u/Happy_Individual8388

TLDR: Entitled Dad thinks the op (17 M) doesn't have rights and sister defended the father along with Entitled Dad being restrictive.

So I am a boy going into my pre-adult years with ADHD and Extreme Anxiety and I was starting to attempt to make a new life for myself when I'm 18 until I had a breach of info leaked to my dad of stuff that I was doing out of the goodness of my heart and I was uncomfortably confronted by my dad for making a paypal account and helping a friend out with buying a few games they had wished for with some 1 year old steam cards I had that I never used.

2 days before my birthday (when I was 16), he confronted me while I was watching a storm and measuring the wind and asked me "Who is (insert steam user who was my friend here)? Why did you send him 40$?!"

I Immediately felt uncomfortable and explained that they were my friend and wanted two games that were his interests being Sonic mania and the newly release MOUSE P.I For hire but my dad had none of it and called me out despite it being MY MONEY that was gifted to me from other family members.

He apparently got an email from steam saying that I gave my friend Sonic Mania even though I turned off notifications. My mom did understand why I did it but my dad just kept going at it and after all that was over I just walked away defeated.

Sadly, that wasn't the end. The next day was worse, so I bought the friend MOUSE P.I bc last night was too dark to find another steam card.

Then 3 hours later, my dad CONFRONTED ME AGAIN (also making me uncomfortable) with yet another notification he got from gamejolt for connecting my paypal (gonna change it to venmo since I recently found out paypal is only for 18 and up in my state) to it without having his email on none of the 2 nor his phone number. Everything was connected under my Email and phone number and yet HE STILL GOT THE NOTIFICATION.

(forgot to mention he also got the 2nd notification about the steam gift)

I explained to him that he wasn't supposed to even get the notification and told him it was because I was making a game and wanted to start earning revenue and he cared..... no wait, he actually didn't and forced me to agree with him which I sadly conceded in order to end the convo and I thought that was that.

But today, I felt hopeless. Because after a Dentist appointment, he mentioned on the car ride home about me having paypal and wanting to start creating games and how it wasn't going to help.

I defended myself saying that I want to do it to start my life and eventually move out of the house. But then he snapped back saying "You are going back to the waterpark" and I refused citing the first amendment and how I willingly worked at a waterpark to get some money back in 2024 when I was 15.

My dad blew over the edge and said "You don't have rights." which left me speechless and then my sister (late-13 F) came in and defended him even though I clearly had rights due to the constitution applying to everyone in many different scenarios and this was one of them.

People involved (upd-April 25th)

Me (17 M)
Entitled Dad (40-55 M)

Sister (13 F)

My non-entitled Mom (37-50 F)

Steam friend (22 M)

That is basically all that I have right now and this is a developing situation. There is more but I prefer not to say it because of the vile nature of it and that its political

I am willing to answer what yall may ask about this but I'm not online everyday so ofc don't expect me to reply sometimes.