What is your opinion on this? Or, "You'll find someone when you aren't looking."
I personally hate hearing this but maybe it's true. I try to look for a partner or for friends and I am still stuck in the same lonely place. But I don't know. I'm just curious if you guys feel like you'll be less lonely if you just stop looking for friends. But humans just have the desire to be with others.
I found some charms that have meaning to me and a bracelet that would go well with the charms. I figure paperclip is simple and fits them all. It's bending but not too much. I think it just happens. Then it was a bit too small so I had some spare solid gold jump rings and used two of those to extend it. I had my jeweler put all of the charms and pieces on as I acquired them he was very helpful.
I always wanted a gold charm bracelet but some of them from actual brands are just too bulky and loud looking for me. And I just want to share this bracelet because I really love it. Please be kind this is my favorite bracelet. Each charm is 14k gold and all components.
I used 16s on the ends instead of 14s. Usually my lash map is 14, 14, 12, 12, 10. This week I did 16, 16, 14, 14, 12. I don't really think they're too much but like once you get used to lashes you want more eventually.
So I used the pink tube veyes lash bond and seal it's black. I used wispy invisible band ardell lashes. I did my lashes on Thursday. It's now Tuesday. I am going through a lot of depression so I have cried multiple times every day since Thursday when I did my lashes. They're still on. On Sunday, I got baptized. And I cried my entire baptism day, the lashes are still on. I cried today one lash finally came off.
I'm not sure if it's the lashes since they're so weightless or the glue, I sometimes use different clusters and the glue doesn't hold up as long. But I am so shocked it's almost a week with constant wet eyes and they're still on.
I am posting here after finding success twice. I say "success" because I have met people here that I've liked a lot, it didn't work out, but for a while it did, things just happen.
I am Mila, I am 26 years old. I didn't plan what to write or anything so I'll just write what is on my mind right now. I have been single for a bit now and I realize every day that I do want to try finding a partner who is compatible with me, someone I'm attracted to in many ways. If any questions are left unanswered just ask me :)
I am a Christian and a conservative, I would prefer someone with these same values.
Before I go into talking about myself, I'll explain what I'm looking for. I would like to meet a guy that has enough time for me. Someone who has the space and capacity to get to know someone deeply. I want a guy who is physically attractive and has depth. I like guys who are enthusiastic about speaking to their partner. Someone who will not make me feel anxious to ask for attention. I like to play video games so maybe someone who would want to game with me. I play on steam. I want someone who is seeking a genuine loving relationship, commitment, and connection.
I don't mind long distance because airplanes exist and I have free will. There are so many people on this earth, and I believe in God. I am not sure if he has someone for me, but I think the odds of my person being down the street are kinda slim. I am open to distance and very willing to make anything work.
I will describe a bit about me, and then my physical type. I am 5'0". I am 130lbs. I have dark brown curly hair which I'm actually about to straighten maybe I'm not sure yet. I listed a photo of myself.
I am into white guys. I like tall guys. Any hair color is fine. I'm not too into facial hair but if you're cute we could work. I like guys with hair I'll be honest. My age range is 24-30 depending on maturity. I have dated older men, but right now that just hasn't seemed to align with my preferences. I am into men with a normal to athletic build. Attraction is very important to me, if you don't fit these preferences and decide to reach out anyhow, I won't respond. I am genuinely seeking a loving commitment and I just want to filter between men that are actually what I'm looking for to make things easier on myself. Replies that don't fit my preferences is a red flag to me, I think it shows you don't respect my wants.
I have written a lot already. I guess I should mention the qualities about me that are typical dealbreakers to make this more smooth. I have a lot of tattoos, visible on my arms and one on my chest. I have two dogs and would not be able to move to a different country without much planning and serious consideration.
Dealbreakers for me: Men with children, non-monogamy, overweight, not willing to travel eventually, has not thought about whether long distance will work for them, not willing to put effort into a lasting commitment. Also this is random but men who lick their fingers clean after eating instead of using a napkin/towel. Sorry random but that's my main pet peeve. I really value cleanliness.
Please be willing to send a photo of yourself, as I mentioned attraction does matter to me.
I am in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. I am 26 and starting med school soon. When I moved into my apartment, I found this puppy. Her name is Sasha. I am extremely sad to be posting this, but I don’t know what else to do.
I was walking my older dog (8) last fall when a big dog ran up to him wanting to play. She followed us all the way home. I fed her, gave her water she was so hungry and thirsty. I went back to the area I found her, and she had broken off from a harness attached to a fence. Living outside because she had an accident in the house. I knocked on the owners door for so long, they came out finally and did not want her at all. I have had her with us and my cat ever since because I am afraid to take her to a shelter.
She is 1 year old, she loves my 8 year old pittie and my 8 year old cat. I have been trying my best to handle both of them, but it is hard because I am single, I am poor so double the food is very stressful for me. I also am trying to become a doctor and 2 babies was never in my plan. I have grown attached to her, and she plays with my older dog and my cat all the time I know they love her.
I live in an apartment and she needs a yard to play in. She pulls on the leash and she really wants to play with other dogs. When I have treats it’s much easier to direct her attention. She is also very smart and learns fast. I want her to have space to run, and someone with more financial resources so she can have a lot of toys and a better life.
