u/Head_Significance769

Men who are good looking, earn well, successful in their careers, chilling in life, no other family or personal issues, is it easy for them to do arranged marriage? Is it like that whenever they feel like marrying, they don't have to worry about marriage much as they will get beautiful/desired bride whenever they want to?

I know it's not same for all, everyone has their own experiences, but just wanted to know generally, if this person is you, or someone u know?

Question is not about actually getting your dream partner but how easy do u feel it is for you or for someone, has been this arranged marriage process?

This is my first time planning to travel solo with a strrangers group wanderon, female here. I have 0 idea in travelling.

Have shortlisted a leh ladakh packgae from wanderon, it costs 30k without flights, 8D. Flights from delhi to leh are so expensive right now, costing around 10k one way. Making my budget total 50k. Plus the actuvities I'll pay may cost maybe around 5k-ish, idk just a random number i thought, making it ~55k. The package has no batch date, but fits my itinerary well. There is another package of 35k, 9D, but it has umlung la, i don't wanna go there.

I have long holidays from 28 aug to 6 sept, and wanted to go somewhere where I couldn't take parents, like leh (due to altitude issues). So I have this long stretch of 10 days, but 55k-60k for leh leadakh with wanderon, I feel this is too much. My friend is going international malaysia for these days and his total budget is 70k, including flighta and everything, I really don't feel like paying 60k for this domestic one.

Honestly speaking, leh ladakh from pictures doesn't look very pleasing to me, as I am not into barren lands and deserts, I am more into greenery and sun. But thought to experience it one as some people say it's the best they have seen!

I just want to make best use of time I have and take first step, but feeling no other option in this time frame... Experienced travellers what should i do?

Recently turned 30, 30F here. I just haven't travelled at all in my life. It apways has been studies and home and just nothing. Anytime I ask anyone either they have their own plans with someone else or they just always deny. Being a girl in India, it's difficult to make plans for myself with no experience at all.

It's not that I wanna travel solo, I would love to travel with friends but reality is not like what I would like it to be. I don't wanna waste time anymore, so solotravel is more like out of no choice. I would love to travel with people in age group of 25-35, with girls also there.

I am just done waiting for things or people to be aligned by universe, it never has in these years. Parents just always have something or the other to not go, also they like to sit in one place and not like to roam around much, not my type of travelling. I have health, time, money everything for travel now, and don't wanna waste my youth time... but I don't know what to do, where to start.

It's not safe in India to travel alone. I have so many questions. Who will take carebof my luggage and essentials when I'm not around, what about places with no network, how do I trust a driver and book a cab with me alone. These are the things and doubts I always get crippled with. I tried checking some group packages like wanderon for domestic travels, but they are just too pricey, without even flights, not at all worth it. I am not sure of how crowd will be, I don't wanna be in all boys groups, and not with nashedis.

I am absolutely clueless where to start with even without compromising on safety. People have been travelling to amazing places and international to such offbeat places as well, and I'm just stuck in life.

Anyone who has gone through this? I seriously don't know where to even begin with...

I am 30F with 51.5 kg weight. I had 60kg weight 2 years ago. But lost it due to lifestyle and stress I guess without doing anything. I have no power left in my arms. I joined gym to gain some strength. Even after regular 3 weeks I am still not able to workout on machines with even 1 weight. Could only with that default free weight only. I am obviously not expecting any drastic changes in such small period but still seeing not improving and no sign of progress. Is it normal to not progress?

I am an introvert and don't care much about visibility. I like to do my work with whatever perfection i can give to it. I don't like leading. And honestly I don't even feel in myself like I could lead. I am not into giving sessions, or doing something architecture based or very techie stuff, I just do product tasks. I am not into teaching and explaining stuff to large audience.

And all I hear in feedbacks that with this much of experience they want more from me. And except doing my job, I don't believe I can contribute anything else much. I am just not wired that way.

Whereas I see people just like me (not talking of brilliant people) with same or even less yoe into leads, sde 3, EMs, and seeing myself only as SDE-2 has been very shameful to me, that I haven't even updated anywhere publicly.