u/Hot_Rabbit_3501

After a bit of scrolling, I think I am ready to talk about my sexuality.

Hello, I've been identifying as Asexual for very roughly a year now. After a bit of soul searching I realised that I am an asexual, but I am not 100% sure.

I am a virgin, but the imagery of people doing the wohoos is kinda grossing me out. I also can't imagine doing it with anyone else. When I'm talking to my friends, I sometimes say "They look cute/hot" about certain characters, but I actually never mean it. They just seem conventionally attractive, but not desirable for me.

( I have fallen in love with real people multiple times, so I know I am not Aromantic.)

Generally, the view I have of wohoos is kinda... muddy. I tried reading one of those spicy books and it was a mistake. I had to skip passages and even chapters because it was grossing me out. They like do this, that, and here I am wondering how that is sanitary. Media make it seem so twisted, something desirable yet forbidden. I just don't get it.

I am not opposed to other people having wohoos with each other, just as long as I don't get to know about any of it I'm fine. I do enjoy watching fictional people's (OCs, game characters, etc.) relationships, but I only imagine them hugging/doing silly stuff like enjoying hobbies together.

Am I ace? Or am i just a confused pan/bi person?

I feel like I went off-topic. But I am posting this anyways, for currently unkown reasons. If you want to add your own opinion, do it. If you want to give me an answer, do it too. Literally any input will help at this point, because I am not sure if I can trust my 4 braincells up there.

Sorry for any possible spelling/grammar mistakes, I have autocorrect turned off.

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u/Hot_Rabbit_3501 — 16 days ago