity also in early marriage.

I have done rub n tug, prostitutes and bi meets for many years without her knowledge. She is an alcoholic drinks more then 1 bottle a night and has wasted tens of thousands of dollars gambling. Blames me for these addictions.

We now live like housemates. Both love each other but there's no affection, no real quality time just day to day living.

I am addicted to porn watching and have a desire to live in thailand to get out of western world bullshit and costs.

Am I just delaying the inevitable so I should rip off the bandaid and move out and ask for divorce?

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u/Guilty-Material-45 — 17 days ago