u/Hot-Protection6057

okay so i met this guy in early may and we started talking almost every day. we texted a lot, called each other a lot and everything felt really easy and natural.

i was going through a stressful period in my life though and my anxiety was pretty bad.

one day he didn’t text me for 2 days. i know that doesn’t sound like much but at the time i convinced myself he probably wasn’t interested anymore and i decided to end things before getting more attached.

so i told him i didn’t think we should keep talking. he immediately blocked me. a few days later i regretted it and reached out from another account. i apologized, then apologized again the next day, then tried to explain myself. eventually i admitted that i liked him. he read everything but never replied. after that i deleted the messages and decided to leave him alone.

now here’s the confusing part.

a few days later i noticed he unblocked my main account.

he still hasn’t texted me.

i haven’t texted him either.

what would you make of this?

why unblock someone if you don’t want to talk to them?

okay so i met this guy in early may and we started talking almost every day. we texted a lot, called each other a lot and everything felt really easy and natural.

i was going through a stressful period in my life though and my anxiety was pretty bad.

one day he didn’t text me for 2 days. i know that doesn’t sound like much but at the time i convinced myself he probably wasn’t interested anymore and i decided to end things before getting more attached.

so i told him i didn’t think we should keep talking. he immediately blocked me. a few days later i regretted it and reached out from another account. i apologized, then apologized again the next day, then tried to explain myself. eventually i admitted that i liked him. he read everything but never replied. after that i deleted the messages and decided to leave him alone.

now here’s the confusing part.

a few days later i noticed he unblocked my main account.

he still hasn’t texted me.

i haven’t texted him either.

what would you make of this?

why unblock someone if you don’t want to talk to them?

okay so i met this guy in early may and we started talking almost every day. we texted a lot, called each other a lot and everything felt really easy and natural.

i was going through a stressful period in my life though and my anxiety was pretty bad.

one day he didn’t text me for 2 days. i know that doesn’t sound like much but at the time i convinced myself he probably wasn’t interested anymore and i decided to end things before getting more attached.

so i told him i didn’t think we should keep talking. he immediately blocked me. a few days later i regretted it and reached out from another account. i apologized, then apologized again the next day, then tried to explain myself. eventually i admitted that i liked him. he read everything but never replied. after that i deleted the messages and decided to leave him alone.

now here’s the confusing part.

a few days later i noticed he unblocked my main account.

he still hasn’t texted me.

i haven’t texted him either.

what would you make of this?

why unblock someone if you don’t want to talk to them?

I (22 F) met a guy in early May. From the very beginning, everything felt surprisingly easy. We texted every day, had long phone calls almost daily, and the conversation flowed naturally.
At the same time, I was going through a stressful period in my life and dealing with a lot of anxiety unrelated to him.
One day he disappeared for about two days and stopped texting. I didn’t text him either. Rationally, I know two days isn’t a long time, but because of my anxiety, I started convincing myself that he probably wasn’t that interested and that I should end things before getting more attached.
Looking back, I think my decision was impulsive and emotional. Instead of asking what was going on, I told him I didn’t think we should continue communicating.
He immediately blocked me.
A few days later I regretted how I handled things. I reached out from another account, apologized, then apologized again the next day. Later I tried to explain myself and eventually admitted that I had feelings for him. He read the messages but never responded.
After that I deleted the messages and decided to let the situation go.
A few days later, however, I noticed that he had unblocked my main account. He still hasn’t contacted me, and I haven’t contacted him either.
My question is: what would you make of this situation?
Does unblocking someone usually mean anything, or does it often mean nothing at all? If you were in his position, what would be going through your mind?

at the beginning of may, i met a guy on a dating app. surprisingly, everything developed very naturally. we talked every day, had long phone calls, and got along really well. he lives in another city and said he was planning to fly out to see me in june.

after a while, he started talking about love and making plans for our future together. i liked hearing those things, but i also felt like we were moving too fast. i wanted us to meet in person first, so i sometimes tried to slow things down a bit. he seemed hurt by that and would get upset.

as time went on, i learned more about him online and found things that actually made me like him even more. at the same time, though, he started texting and calling less and less. eventually, he disappeared for two days without contacting me at all.

i'm already going through a stressful period in my life, so his sudden distance made me anxious. i started worrying that he had lost interest. i reached out first and asked how he was doing, but he would take an hour or more to reply between messages.

i think i became too emotionally invested and took it all very personally. eventually, i told him that our communication was affecting me emotionally and that maybe it would be better to end things. he didn't reply. instead, he blocked me.

at first, i thought i had made the right decision. but two days later, i messaged him from another account and apologized. he didn't read it. the next day i messaged him again and got no response. a few days later, i explained why i had reacted that way, and still nothing. then i admitted that i had feelings for him. he read that message but never replied.

i can't stop thinking about this situation. do you think there's any chance he'll ever contact me again? and why would someone who was talking about love and making future plans suddenly disappear like this?

i really regret what i did and still don't understand what came over me :((((((((((((