u/HauntingOil3491

Same as title. I got randomly logged out and now I’m not allowed to log in with my apple ID. I have an exam in 13 days and need help urgently

There’s no one around me who is talking to me about this. I am so anxious, I heard protesters are being lathi charged. I can’t stop checking the news and Instagram.

ETA: apparently CJP representatives are going to meet the govt

ETA: they just picked up Dipke

So the news of the NEET protest and the hunger strike has finally reached my parents now that the mainstream media is covering the protests, and my parents who are hardcore followers of a certain party, have obviously begun their agenda, the usual “anti national” bullshit. I have just stopped engaging in politics with them because there is no point changing their opinions, but their opinions about this protest have made me so angry that I left the room and locked myself in the moment they saw the news so that they don’t try to talk to me about this.

I feel like I’m invisible to people. I don’t have many friends, very few people want to talk to me, especially those of the opposite gender… I’ve been feeling like I’m invisible and stuck in a cage for the last few years and especially when I compare myself to others. My birthday was recently and nobody really celebrated it except for my parents. I feel like people hate me. I thought it was because of my weight but i see bigger girls thriving.. I’ve never been the kind to have a lot of friends or socialise with a lot of people since my childhood and I feel like I’m way behind most people in this regard. Sorry for venting, i just wanted to know if anyone else feels like this

I have a huge competitive exam coming up in a month and a half and all my notes are on it. I’m freaking out. Please help

Please do not choose this profession. It is not worth it. Browse the sub and you will see posts about doctors and other staff getting assaulted by a corporator and you will see people supporting them too. You will see posts about UG students, interns, residents being brutally bullied and pushed to suicide. You will see surgeons dying of sudden cardiac arrest because we neglect our health so much in the training years.

And to all of you who believe that we are doing a noble service - there are a number of patients who just think of you as their servant, there are a number of people who think they are entitled to VIP service because they know a politician. And if you are a woman - even worse. Every woman doctor I know has been called “sister” in their life. People just refuse to see us as doctors. And the sheer volume of scut work, the lack of infrastructure and institutional support just makes you lose your empathy for the people who need it the most. How can I care for someone who is in one of the scariest and vulnerable stages of life in the hospital when I am burnt out, exhausted, sleepless, hungry and depressed myself?

Unlike lawyers, pilots or even nurses, doctors have no unity. No one will protect you when you suffer. In fact it will be fellow doctors who will constantly try to make your life a living hell. Look what happened to the doctor in RG kar, did she receive any justice? The oncologist who got stabbed in Chennai? The intern who was murdered in a PHC in Kerala?

You will have to compete with quacks and others who will admister wrong care and when the patient comes in a critical state, who will be blamed? The “western” doctor.

You thought neet ug was a disaster this year? It is only the beginning. In 2024, the neet pg exam was cancelled the night before the exam. Postponed in 2025. Neet SS counselling is a disaster. FMGE had a 12% pass rate this year.

Moving abroad is not the answer either - USMLE is getting tougher every year with people facing visa issues even after matching, UK passed a bill to prioritize their own graduates and people who completed PLAB are either moving to Aus or US. Our degrees aren’t even recognized as valid in countries like Singapore.

Please do not choose MBBS. Do not choose MBBS.

Choose MBA or something and earn well in life, travel and take care of your health rather than suffering till you are 50 years old to earn money, and then not having enough health to see the fruits of your labor. I wish someone had told me this when I had cleared neet ug, especially as a first gen doctor but I got brainwashed by the words of “noble profession” - now it hurts to see my non medico friends earn lakhs, choose their work life balance and travel the world while I am being scolded and tortured in this profession.

I wish I could tell you some positives of this profession but I’m so burnt out and angry that I really cannot find any.

I am still dependent on my parents financially however I have some money saved up from an internship. I told my parents I would buy something with my money, something that they don’t agree with, and they got so offended. They started saying that if they had referred to their money as their money only, i wouldn’t have had the “freedom” i have today. I am so freaked out. I don’t know how else they are going to control me next. I am giving an exam in August and I will hopefully be out of the hpuse in a new college by the end of the year.

