Ik heb een bachelor fiscale economie WO
ongeveer twee jaar ervaring als werkstudent
ik heb een aanbod gekregen als junior tax advisor met een salaris van 2960 obv fulltime
Dit klinkt voor mij heel laag aangezien het minimumloon ongeveer 2600 is, en ben daarom benieuwd naar ervaringen?
Ik ben Marokkaans, Spaans en Nederlands. Ik ben opgegroeid in het buitenland, maar heb in Nederland gestudeerd.
Het gevoel dat ik heb, is dat ik me niet echt volledig thuis voel in één van deze werelden. Hoewel ik moslim ben, voel ik weinig aansluiting met de Marokkaanse cultuur en kan ik me daar vaak niet in vinden.
Binnen de Nederlandse cultuur kan ik bepaalde aspecten erg waarderen, maar tegelijkertijd ervaar ik ook een afstand, onder andere door mijn religie en de meer collectivistische waarden die ik vanuit mijn Spaanse en Marokkaanse achtergrond heb meegekregen.
Met mijn Spaanse achtergrond heb ik weinig directe verbinding, ik heb er slechts enkele zomers doorgebracht en spreek de taal helaas niet.
Daardoor merk ik dat ik me soms verdwaald of tussen werelden in voel. Ik merk dat ik me nergens echt thuis voel, maar ook dat ik bij alle groepen vaak als buitenstaander word gezien.
Ik ben vooral benieuwd of meer mensen dit zo ervaren?
I come from a relatively wealthy family (upper class), and I’m genuinely grateful for the opportunities and privileges that come with that. However, my younger sister has always received significantly more support than I.
Until recently, this mostly meant things like designer bags, jewelry, unlimited spending money, and having her private university education fully paid for. Now, she has also been given real estate and a company.
Since I was 15, I’ve always had side jobs and have largely provided for myself. Even during my studies, I paid for my own expenses and took out student loans to cover the rest, debts that I’m still carrying while continuing my education.
My sister, on the other hand, has never had a job apart from mandatory internships. I know she has also been given a substantial amount of savings, and now this additional support.
What makes this especially difficult is that I’ve always done a lot for my parents. I’m always there when they need help, I’ve never been a difficult child, and I’ve consistently made an effort to support them. Yet it feels as though I do the most for my parents while receiving the least in return.
I’m not jealous of my younger sister, but I might resent her for not standing up for me, instead she acts spoiled and as if it is her right. I can’t help feeling unsettled by the situation. Whenever I’ve tried to discuss it, I’m ignored.
I also can’t shake the feeling that money is sometimes used as a means of control in my case, whereas with my sister it seems to be used to make her life easier.
I’m curious whether anyone else has experienced something similar. If so, did the dynamic ever change, and how did you cope with it?
Hi,
I’m going to the French Open this week for the second time. When I went last year, I had little time to explore properly, but since I’m going alone this time, I’m excited to do so.
Any recommendations? Unfortunately, the tour is already sold out…
Hi,
I’m going to the French Open this week for the second time. When I went last year, I had little time to explore properly, but since I’m going alone this time, I’m excited to do so.
Any recommendations? Unfortunately, the tour is already sold out…
I'm pursuing my masters at the moment, and would like to work in Switzerland once I graduate.
I'm from NL. Speak Dutch (C2), English (C1) and French (B1-B2).
I'm particularly interest in VAT taxation.