Please be kind in the comments, I never meant to keep her but this is extremely hard for me. Financially and logistically with school, it will be nearly impossible for me especially because I have no family and no help. This is not really a “just spend more time” situation or that I am not trying hard enough, I wish that I could keep her and this is going to really break me down mentally. But I am already depressed and stressed with my education, finances. I am also a veteran and disabled. I really just want her to go to the best home for a dog as young as her with so much energy and love, she is so friendly.
Edit: I forgot to add she is a big girl maybe 80-90+ lbs. she’s way heavier than my pittie and he is 75lbs.
Update: Some people have asked me to post an Amazon wishlist. Thank you guys for all of the support. I am trying to keep her as long as I can and take a lot of the burden off of myself, until she can get to an amazing family or rescue. I added many things, but please don’t feel obligated to get everything or anything. What she needs most is food and training treats. I am still waiting on emails from the rescues I contacted, and I hope they can have me as a foster or provide some help with her care as well. If this is not allowed mods pls delete, or I can message and go through proper channels.
Here is the Amazon wishlist for Sasha: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2SDAFD72A5XDX?ref_=wl_share
I am from Pennsylvania, I am 26F. I am *attempting* to date as well, but it’s not going too well. I am looking for people who are chill, like to chat a lot. You don’t have to be from PA I have had a couple LDR and I really liked them.
I play video games mostly Disney dreamlight valley and Baldur’s gate 3 on steam. I’ll play mostly any game I just am not that into shooters. I have 2 dogs. 1 cat. I graduated college a few days ago. I was in the army for 6 years. I don’t have many hobbies besides watching tv, video games, playing with my pets. I also like marksmanship not sure if I’m allowed to say that in a simpler way.
My fav genre is Metal. My fav bands are Sleep token, Bullet for my valentine, pierce the veil, MCR, knocked loose, etc. etc.
I am a Christian I volunteer with my church a lot as much as I can. I don’t mind being friends with non-Christians, but I would only like to date Christian men it’s not personal.
If anyone likes the same things as me or wants a gf, please feel free to reach out. I could say some more things about me but I’m not sure what to say right now. I am not looking for NSFW. Just a boyfriend maybe. I know I should say more but I’m so tired of posting this lol
I forgot to say my age range is mid 20s to late 30s but I also have been into some 40 year olds at times. Not too strict as long as you’re handsome. And I like athletic build. I am into funny guys but not guys that try to be funny. I like blondes mostly but brown hair is cool too. I don’t really care. I am into tall guys, it’s not personal. I also like cute guys.
Me: 5’0”, 130lbs (scroll down there are 3 pics)
Here is me https://imgur.com/a/JiRJZpS if you hit me up please be willing to send a pic.
- ALL low effort messages get ignored.
- ALL men with NSFW comment history get ignored.
I have been trying to date for a while now. Today I just ended things with a guy I had been seeing for about 2 weeks after he said some pretty horrible things to me. Earlier in the day he was so nice to me and this is the first time I’ve seen him upset, but it felt like a switch just flipped.
I want to continue dating and getting to know people but after so many failed attempts it feels like there’s no point to keep going. This goes for relationship and friendship betrayals. I don’t want to keep opening up to people just to have things I said in a vulnerable moment thrown back in my face.
Whenever I post here about anything, people always assume that I must be in the situation I’m in because of something I did. No specific example, because it just always happens.
Does anyone think you’re the reason for your loneliness? I have always been lonely because I grew up in an abusive household and my biological dad abandoned me. Wondering why you think you’re lonely.
I was dating a guy for a bit, I am 26F, he is 28M. He is always so sweet to me and I honestly thought he adored me. Today, we started talking about a new neighbor I have who told me he was gay, and we hung out for about a week, and then after the week he told me he’s actually bisexual and began to hit on me non stop, and would not take no for an answer. When I said no, he would begin to knock on my door, my wall, text me threatening messages, etc. Eventually I had to get the cops involved.
I mentioned to the guy I was seeing that I feel like the neighbor pretended to be gay just to get closer to me. And then admit later he’s actually bisexual.
The guy I was seeing didn’t respond at all, then there was a complete change in his voice. He sounded really offended and just extremely uncomfortable. I was so confused and finally I just asked “do you like men?” And he didn’t answer. Then he became so offended, started calling me a horrible person, that I have issues, bad person, etc.
I kept asking where this reaction came from? What I said that upset him so badly? He never actually answered whether or not he likes men. He’s a virgin (I am not) which I didn’t think anything of because we’re both Christian. He’s also never had a girlfriend.
Did he get so offended because he does like men? I don’t think men get that offended just from being asked if they like men. I told him that I wasn’t for the name calling and that we are done.
I graduated college yesterday it took me 8 years because I have severe ADHD. I’m 26. I wish my family stayed to take pictures with me but I looked around for them after and they left. I am going to sit my phone against the wall tomorrow and take pictures with my dogs in my cap and gown. Im the first in my family to graduate. I wish I had a better mom or I wish I had a dad.
I know my baby is probably a mix of many, but here are just a few clues. I will be doing embark on her soon because she’s a mystery lol.
- She turned 1 in February
-She is already slightly over 100lbs
-Very wrinkly and loose skin
- Super high energy and super clingy
-Webbed paws
- Dew claws