Cabin service suspended. Please help me. I’m freaking out

(Spoiler)

I feel so bad that I didn’t understand the meaning of the movie until after I watched it and read some reviews and online posts. I went in knowing that it was a movie about incels and the horrors of dating today but when I walked out of the movie, I didn’t understand why Bear was labelled as a predator until I read the symbolism and the meanings online, and now it’s so creepy to me. Also, I heard that a s*x scene was cut, which was crucial to understanding how he was a predator. I feel terrible that i couldn’t comprehend it at first and that I’m just bad at finding “hidden meanings” and details in movies in general
ETA: I understood that at the end of the film when bear dies Nikki comes out of her “trance” (for the lack of a better word) and saw her 3 friends dead, one of them disfigured, she breaks down from the horror of what happened to her.. I thought that people were referring to bear taking advantage of nikki when she kissed him for the first time as being predatory (which it is) but the hidden meanings made me understand how creepy it is. There were no subtitles in my show either so I struggled to understand the conversation at parts too

I saw my ex on Hinge yesterday. My ex dumped me three years ago after lying to me for half our relationship that he had feelings for me, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me, when he actually did not mean any of it (by his own admission) And seeing the lies he had spouted on his profile broke my heart. He cared about everyone else in the world except for me. He made time and space for everyone in his life except for me. He treated his exes and the girl he had a crush on better than me. I cried about it after a long time today. I cried because even after three years, i have not forgotten how he made me feel. How he broke my trust, how he made me feel like the worst person in the world just for the crime of loving him genuinely, and seeking the same love back from him. He was my first relationship and I sometimes feel like I fucked up, that it was my fault that he treated me so poorly, that he never bothered to contact me after the breakup (even though I blocked him everywhere because my friends told me to). I don’t think I will ever be loved, I don’t think I can ever love or trust someone else again. I don’t think I deserve to be loved. And maybe it’s high time i come to terms with it.

I have been on hinge for the past 24 hours and here are some of my icks in a profile. Some of these are not bad per se but they are so unoriginal and bland that it makes me reject immediately:

- long drive
- having pictures of people other than yourself on your profile
- shirtless gym rat photos
- ⁠”spontaneous”
- ⁠insert random sitcom name
- ⁠using the word “vibe” as a verb
- ⁠using your pet as a substitute for a personality
- “late night talks”
- “long walks”
- pictures in front of cars/bikes
- being overly sexual

My instagram algorithm is filled with couples and it makes me feel so lonely. I’m sitting at home preparing for a competitive exam and not socializing much (i don’t have a lot of friends either) so the loneliness is hitting hard. I am a bit on the bigger side too so i feel ugly and disgusting because i don’t think anyone would want to be with me. I had a boyfriend 3 years ago who left me because he “lost feelings” for me. I feel so hopeless and alone

I’m grateful that it happened. Seeing 5 million followers in 3 days made me feel a little less alone in feeling suffocated and trapped, feeling helpless against every single system in the country which has failed us, be it education, health, women’s safety, infrastructure…. It gave me a little glimmer of hope for the future even if it is false and temporary.

I’m so scared right now. Flying air india a321. Can this plane handle the rain? What if lightning strikes? Please help

My parents expect me to get married and move into my in law’s house and adjust to their customs, just because my mother also did the same. When I opposed this and said that I didn’t want to live with my in laws, they said that they didn’t raise me with correct values and said that I would be disrespecting my in laws. So they care about their reputation in front of unknown people, and they care about an unknown man being separated from his parents than their own daughter. They said that later if there’s friction between me and my husband, they will not be able to help me. I feel sick. I feel trapped and I regret choosing to stay in this country just because of my parents. I wish I had left. Why do women even choose to get married? They also said what would i do if my brother’s wife said the same thing and left them on the street, so not living with parents = abandoning them?