u/Haunting-Draw-8394

Can you guys name filtered water dispensers around BME?

These students seem to drink tap water which my Asian soul cannot.

I feel like he is using this as an excuse to be lazy and not work and delving too much into this excuse that he is so sad right now. I mean my grandpa aged 80 but he passed away quite suddenly, so I understand it might be too sudden for him. I was sad for a week when we gathered up and mourned but I then accepted the fact and moved on. His siblings and even my grandma is accepting his death gracefully but my dad is the only one typing stuff in the family group chat, drinking and being lazy.

He was never the emotional type. He is narcissistic and he never really showed his true emotions. He thinks emotions are weak. So I am also the type to not show much emotions. And I am feeling so weird about the fact he is just being drunk and crying in the living room. Its my first time seeing him cry and it just feels weird. I mean its not a young boy who lost his healthy dad or anything. It was something that was expected considering how he accompanied him with hospital visits.

He has been unemployed for 5 years now and does real estate stuff which does bring in good amount of money. But he has so much free time in hand and spends his most time just scrolling on social media and laying on his bed. My mother is devastated when she comes home from work, tired, and sees my father just laying on his bed naked with some worn-down panties on. Isnt jt so weird he goes around home with his panties on without anything else? Like when I see tiktok of teens and when their parents get into the frame, they are always dressed.

Like why cant he be more ambitious and use the time for something more and bigger. My mother buys all of the groceries with her money. He is so cheap and only pays for monthly utilities and bit of groceries.

I just expected him to turn his miserable life around after this incident. But no. And it doesnt seem like he will change in the future. He even calls himself a nobody. He has no friends and almost everyone dislikes him because of his just bad nature. He is just a bad person. Selfish. Only thinks of himself. Doesnt really help others without seeing benefit on his end. And thinks he is better than everyone around him just because he got a masters from a university in a foreign country. It was rare in my country at his time ig. And he participates in kitchen stuff and nags us about just little small stuff. I hate how inconsiderate he is of others time because he has just too much in his hand. Like I expect someone in his age (regardless of gender) to be talking about business and scaling it rather than a freaking dent in the kitchen island or a broken cup. And he only cooks. No cleaning. I am in my ambitious age so I just hate it.

I just hate my dad and I dont think I could be sad as much as my dad is for grandma if he passes away.

So I am not really asking for anything from you guys. Just made on mixing (reconciling?) my hate for father and passing of my grandfather.

I'm a scholarship student. Whats the scholarship dorm like? Can I not reside in scholarship dorm but university dorm. Ofc I'll pay.

Or should I just get the €100 and get a private room

Hello. It's been 2 years since I started my own academy after being a private tutor for a while. Since I'm going to study abroad for 3 years, I need to leave my business and manage everything far away.

Teachers and materials are not a problem. But I am worrying about who should manage everything here in-person while I am away. My co-founder already has a long-running academy and my parents are not very trustable or experienced.

Find a manager? What would be the smartest move here?

I applied for b4a in the winter session. I didn't get any scholarships. So I of course want my €3400 euro back. Idc about the €250 administration fee. At least give me back €3000 something.

But they announced the results on June 9. It was actually the 17th of June when I emailed them. So on 17, I kept checking my admissions portal and email. And there was no notification. So I thought that maybe they are taking their time announcing the results and each student is getting their scholarship at a different time. At this point, I didn't know that I had to make a decision of getting a refund or not by the 19th of June.

The reasoning for my thought is that my friend who had gotten a full scholarship told me she got her results VIA EMAIL ON JUNE 9. She got a full scholarship. Obviously I would expect us to receive it at the same time. But we didn't.

I became anxious and started researching. Mind you, I didnt even know how to see the scholarship results (the fact that it was on the you@b diary). This is something they should have guided us through. And when I finally found out how to view the results, I search for the link. But it says link expired on the website. So I wait for their notification. Around this time, my grandfather passed away. So I couldnt constantly check everything (and im not supposed to). After stabilizing around 29th of June, I finally see my results that I hadnt gotten any scholarship. And no explanation at all. Usually universities give out explanations like slot was full or I didnt send out documents or the documents were inadequate. But nothing. Just a letter without even a date stating I didnt get any scholarship. So I dont even know when ny results got out actually.

I write an email to get refund of the first installment I paid. But they say the deadline passed and they cannot give the refund back. But the deadline ( that stufents should make a refund request within 2 days after results announcement, ehich is the 19th since original announcement date was 17th). But this info is only available on the masters degree section. No email notif, no admission portal notif. Not even anything on the letter. Just a tiny little statement on the masters degree section for the scholarship that im not of course going to check.

Not only that I have to stay in my home country to look after my sister whose health is not in a stable situation.

So what should i do? Its my entire year income that I earned during my senior year. Not only that, the costs of translation is so much.

This is so hard during my mourning for my grandpa