u/Hairy-Possession3649

For context we started dating when we were 16. During the 8 month of our relationship I asked him, "why don't you ever compliment me?" Bcuz during those 8 months he had complimented me 3 times. Once on my bday he said, acchi dikh rahi hai (you look nice) 2nd was when my friends asked him to compliment me on navratri. He replied, "mujhe kabhi laga nhi ki tujhe compliment karu"( It didn't cross my mind to compliment you) That was the moment my confidence shattered. He said that he would compliment me from now on but it felt like a chore. He would compliment me once a day "you look nice"/ "the outfit is nice" mostly the compliments would be about my outfits not ME. He also told me that he forgets to compliment me but when he didn't like my makeup or didn't like my outfit he would always point that out. I asked him if he even finds me attractive he said yes but idk if I believe that.

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u/Hairy-Possession3649 — 24 days ago

For context we started dating when we were 16. During the 8 month of our relationship I asked him, "why don't you ever compliment me?" Bcuz during those 8 months he had complimented me 3 times. Once on my bday he said, acchi dikh rahi hai (you look nice) 2nd was when my friends asked him to compliment me on navratri. He replied, "mujhe kabhi laga nhi ki tujhe compliment karu"( It didn't cross my mind to compliment you) That was the moment my confidence shattered. He said that he would compliment me from now on but it felt like a chore. He would compliment me once a day "you look nice"/ "the outfit is nice" mostly the compliments would be about my outfits not ME. He also told me that he forgets to compliment me but when he didn't like my makeup or didn't like my outfit he would always point that out. I asked him if he even finds me attractive he said yes but idk if I believe that.

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u/Hairy-Possession3649 — 24 days ago

In islam having slaves is allowed & I get that in those days it was common but Y is it allowed for men especially married men to have sex with female slaves? Ik female slaves can say no BUT there is a huge power imbalance between an owner & a slave so even if she doesn't want to she can't say no bcuz she has to survive somehow so isn't that technically rape? Also prophet Muhammad had sex with a concubine & if we R to follow the teachings of Muhammad if today's time how many of U can defend it or do U think it's justifiable? Also, Y R women not allowed to give adhan? If men R attracted to their voices women R attracted to men's voices too?

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u/Hairy-Possession3649 — 24 days ago