u/Gullible_Suit8976

Sometimes i read our headlines and I’m like genuinely what is this???

They are playing in our faces and sometimes i don’t even know who to blame. When some will take rice for votes, your rice will finish and you’ll remain hungry. They give you electricity and water during election so you can see then count vote then turn it off after.Don’t you see it can be provided but theyre withholding it…?

I saw someone quote “bread is tastier than key” that what is happening to this country, I’ll always say if everyone united against these people change would happen and i know everyone is scared but we are dying scared, instead of dying with a system that works for us.

The tribalism in the country is fucking us over as well, while you’re fighting your neighbors the enemy’s are in power, we are literally one, I cant count all the similarities we have with each other from phenotype to genotype, food, culture and traditions.

At the end of the day we are in the same country and I think that should count for something but here we are fighting the wrong people, ourselves.

I applied for a job at Innodata about three times through LinkedIn, they were rejected except for the last one, i did assessments and was moved to onboarding im filling a bunch of online profile forms addi i thought i got the job but it turned out to be innodata’s job platform, where they connect workers to contractors so basically freelancing and they didn’t mention this on the job post which is suspicious again.

Im like whatever cause im a bit desperate, ive been applying for jobs since i lost my previous one in march and i need to find something asap or im fucked so even though i found that suspicious, I continue filling the forms.

They ask for my IBAN, TIN while i didn’t mind these my bank statement??
Meanwhile my national Id number wasn’t marked necessary but my bank statement is.

Not like its any of their business but i didn’t discuss my last salary with them, so i dont think thats what they’re trying to check also if i feel like i should get more than my last place its not their busines. it feels very invasive and i dont know if i should proceed.

I know I was being petty but, we realized all the weird things they did was bad and we didn’t react on time so when we found the a gift they gave me I got petty and sent then a picture of it in the trash with my middle finger. they left the country without telling us, stole our suitcase saying they didn’t want to leave a trace so I captioned it “since you didn’t want to leave a trace.

” Now for context, we felt bad for them and we didn’t know they were that kind of person and ignored a lot of shit, 1 time I had to stay at their place for a night I was really uncomfortable cause they left me alone in their house and it was really dirty the bathroom was a disgusting mess, there was cum on the walls and hair in the sinks and bathroom drain, the toilet was really dirty I had to stand and pee. the kitchen was a mess too the walls brown from them smoking inside, I thought it was like this cause they were going through a lot and when me and my gf asked they said their cousins made the mess so we felt bad and offered to help them clean, they got a house on our street cause they had to move out from the old house due to them not paying utilities and rent on time, where we are if you don’t notarize the house contract you will not have utilities, they told their new landlord next week their cousin would be there and the landlord said sure and to keep in mind that anymore than that and your utilities will be closed they agreed and moved in they asked for our helped and my gf borrowed them her suitcase to help them move, which they end up leaving the country without telling us or even returning it back.

They began to ask us to hang out in our house not outside anymore and when they were over they’d ask to shower we would agree, my gf even gave them a haircut which was pretty good if you ask me, they would stay in the shower for hrs and leave it in a big mess with soap and hair and the floors and walls, they would leave it like their old house that we offered to help them clean so we started to get uncomfortable and confronted them they would listen for a bit them go back, they did the same thing with other stuff as well when we stopped letting them come over they left the country with my gfs suitcase and said nothing. after we sent the picture they replied “have fun scissoring” what tf does that even mean and I replied with “okay baldy” and they said “the microplastics from the dildo is getting to our brains” and I said “the microplastics from the dildo you have to use cause you can’t find anyone to love you is making you bald” did I go too far I said a lot more but honestly don’t regret it they seems to have been hyper-fixating on our sex life the entire time they were at our place, which is honestly gross. They saw our dildo when they needed to shower, they also once asked us if they can stay in our house while we weren’t there and we had to refuse like 3 times and they got mad. At the end of the fight they said “it was fun manipulating the both of you tbh.”

Hi so I’m turning 21 in a couple of days and I’ve gone through so many labels but none really feels right at some point I stuck to queer and I know labels aren’t important but it’s really nice to be certain of what you are.

I think I started to question around 13-15 didn’t know much about the queer community all I knew was gay, lesbian, bi, straight, trans and that was pretty much now I know there are so many labels so there’s gotta be one out there for me right? I stuck to calling myself Bi cause prior to that I thought liking guys was the only option, this didn’t really feel right I dated guys more cause honestly I was scared and genuinely liked them romantically or was lonely honestly, I’ll never really know cause I was never happy and when I got with girls or queer people I felt happier.

That’s when I switched to the calling myself pansexual, it felt right for so long and honestly I still use it most times but now I’m leaning towards lesbian cause the thing is I love women, i also like men but I don’t like them sexually and only like when they’re feminine, I love feminine people but I don’t like them sexually and if it came to having sex with someone with a male reproductive organ(penis) I wouldn’t be inclined but I don’t feel this way when it come to people with female reproductive organ(vagina) so I’m attracted romantically and sexually this is where my confusion lies , what label can I even put on that lol…?

At some point when I dated guys I thought I was asexual that’s how bad it was but the moment I switched not only did I become happier but was also sexually attracted so this is what I find confusing, romantically im attracted to men who are feminine presenting people but not sexually and 100% attracted to women.