Hi All,
My wife and I were blessed with twin baby girls and they are now of three week marks. They are fed every three hours and we were trying to exclusively breastfeed
Up until now, I (husband) was available for her during the night for diaper duties, post feed burping and swaddling. But now that my job starts from Monday. We planned for me to sleep from 2 am till 8 am and then I start my job at 9. Luckily I am remote so will be in the house for any emergency situation.
Anyhow the very first night my wife was super overwhelmed. Both the kids decided to not to sleep in the night and were cranky. From changing diapers to feeding them(tandem feed) to re swaddling and putting them baxk to sleep, was a nightmare for her.
Can you guys tell me how did you all transition when your spouse went to work. How were night routines managed alone. Some tips or tricks. We bought momcozy M9 and then S1 spectra, but she doesnt have energy to pump after feeding.
Are we doing anything wrong?