Is AM all about Leap of Faith how to pick person to settle?
So for context It's been 2 yrs into AM & have met some boys/men but did not go ahead with anyone..
Reasons:
He wanted girl to shift Europe (Leave job, family, & restart)
Looked for girl to quit job & join his business
Boy wanted to stay in joint family set-up only & kid within 1 yr
Lied about salary & had double standard wrt household chores
Too busy with work he was 30 yet not ready to settle wanted to take it slow.
Etc,etc,
I chat or meet the boy depending on interest & intention but till date no one has proven me to put leap of faith on them.
Lastly men don't want to be uncomfortable at all like they don't want to switch job, leave, city, parents yet expect that from girls, ik it's AM but hoping to believe I might meet someone..who sees marriage as partnership..
Wanted to vent & open to suggestions!!!